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Astrohippiegirl
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posted December 15, 2019 01:04 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Astrohippiegirl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Any takers on what could be the reason for the very strong and long lasting attraction between me and this man? We’ve know each other for over a decade but never tried to rekindle anything because of the drama and pain from when we were together when we were in our early 20’s. We are trying again and the feelings are so intense it’s unbearable.

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posted December 15, 2019 02:43 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Hikaru29     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You've a lot of nice house overlays including an emphasised composite 8th. Your Moon in his 7th, Sun in his 8th, Jupiter in his 4th. He has Sun in your 7th, Venus/Mercury in your 8th, Pluto in your 4th, Mars in your 5th. Venus/Mercury rule his 7th/8th houses. No wonder the romantic/sexual feelings are strong.

cSun conjunct Moon is one of the best aspects to have. In the 8th house opposite Pluto. Very intense & intimate but also difficult to handle if you're not matured in handling your own plutonic tendencies, that's why you experienced all the drama/pain.

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posted December 15, 2019 03:03 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Astrohippiegirl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
You've a lot of nice house overlays including an emphasised composite 8th. Your Moon in his 7th, Sun in his 8th, Jupiter in his 4th. He has Sun in your 7th, Venus/Mercury in your 8th, Pluto in your 4th, Mars in your 5th. Venus/Mercury rule his 7th/8th houses. No wonder the romantic/sexual feelings are strong.

cSun conjunct Moon is one of the best aspects to have. In the 8th house opposite Pluto. Very intense & intimate but also difficult to handle if you're not matured in handling your own plutonic tendencies, that's why you experienced all the drama/pain.


Thanks for the interpretation. I did notice we have the mutual 7th house overlays and boy oh boy that 8th house is a beast! I’ll just say the moment I saw him it was like a lightning bolt hit me! I hope with the composite being so 8th house heavy that we are both mature enough now to handle it, guess we will find out.

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posted December 15, 2019 10:00 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Astrohippiegirl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted December 17, 2019 09:41 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Astrohippiegirl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted December 24, 2019 11:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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todd
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posted January 03, 2020 11:16 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for todd     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
it think this is because the vertex on the descendant and square to the Saturn/chiron opposition and with the venus/mars midpoint conjunct to the descendant.

the vertex in a composite conjunct the descendant shows that you both have had very unusual/other worldly experience and feelings. different but similar in that these paranormal feelings tended to isolate you both ..that is nether of you felt anyone could understand what you experienced.but then you met and found that you could understand exactly the others strange realities.

but with Saturn opposed to chiron, the nature of the relationship on this plane was very control oriented. that is one dominated the other must likely him over you. this is complicated because the venus/mars midpoint is also on the vertex. this shows again an almost supernatural sexual/emotional attraction. but the two impulses together, Saturn/ chiron(control-hate) and the mars/venus(love and pleasure) clashed with each other violently. when both pleasure and pain are strong in a relationship, you get a kind of psychotic connection . the desire to flee yet the need to stay and endure the pain and control. again adding the almost supernatural energy of the vertex and your reality together could have been out of conscious plane.
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posted January 03, 2020 02:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Astrohippiegirl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by todd:
it think this is because the vertex on the descendant and square to the Saturn/chiron opposition and with the venus/mars midpoint conjunct to the descendant.

the vertex in a composite conjunct the descendant shows that you both have had very unusual/other worldly experience and feelings. different but similar in that these paranormal feelings tended to isolate you both ..that is nether of you felt anyone could understand what you experienced.but then you met and found that you could understand exactly the others strange realities.

but with Saturn opposed to chiron, the nature of the relationship on this plane was very control oriented. that is one dominated the other must likely him over you. this is complicated because the venus/mars midpoint is also on the vertex. this shows again an almost supernatural sexual/emotional attraction. but the two impulses together, Saturn/ chiron(control-hate) and the mars/venus(love and pleasure) clashed with each other violently. when both pleasure and pain are strong in a relationship, you get a kind of psychotic connection . the desire to flee yet the need to stay and endure the pain and control. again adding the almost supernatural energy of the vertex and your reality together could have been out of conscious plane.
todd


Hi Todd,
Thanks so much for the interpretation I didn’t realize all the info about the midpoints of Venus/mars and Saturn/Chiron I guess that would explain the whirlwind of pain and passion that I’ve experienced with him. I do worry that maybe with all of the 8th house stuff going on in the composite that the relationship might be doomed to fail. Based on the synastry and composite what do you think the end result might be?

