posted December 13, 2019 10:42 PM            

Conjunct angles, the fasting moving entity in the natal chart and yours are aligned with hers. Incredible synchronicity and speaks to fate without question. I had this once and there was such a natural understanding between the person and I that I felt that we were identical twins or something, always in each others corners, always having each others backs, even having a "twin like" subtle language with each other that we spoke that no one else knew. So I'm a big fan of ASC conj ASC. So rare and so sweet when you can find this.

I think the fact that you've been in her life for so long is embedded in this synastry - her Sun and Merc are conjunct your IC! So it's almost like you guys are family - she's so comforting to you, you may have never felt more understood and loved unconditionally before in your life. She naturally provides these feelings without much effort at all.

Your Suns are sextile, another perfect element of compatibility and best friendship going on here.

Sun/Mars conjunction! Big fan of these personally. Interestingly enough she takes on the role of Mars (masculine principle) while you are the Moon (feminine principle), so she may come off like an alpha female to you, someone who will naturally take charge. Don't know if you've seen this character trait of hers yet, but she will be the leader in the relationship (if not outwardly then at least sexually, it should manifest in some way)

You guys have Moon opposite Moon (out of orb but the symbolism is important). I think that would definitely build attraction as you mention the chemistry. Her Moon is on your NN, so her alpha female personality is what you need to lean into more. Trust in her emotions, in her intuition, it will take you out of your Cancer/Capricorn/Libra t-square and be of the utmost character and spiritual growth for you

Her Mars square your Moon.. this can also be super hot. Curious what the Moon/Mars aspect looks like in the midpoint composite?

Your Saturn on her NN, classic. There's an age gap and you've known her forever so she could see you as some sort of father figure or someone she looks up to (note that this doesn't mean platonic, it can certainly an element of sexiness). Your maturity will put her on the path that she needs to be on, you're definitely here to teach her SOMETHING

Your Vertexes are conjunct which is incredible to me, I imagine you guys must get nervous/jittery around each other or something like this? Elaborate on how you think this manifests for you guys, I would love to know

Your Mars RX, but your Mars is exalted in Capricorn. Hmmm.. do you think you might be passive when it comes to pursuing people romantically? I think her Uranus conjunct your Mars might give you a confidence/motivation boost in general

Her Pluto completes your natural trine between your Sun and Jupiter, so she's a really transformative presence in your life and I think she'll be something of a good luck charm to you

Her Venus conjunct your Mercury - I see a lot of laughter here, adoration, you both find each other super interesting, could tell stories for hours maybe? If that doesn't manifest now it certainly will later

posted December 13, 2019 11:45 PM            

That "Alpha female" personality of her's is what irritates me the most. It's fine when I'm the one that starts something and she comes up and waits for me to invite her to join me, I haven't done anything with her yet, I keep pushing her away. I'm just not sure if being with her is really what I want to pursue, but I like our potential. She is married and has a kid though, but that hasn't stopped her from chasing me though. It's pretty hot, and I still can't get over how much of the same interests/hobbies we have just by observing/listening to her, we have the same tastes in music, video games, and movies. We really could be twins, especially with all our mirroring.

We don't really see each other much, but when we do, we don't even need words, we just get each other's actions and facial expressions. It's crazy! Just how well we can read each other like our favorite book!

posted December 16, 2019 04:39 PM            

The ruler of the ASC is in the 1st so definitely other people pick up on the romantic/friendly/sexual overtures between you both

Conjunct the South Node gives it a particularly karmic flavor, like everything about her is so weirdly familiar, maybe you have a lot of deja vu around her? If you believe in these sorts of things, you guys most likely made some sort of pact together in a past life to try and resolve some serious issues between you both the happened then.

This is happening in the romantic sign of Leo and she's married so maybe it's a question of loyalty (that being the theme you both need to work out in this life)? Possessiveness (H2) and communication (H3)?

Transit Pluto is currently on the composite Moon right now which could be why you kind of fervently want to figure out the "answers" between you and her, and the higher purpose of meeting. The transiting SN is also on the composite ASC, reiterating the fatedness and urgency you might feel at the moment

Transit Saturn and Pluto will be conjunct in January, pretty much right on the composite Moon. Definitely curious to see what will happen between you both then..

Also Pluto and Mars in the 5th continues to reaffirm my belief that you guys will be really sexually in thrall to each other

posted December 16, 2019 11:18 PM            

As I've said though, we haven't done anything physically intimate yet, unless you count having a tea-party together at her place😆

I'm not sure about the deja-vu thing, but when we're around each other, she'll come up to me and wait for me to invite her to join my activity like dancing, like she knows me/has known me all her life, again I've kept her away because of uncomfortable/non-beneficial circumstances for me or both of us. She's cried one of those times, but she got over it eventually and acts like it never happened, and I never make a big deal about it, or bring it up, so meh... Then, there's her Mom, when she's around, the first thing she'll do is talk to her Mom about things, like our "starring contests", that we constantly have, and she'll say something along the lines of, "Maybe he likes you?" And it'll trigger her "Alpha-Female" traits, she'll come up to me, and I'll push her away/reject her because I can't stand women making moves on me like she does, that's my job😆

Maybe, it's our IC's conjunct that aids in the Deja-vu. Is that really like having Moon conjunct Moon? That's what some others on here have said on this forum, but, I'm not sure, I've always thought it was the core of our essence/souls that are coming together, especially with her Sun and Mercury conjunct our IC's, and My Moon Contra-Parallel her Sun, Mercury, and both our IC's.

What would be the difference between our conjunct IC's and her and her husband's Moons being conjunct? He has a very early Taurus Moon, plus he's an early Capricorn Ascendant, so their Moons are Ascendant to Descendant conjunction rulers. His Asc./Des. axis is just barely conjunct her Des./Asc. axis, how would that differ from our Asc./Asc. and Des./Des. conjunctions?