posted January 06, 2020 01:15 PM            

Thank you xx

posted January 06, 2020 04:36 PM            

the composite does look very romantic but not so much for a longterm hookup even though there are feelings this could be serious. eros conjunct the node is square to the moon/pallas and Uranus/juno.

this implies you are very into him and have strong feelings about a steady relationship.

the venus/nessus,vensu/pluto midpoint is conjunct to ceres and opposed to eris. this is a difficult pattern as there is a strong sexual attraction but it is not healthy and shows he would treat you like a sex salve rather than respect you as a mate.
ceres indicate even with these dark impulses ,you are inclined to see him through rose colored glasses.

the grand trine of sun/moon/nessus can be felt as a deep if restrictive bond between you but with the mars/Uranus midpoint conjunct the south/node/eris , he is not a devoted kind of guy and would not stay around once the thrill of the conquest was over.
the composite overall has both high sexual attraction and low emotional intimacy ,so again the longevity of this relationship would be in question.

with eros/psyche midpoint conjunct to th e moon ,I assume you are really taken with him , but the aspects of pain are just as strong and your romantic feelings likely will be let down.

with the Uranus/juno conjunction square to the node, a very passionate if dark emotional connection is shown but it is unstable and would never lead to a steady relationship.

Jupiter is square to Saturn which is a difficult aspect for a relationship and the midpoint is conjunct to juno so there is very little chance he would want anything that a hot time with you.

with Priapus conjunct to Jupiter,the sexual chemistry seems very strong but ,it would cool off very fast once you became familiar with each other.

posted January 06, 2020 04:53 PM            

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Originally posted by todd:
hi itsmeyaz

the composite does look very romantic but not so much for a longterm hookup even though there are feelings this could be serious. eros conjunct the node is square to the moon/pallas and Uranus/juno.

this implies you are very into him and have strong feelings about a steady relationship.
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Jupiter is square to Saturn which is a difficult aspect for a relationship and the midpoint is conjunct to juno so there is very little chance he would want anything that a hot time with you.

with Priapus conjunct to Jupiter,the sexual chemistry seems very strong but ,it would cool off very fast once you became familiar with each other.

todd

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Hello todd, thank you for replying.

That's too bad. I really admired him for a while but I didn't think much of it because he did show a few turn offs. But as you mentioned, I really did/do see him through rose colored glasses. I noticed I was giving him too many green passes in my head. I don't even like men my age, I don't get along with them. So that was a bit odd for me to even like him.
(Also, we have a grand cross in our synastry, I tend to avoid the rs if I see one because the last encounter I had that involved a grand cross, I felt quite stuck and that I could never leave or get over that person. Not a good pattern, for me, if the rest is not harmonious)

Quite fascinating.

I'm strating to find it a bit odd that most men I've met recently are sexually attracted to me. And that's about it.
I don't understand why... nor how. It's making me ?? a little bit. I don't know if it's because of some placement in my chart.
I've not met a man I was really interested in, as I get "bored" quite easily, nor did I find someone who is NOT just sexually attracted to me, in a very, very long time.

posted January 07, 2020 01:07 PM            

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Originally posted by athenegoddess:
No Venus is in Virgo square Pluto.

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posted January 07, 2020 01:22 PM            

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Originally posted by Stoika7:
Hi darling itsmeyaz,

my take on this is that Venus quincunx Uranus and Saturn looks like true feelings are unrequited... especially whereas the Grand Kite looks strongly passionate and romantic but with Neptune opposite Mars/Pallas you might find out things are not as they seem here... then, Jupiter square Saturn is usually very unstable and not favourable for long term... It all still looks intense with Saturn/Sun trine Pluto and Pluto square Venus, so there is certainly a strong attraction and maybe this person will stay in your life somehow or it comes from your past, and the Kite is also about a karmic bond, it looks like one would need to keep your expectations under control and not be fooled by appearances/emotions.

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Hello my dearest Stoika,

(As I was writing my reply, a song by Alicia Keys started playing - so oh accurate of how you and todd explained this composite : sometimes I feel good, sometimes I feel used, loving you darling makes me so confused... how do you give me so much pleasure and cause me so much pain).

This man is someone I met at work also. Just like the one from my last post. They are both trying to get close to me. As much as I am very strictly against mixing my personal life with work I don't know what to do in this case. The Virgo man I admire his mind (I sound like a zoombie lol - so much of a Gemini), and this Capricorn guy, he's very adorable and very sweet to me as well. I did not show interest to neither of them tbf. I keep it very friendly and I try not to hang out with them a lot. But since the Cap guy is in the same floor as I am, he keeps trying to talk to me a lot, in each chance he gets to visit my office he comes straight away. And each time I look at him, all I can see is our composite. Hahahah!

I will probably get bored and classify both of them as a big no. But the cap man is so adorable, I-..... But I don't trust him still tbf. As I only joined work recently, and I have no idea on who's not faking their personality with me. He could be just faking it as well. As he keeps asking me if I'm getting along with my coworkers quite alot. He could be a bird.

I don't have his TOB so I don't know how accurate the synastry would be, but here it is so that you can have a look at it if you want.