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posted January 04, 2020 05:03 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Thefish     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
From what I can see, I see your ties to him with Saturn sextile sun but his Saturn isn’t aspected.

The intensity for you has do with the overlays as mentioned but his Venus trining Pluto and the Sun in your water houses.

There’s also an overload of 8th and 5th especially with Pluto in Scorpio in the 4th with Scorpio being the ruler of the 5th. On top of that is the aforementioned Pisces in Venus in your 8th house trining your Pluto which makes this connection very deep. Oh and if that was enough he’s got his Mars in your 5th in Pluto, which makes him essentially impossible to resist.

Oh and your 5th house Saturn sextiles his Sun your 7th house to add glue from your end.

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posted January 04, 2020 11:31 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Astrohippiegirl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Thefish:
From what I can see, I see your ties to him with Saturn sextile sun but his Saturn isn’t aspected.

The intensity for you has do with the overlays as mentioned but his Venus trining Pluto and the Sun in your water houses.

There’s also an overload of 8th and 5th especially with Pluto in Scorpio in the 4th with Scorpio being the ruler of the 5th. On top of that is the aforementioned Pisces in Venus in your 8th house trining your Pluto which makes this connection very deep. Oh and if that was enough he’s got his Mars in your 5th in Pluto, which makes him essentially impossible to resist.

Oh and your 5th house Saturn sextiles his Sun your 7th house to add glue from your end.


Thanks for the interpretation. I always wondered since Pluto is generational would it still have the same impact with house placements?

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posted January 10, 2020 10:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted January 13, 2020 12:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for todd     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Astrohippiegirl:
Hi Todd,
Thanks so much for the interpretation I didn’t realize all the info about the midpoints of Venus/mars and Saturn/Chiron I guess that would explain the whirlwind of pain and passion that I’ve experienced with him. I do worry that maybe with all of the 8th house stuff going on in the composite that the relationship might be doomed to fail. Based on the synastry and composite what do you think the end result might be?

it is almost over.
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posted January 13, 2020 12:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Astrohippiegirl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by todd:
it is almost over.
todd


Meaning our relationship is almost over? I’m a little scared by the statement.

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posted January 14, 2020 05:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for todd     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Astrohippiegirl:

Meaning our relationship is almost over? I’m a little scared by the statement.

I can't seem to pull your chart up now but there is a Jupiter/Neptune square which will be transited by the node in late January into February. this square usually shows a breakup and often is associated with deception. it is possible that he already is seeing someone else.

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posted January 14, 2020 08:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Astrohippiegirl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by todd:
I can't seem to pull your chart up now but there is a Jupiter/Neptune square which will be transited by the node in late January into February. this square usually shows a breakup and often is associated with deception. it is possible that he already is seeing someone else.

todd



Well, that really sucks, I’ll have to learn to let go, it’s gonna be extremely difficult but oh well.

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Astrohippiegirl
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posted February 20, 2020 11:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Astrohippiegirl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by todd:
I can't seem to pull your chart up now but there is a Jupiter/Neptune square which will be transited by the node in late January into February. this square usually shows a breakup and often is associated with deception. it is possible that he already is seeing someone else.

todd


Well you called it Todd...it’s finally over and it sucks, thanks for the warning by the way.

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posted February 21, 2020 06:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for todd     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Astrohippiegirl:
Well you called it Todd...it’s finally over and it sucks, thanks for the warning by the way.


thank you so much for the update or down date as it may be .

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