posted December 29, 2019 10:46 PM            

Some aspects we have:
His Pluto conjunct my moon/sun
His Saturn square my sun
His mars square my mercury
His Chiron conjunct my north node/desc and opposite my Venus and ASC (not sure if this is bad but he has very badly damaged my self worth and esteem with relationships)
His Nessus wide conjunct my mars
My mars square his Pluto
My mars square his sun

I understand he is the way he is because of his childhood but it really has not been good for so many reasons and is still not good. Now looking at his natal I notice some bad Pluto aspects also. Just wondering if our synastry is bad as I think it is and even making the situation worse. I’m sure there’s tons of karmic aspects too.

Here is the chart -

https://imgur.com/0zNDKE5

posted January 08, 2020 01:44 PM            

if you have a Windows10 computer … download and install the 6.5 free astrology program at http://www.astrocalc.com … then create the natal and synastry charts for you+your father … then click on the "interpretation" button at the top of the synastry chart wheel screen.

posted January 08, 2020 03:36 PM            

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Originally posted by Graham:
http://imgur.com/0zNDKE5

if you have a Windows10 computer … download and install the 6.5 free astrology program at http://www.astrocalc.com … then create the natal and synastry charts for you+your father … then click on the "interpretation" button at the top of the synastry chart wheel screen.

That will produce a brief (aspect by aspect) report of how you and he see each other.

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posted January 08, 2020 06:23 PM            

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Originally posted by MMarie:
Hi Graham, thank you! But unfortunately I do not have a windows 10 computer only my phone. Is there a website similar to the software?

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Try the synastry report interpretations at http://horoscopes.astro-seek.com/synastry-chart-online-calculator
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The Astrocalc synastry report states that his Pluto (conjunct your Sun) "finds depths in you which make him feel more complete in himself". ... And that your Sun (conjunct his Pluto) experiences the relationship as "deep, volatile and transformational".

So ... would you interpret that as difficult synastry; bad karma or poor communications? ... And which of those three interpretations most ENABLES you to take control of the problem rather than to be controlled by it?
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And, in the same vein :-

His Pluto conjunct your moon ... Both feel a psychic connection - but he sees himself as helping you to achieve your potential, whilst you see him as (manipulating by) stirring up your emotions.

His Saturn square your sun ... He sees you/the relationship as needing to be more anchored in reality - but you see him as making it difficult for you to cope with the realities of the relationship.

His mars square your mercury ... He feels antagonised by your attempts to be assertive in the relationship - but you see him as reacting with hostility whenever you attempt to (constructively) criticise his ideas/views. (And that creates friction/irritation for both of you.)

Your mars square his Pluto ... He is intensely aware that the two of you are motivated differently, and that this is a "battleground of incompatibility" - but you see fighting him as being essential (to maintain your independence).

Your mars square his sun ... He loves the fact that you stand up to him "like a man" (despite him finding it hard to cope with) - but you see his forcefulness as needing to be countered by your assertiveness (to maintain your independence).

So ... you are his daughter, living in society that has moved some way towards recognising women as the equal of men ... and is he not (showing respect by) treating you in the way that father's have to treat a son to ensure that he becomes big enough to "stand alone"? ... And, is that "stepping down from the pedestal of parenthood" not the greatest gift a father/mother can bestow upon his/her child?
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http://www.amazon.com/Relationships-Astrology-Karma-Understand-Transform/dp/1497380855

posted January 10, 2020 12:57 PM            

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Originally posted by Graham:
Try the synastry report interpretations at http://horoscopes.astro-seek.com/synastry-chart-online-calculator
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The Astrocalc synastry report states that his Pluto (conjunct your Sun) "finds depths in you which make him feel more complete in himself". ... And that your Sun (conjunct his Pluto) experiences the relationship as "deep, volatile and transformational".

So ... would you interpret that as difficult synastry; bad karma or poor communications? ... And which of those three interpretations most [b]ENABLES you to take control of the problem rather than to be controlled by it?
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And, in the same vein :-

His Pluto conjunct your moon ... Both feel a psychic connection - but he sees himself as helping you to achieve your potential, whilst you see him as (manipulating by) stirring up your emotions.

His Saturn square your sun ... He sees you/the relationship as needing to be more anchored in reality - but you see him as making it difficult for you to cope with the realities of the relationship.

His mars square your mercury ... He feels antagonised by your attempts to be assertive in the relationship - but you see him as reacting with hostility whenever you attempt to (constructively) criticise his ideas/views. (And that creates friction/irritation for both of you.)

Your mars square his Pluto ... He is intensely aware that the two of you are motivated differently, and that this is a "battleground of incompatibility" - but you see fighting him as being essential (to maintain your independence).

Your mars square his sun ... He loves the fact that you stand up to him "like a man" (despite him finding it hard to cope with) - but you see his forcefulness as needing to be countered by your assertiveness (to maintain your independence).

So ... you are his daughter, living in society that has moved some way towards recognising women as the equal of men ... and is he not (showing respect by) treating you in the way that father's have to treat a son to ensure that he becomes big enough to "stand alone"? ... And, is that "stepping down from the pedestal of parenthood" not the greatest gift a father/mother can bestow upon his/her child?
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[URL=http://www.amazon.com/Relationships-Astrology-Karma-Understand-Transform/dp/1497380855]http://www.amazon.com/Relationships-Astrology-Karma-Understand-Transform/dp/1497380855[/ URL]

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