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Topic: Synastry and Composite, this man is my kryptonite but why?!
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Astrohippiegirl Knowflake Posts: 124 From: atlanta, ga, usa Registered: Feb 2014
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posted December 15, 2019 01:04 AM
Any takers on what could be the reason for the very strong and long lasting attraction between me and this man? We’ve know each other for over a decade but never tried to rekindle anything because of the drama and pain from when we were together when we were in our early 20’s. We are trying again and the feelings are so intense it’s unbearable. https://imgur.com/a/evtdXXJ
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Hikaru29 Knowflake Posts: 2425 From: Asia Registered: Nov 2018
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posted December 15, 2019 02:43 AM
You've a lot of nice house overlays including an emphasised composite 8th. Your Moon in his 7th, Sun in his 8th, Jupiter in his 4th. He has Sun in your 7th, Venus/Mercury in your 8th, Pluto in your 4th, Mars in your 5th. Venus/Mercury rule his 7th/8th houses. No wonder the romantic/sexual feelings are strong.cSun conjunct Moon is one of the best aspects to have. In the 8th house opposite Pluto. Very intense & intimate but also difficult to handle if you're not matured in handling your own plutonic tendencies, that's why you experienced all the drama/pain.
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Astrohippiegirl Knowflake Posts: 124 From: atlanta, ga, usa Registered: Feb 2014
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posted December 15, 2019 03:03 AM
quote: Originally posted by Hikaru29: You've a lot of nice house overlays including an emphasised composite 8th. Your Moon in his 7th, Sun in his 8th, Jupiter in his 4th. He has Sun in your 7th, Venus/Mercury in your 8th, Pluto in your 4th, Mars in your 5th. Venus/Mercury rule his 7th/8th houses. No wonder the romantic/sexual feelings are strong.cSun conjunct Moon is one of the best aspects to have. In the 8th house opposite Pluto. Very intense & intimate but also difficult to handle if you're not matured in handling your own plutonic tendencies, that's why you experienced all the drama/pain.
Thanks for the interpretation. I did notice we have the mutual 7th house overlays and boy oh boy that 8th house is a beast! I’ll just say the moment I saw him it was like a lightning bolt hit me! I hope with the composite being so 8th house heavy that we are both mature enough now to handle it, guess we will find out. IP: Logged |
Astrohippiegirl Knowflake Posts: 124 From: atlanta, ga, usa Registered: Feb 2014
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posted December 15, 2019 10:00 AM
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Astrohippiegirl Knowflake Posts: 124 From: atlanta, ga, usa Registered: Feb 2014
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posted December 17, 2019 09:41 PM
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Randall Webmaster Posts: 123082 From: From a galaxy, far, far away... Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 24, 2019 11:09 PM
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Randall Webmaster Posts: 123082 From: From a galaxy, far, far away... Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 30, 2019 05:09 PM
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todd Knowflake Posts: 3286 From: Registered: Jun 2009
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posted January 03, 2020 11:16 AM
it think this is because the vertex on the descendant and square to the Saturn/chiron opposition and with the venus/mars midpoint conjunct to the descendant.the vertex in a composite conjunct the descendant shows that you both have had very unusual/other worldly experience and feelings. different but similar in that these paranormal feelings tended to isolate you both ..that is nether of you felt anyone could understand what you experienced.but then you met and found that you could understand exactly the others strange realities. but with Saturn opposed to chiron, the nature of the relationship on this plane was very control oriented. that is one dominated the other must likely him over you. this is complicated because the venus/mars midpoint is also on the vertex. this shows again an almost supernatural sexual/emotional attraction. but the two impulses together, Saturn/ chiron(control-hate) and the mars/venus(love and pleasure) clashed with each other violently. when both pleasure and pain are strong in a relationship, you get a kind of psychotic connection . the desire to flee yet the need to stay and endure the pain and control. again adding the almost supernatural energy of the vertex and your reality together could have been out of conscious plane. todd IP: Logged |
Astrohippiegirl Knowflake Posts: 124 From: atlanta, ga, usa Registered: Feb 2014
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posted January 03, 2020 02:46 PM
quote: Originally posted by todd: it think this is because the vertex on the descendant and square to the Saturn/chiron opposition and with the venus/mars midpoint conjunct to the descendant.the vertex in a composite conjunct the descendant shows that you both have had very unusual/other worldly experience and feelings. different but similar in that these paranormal feelings tended to isolate you both ..that is nether of you felt anyone could understand what you experienced.but then you met and found that you could understand exactly the others strange realities. but with Saturn opposed to chiron, the nature of the relationship on this plane was very control oriented. that is one dominated the other must likely him over you. this is complicated because the venus/mars midpoint is also on the vertex. this shows again an almost supernatural sexual/emotional attraction. but the two impulses together, Saturn/ chiron(control-hate) and the mars/venus(love and pleasure) clashed with each other violently. when both pleasure and pain are strong in a relationship, you get a kind of psychotic connection . the desire to flee yet the need to stay and endure the pain and control. again adding the almost supernatural energy of the vertex and your reality together could have been out of conscious plane. todd
Hi Todd, Thanks so much for the interpretation I didn’t realize all the info about the midpoints of Venus/mars and Saturn/Chiron I guess that would explain the whirlwind of pain and passion that I’ve experienced with him. I do worry that maybe with all of the 8th house stuff going on in the composite that the relationship might be doomed to fail. Based on the synastry and composite what do you think the end result might be?
