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virgoleo
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posted December 18, 2019 05:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for virgoleo     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Could anyone tell me what they see. I have met this person and they are completely infatuated with me. To the point they are nearly blindsided. It feels like this person sees a complete unrealistic image of who I am. I must admit I feel some feelings for this person as well, but its not as strong as this person feels for me. However I am willing to invest some time into this experience. And see where it will lead me. Does this relationship have any potential? Or is it quick to burn out.

Many thanks, with regards,

VL

p.s I am the outside circle.
(2nd person)

-synastry-

https://i.imgur.com/PoDPph1.jpg

-synastry aspects-

https://i.imgur.com/9WYRkev.png

-composite-

https://i.imgur.com/gKKA56z.jpg

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todd
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posted December 18, 2019 08:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for todd     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
hi virgoleo

wow you have a tiger by the tail LOL

the venus/node conjunction is also conjunct by the moon/sun and mercury/chiron midpoints.

so the emotional/mental/physical attraction is magical. the energies you and he create are singular and others seems to be standing looking at you.the moon/sun shows that this attraction is very sincere and at the bottom of the relationship. mercury/chiron give an amazing mental connect as you are both very intelligent and analytical. you both enjoy learning and understanding how people and life in general works.in a relationship this shows there is an urge to know each other every thought, feeling and response.

with the Saturn/moon midpoint square to Jupiter, there is an immediate impulse to committed and even plan on marriage.

these are very deeply heart felt impulses, but there are some serious obstacles..

mars is square the vertex and opposed to Uranus. it is exceptionally unfavorable as it shows ,no matter how inspired he is now, the likelihood is that he will bot stay around. with Neptune square to juno,this possibility is also present that his feelings will change and his words of betrothal will fall flat .

I would expect this to have occurred relatively recently as the transiting node had been square to Venus and the composite node around nov 21 - 25 '19.

the magic is very powerful now but I suggest you ride the wave and be careful not to make any commitments just now.

this is difficult because it is real, but the intensity could be unreal. i will try to clarify tomorrow

todd

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Sinder
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posted December 18, 2019 08:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Sinder     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi Todd! Thanks for your info..
I wanted to know where can I get more info on midpoints.

Like does it make any significance if someone’s nn is conj another’s venus Mars mid point?
And sun pluto mid point conj another’s Lilith Juno.
And Sun Moon midpoint conj Sun moon midpoint with
Pluto in the mix for one person.. would it mean the pluto person would be more effected?

How do I find these?

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posted December 18, 2019 08:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Sinder     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by todd:
hi virgoleo

wow you have a tiger by the tail LOL

the venus/node conjunction is also conjunct by the moon/sun and mercury/chiron midpoints.

so the emotional/mental/physical attraction is magical. the energies you and he create are singular and others seems to be standing looking at you.the moon/sun shows that this attraction is very sincere and at the bottom of the relationship. mercury/chiron give an amazing mental connect as you are both very intelligent and analytical. you both enjoy learning and understanding how people and life in general works.in a relationship this shows there is an urge to know each other every thought, feeling and response.

with the Saturn/moon midpoint square to Jupiter, there is an immediate impulse to committed and even plan on marriage.

these are very deeply heart felt impulses, but there are some serious obstacles..

mars is square the vertex and opposed to Uranus. it is exceptionally unfavorable as it shows ,no matter how inspired he is now, the likelihood is that he will bot stay around. with Neptune square to juno,this possibility is also present that his feelings will change and his words of betrothal will fall flat .

I would expect this to have occurred relatively recently as the transiting node had been square to Venus and the composite node around nov 21 - 25 '19.

the magic is very powerful now but I suggest you ride the wave and be careful not to make any commitments just now.

this is difficult because it is real, but the intensity could be unreal. i will try to clarify tomorrow

todd


Very interesting observation..

So is it the Juno person who would change their feelings for the Neptune person?

And vertex squares to anything would be bad? what about the moon?

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Dons2angelss
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posted December 18, 2019 09:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dons2angelss     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Venus conjunct chiron
I've had this twice, once as the venus, once as the chiron. The most I can offer on this is you really need to make absolutely damn sure you really want to take this relationship further because if it's not as serious to you and you're not ready for some serious life lessons, it's probably best to walk away. The other person as the venus is going to be extremely drawn to you at first. Then chiron shows its real self and that image is gone and it can blow up. This is how venus/chiron plays.

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posted December 18, 2019 09:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dons2angelss     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
And then chiron on your nn, that's a double whammy of chiron! Tread very very slowly my friend.

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virgoleo
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posted December 18, 2019 11:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for virgoleo     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by todd:
hi virgoleo

wow you have a tiger by the tail LOL

the venus/node conjunction is also conjunct by the moon/sun and mercury/chiron midpoints.

so the emotional/mental/physical attraction is magical. the energies you and he create are singular and others seems to be standing looking at you.the moon/sun shows that this attraction is very sincere and at the bottom of the relationship. mercury/chiron give an amazing mental connect as you are both very intelligent and analytical. you both enjoy learning and understanding how people and life in general works.in a relationship this shows there is an urge to know each other every thought, feeling and response.

with the Saturn/moon midpoint square to Jupiter, there is an immediate impulse to committed and even plan on marriage.

these are very deeply heart felt impulses, but there are some serious obstacles..

mars is square the vertex and opposed to Uranus. it is exceptionally unfavorable as it shows ,no matter how inspired he is now, the likelihood is that he will bot stay around. with Neptune square to juno,this possibility is also present that his feelings will change and his words of betrothal will fall flat .

I would expect this to have occurred relatively recently as the transiting node had been square to Venus and the composite node around nov 21 - 25 '19.

the magic is very powerful now but I suggest you ride the wave and be careful not to make any commitments just now.

this is difficult because it is real, but the intensity could be unreal. i will try to clarify tomorrow

todd


Because of my own fault, where I was not clear enough in mentioning who is who, you naturally assumed I was a female, which I can't blame you at all my friend haha. However I am a man, and the person that is infatuated with me is a woman. I hope/assume that doesn't change much in the reading you have given thus far, which is very on point and detailed as always todd. So many thanks for this.

I would like to think of myself as a rather spiritually/intuitionaly inclined 'guided' person. Even though I do not have the knowledge and oversight you have of such matters I felt/sensed that this person, no matter how strong they felt not might not stick around. It was just this thought at the back of my mind. So I am kind of glad it gets confirmed in this way. And she is a tiger alright, A very intense person. Which in a way is kind of refreshing. Something which I dont shy away from. Maybe because of my venus in scorpio?

We actually met Nov 8. Which is still reasonably close to your estimate. I will make sure to heed your warnings and do not make any commitments, because as you've also mentionend before the idea of marriage did actually come up. In such a short while. Which seems absolutely ludicrous. Thankfully I am a grounded person and didn't lose myself in this illusion (yet?).

It does feel very real and at the same time not. As you say. I look forward towards your further clarification tomorrow.

Thanks.


quote:
Originally posted by Dons2angelss:
Venus conjunct chiron
I've had this twice, once as the venus, once as the chiron. The most I can offer on this is you really need to make absolutely damn sure you really want to take this relationship further because if it's not as serious to you and you're not ready for some serious life lessons, it's probably best to walk away. The other person as the venus is going to be extremely drawn to you at first. Then chiron shows its real self and that image is gone and it can blow up. This is how venus/chiron plays.


quote:
Originally posted by Dons2angelss:
And then chiron on your nn, that's a double whammy of chiron! Tread very very slowly my friend.


Thank you my friend, for sharing your personal experience with me. Being absolutely sure I want to take this relationship further is a good question to ask myself. This person does have some issues in her life. And we've talked for so many hours regarding all aspects of life. So we have connected on a very deep level, regarding many things. But mainly issues and past trauma. It is probably not likely that we know eachother fully in such a short amount of time. But we've gone very deep and have surfaced and come clean about a lot.

There is this almost intoxicating feeling/effect that happens when you are desired by another person. Which in of ittself is not ground for a solid relationship. Coupled with the fact that in the short while we've have become so familiar with eachother I started feeling rather responsible for this person. And she is starting to rely a lot on me emotionally. Which isn't wrong per se. But I know, I cannot fix what isn't mine. The dynamic is very interesting to say the least. Which is why I initially thought. I'd ride the waves to see where it would lead. But a part me of always stayed/stays on guard.

Letting go is hard, and the deeper I root myself into something. The harder it will be to let go. I will tread very slowly. And hopefully this could either blossom into something worthy such as great life lessons which can be bittersweet, or I will be able to move on without having caused to much damage to myself or her.

Thanks again, to both of you.

With regards
VL

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todd
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posted December 22, 2019 03:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for todd     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
with Uranus opposed to mars,the relationship will wilt when the intensity wanes as it must. mars/Uranus likely relates to you and this aspect is very intense but it does not translate well into a relationship with all the baggage and routines -compromises necessary for a hookup to become a long term connection. mars /Uranus aspect show a person who needs their independence more than a committed relationship

in addition the moon/juno conjunction is squad to Neptune which suggest she will flake off, that is her feelings will change. this can also shows she is a "player" and though is sincere at the moment, she is liable to move on when the fancy strikes her.

I have to admit,there are always exceptions to the rule. the moon/sun midpoint on the node and vensu shows a deep and sincere love.....there is no mistake these feelings are true. and the mercury/chiron midpoint to the node and Venus gives a very rare openness and inquisitiveness about how each other operatives. when this aspect is working, you end up knowing each others deepest thoughts and aspirations.
the two together, spontaneous sincere love and total truth is hard to beat. so it is possible that you might curb your selfishness of independence and she might enforce her will and cease to be a "roamer"

who knows this might be a relationship that beats the odds.but until the final resolution, enjoy the rare magic you have.

todd

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Librapurr
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posted December 22, 2019 06:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Librapurr     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by virgoleo:
I have met this person and they are completely infatuated with me. To the point they are nearly blindsided. It feels like this person sees a complete unrealistic image of who I am. I must admit I feel some feelings for this person as well, but its not as strong as this person feels for me.
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Once I read it, I smelled Neptune squares, and indeed, here Venus square Neptune is! From my experience, You both might have not a realistic image of each other, but eventually reality will come... All depends if you can handle it. Venus trine NN could be beautiful , not so strong, but you have it DW.

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manderin
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posted December 22, 2019 07:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for manderin     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
any time the word infatuation comes up I immediately think of Sun conjunct Venus.

And whattaya know. I looked and there is that conjunction right in your synastry.

Although usually it's the Sun person that's infatuated with Venus.

It does look like his Sun is also sextiling your Venus though.

I'm sure there are other factors involved too.

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