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Thefish Knowflake Posts: 220 From: Registered: Apr 2012
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posted January 04, 2020 05:03 AM
From what I can see, I see your ties to him with Saturn sextile sun but his Saturn isn’t aspected. The intensity for you has do with the overlays as mentioned but his Venus trining Pluto and the Sun in your water houses. There’s also an overload of 8th and 5th especially with Pluto in Scorpio in the 4th with Scorpio being the ruler of the 5th. On top of that is the aforementioned Pisces in Venus in your 8th house trining your Pluto which makes this connection very deep. Oh and if that was enough he’s got his Mars in your 5th in Pluto, which makes him essentially impossible to resist. Oh and your 5th house Saturn sextiles his Sun your 7th house to add glue from your end. IP: Logged |
Astrohippiegirl Knowflake Posts: 124 From: atlanta, ga, usa Registered: Feb 2014
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posted January 04, 2020 11:31 AM
quote: Originally posted by Thefish: From what I can see, I see your ties to him with Saturn sextile sun but his Saturn isn’t aspected. The intensity for you has do with the overlays as mentioned but his Venus trining Pluto and the Sun in your water houses. There’s also an overload of 8th and 5th especially with Pluto in Scorpio in the 4th with Scorpio being the ruler of the 5th. On top of that is the aforementioned Pisces in Venus in your 8th house trining your Pluto which makes this connection very deep. Oh and if that was enough he’s got his Mars in your 5th in Pluto, which makes him essentially impossible to resist. Oh and your 5th house Saturn sextiles his Sun your 7th house to add glue from your end.
Thanks for the interpretation. I always wondered since Pluto is generational would it still have the same impact with house placements? IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 123082 From: From a galaxy, far, far away... Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 10, 2020 10:43 PM
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todd Knowflake Posts: 3286 From: Registered: Jun 2009
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posted January 13, 2020 12:13 PM
quote: Originally posted by Astrohippiegirl: Hi Todd, Thanks so much for the interpretation I didn’t realize all the info about the midpoints of Venus/mars and Saturn/Chiron I guess that would explain the whirlwind of pain and passion that I’ve experienced with him. I do worry that maybe with all of the 8th house stuff going on in the composite that the relationship might be doomed to fail. Based on the synastry and composite what do you think the end result might be?
it is almost over. todd IP: Logged |
Astrohippiegirl Knowflake Posts: 124 From: atlanta, ga, usa Registered: Feb 2014
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posted January 13, 2020 12:54 PM
quote: Originally posted by todd: it is almost over. todd
Meaning our relationship is almost over? I’m a little scared by the statement.
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todd Knowflake Posts: 3286 From: Registered: Jun 2009
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posted January 14, 2020 05:59 PM
quote: Originally posted by Astrohippiegirl: Meaning our relationship is almost over? I’m a little scared by the statement.
I can't seem to pull your chart up now but there is a Jupiter/Neptune square which will be transited by the node in late January into February. this square usually shows a breakup and often is associated with deception. it is possible that he already is seeing someone else. todd IP: Logged |
Astrohippiegirl Knowflake Posts: 124 From: atlanta, ga, usa Registered: Feb 2014
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posted January 14, 2020 08:16 PM
quote: Originally posted by todd: I can't seem to pull your chart up now but there is a Jupiter/Neptune square which will be transited by the node in late January into February. this square usually shows a breakup and often is associated with deception. it is possible that he already is seeing someone else.todd
Well, that really sucks, I’ll have to learn to let go, it’s gonna be extremely difficult but oh well.
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Randall Webmaster Posts: 123082 From: From a galaxy, far, far away... Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 24, 2020 12:25 PM
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Astrohippiegirl Knowflake Posts: 124 From: atlanta, ga, usa Registered: Feb 2014
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posted February 20, 2020 11:50 PM
quote: Originally posted by todd: I can't seem to pull your chart up now but there is a Jupiter/Neptune square which will be transited by the node in late January into February. this square usually shows a breakup and often is associated with deception. it is possible that he already is seeing someone else.todd
Well you called it Todd...it’s finally over and it sucks, thanks for the warning by the way. IP: Logged |
todd Knowflake Posts: 3286 From: Registered: Jun 2009
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posted February 21, 2020 06:33 PM
quote: Originally posted by Astrohippiegirl: Well you called it Todd...it’s finally over and it sucks, thanks for the warning by the way.
thank you so much for the update or down date as it may be . todd IP: Logged |