posted January 10, 2020 08:34 PM            

It can be a family member, friend, romantic partner etc.

I�ll give a quick analysis of the best aspects between you and why I think you feel so positive towards them

posted January 16, 2020 09:17 PM            

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Originally posted by CrazyPisces:
Exciting!
My boyfriend and I. Inside = me Outside = him

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hmm, interesting chart
honestly you don't have that great of synastry.. how long have you been dating? normally I wouldn't think you would get along that well (I'm sure you still actually don't and have already had some problems) but of course the hormones of dating/love make us biased lol, so understandable.

You have a mutual (double whammy) venus-saturn square, which is a crappy aspect. Causes a lot of blocked expression of feelings, hesitation, awkwardness, insecurity etc. Granted though, since you have Venus in Aqua, this aspect is potentially more positive for you since his Saturn can help stabilize your affections towards him and curb your naturally more fickle, hot and cold or easily bored love nature (venus in aqua and gemini dsc).

You also have a tight mars square mars, and this aspect really makes two people irritated with each other when they try do anything together. You have different ways of going about things that will tend to bother or bug the other person, like "why are you doing that? do this instead". Basically it leads to conflict, annoyance, tension. Not the most compatible aspect by any means. Sexually as well, you might not mesh well, you could have different styles, preferences and idea of what sex means to you and how you like to have it etc.
Your mars also square his sun, usually manifests as ego battles or certain traits of his annoying you. And on his end, this can make him act more defensive or combative towards you.

The aspects I do really like though, is that your suns, moons and mercuries to each other are compatible by sign. This will help a lot.
Moon in gemini and moon in aries are both more fickle, impulsive, busy-bodies will a lot of energy who will like to do things and stay busy. You both tend to be lighthearted and playful too, since aries and gemini are young energies and child-like signs. So you'll have fun together.

His moon in aries is also very appealing to your mars in aries. You'll be a lot more tolerant of his temper, competitiveness, arrogance or cockiness and tendency to be more selfish than the average person than usual lol.
Plus his planets in your 8th is going to cause a lot of sexual magnetism in you as well. Potentially some obsession and compulsive feelings as well, plus with his moon conjunct your IC; I see you having a stronger emotional investment towards him than on his end with his planets falling and hitting water houses.
Your moon does fall in his 4th though too, so this will help add that comfort and familiarity which is very helpful considering your venus-saturn action you two have going on...
His 5th house is also gemini, so he is attracted to your gemini moon and its sense of humour, loquaciousness and and quick-wittedness.
Your moon conjunct his jupiter, this is another really nice aspect. He will make you feel more open and emotionally expressive/happy. He can help you or teach you or guide you in some way as well. He will also be more tolerant and accepting or forgiving of some of your gemini quirks too.

Honestly though this looks very much like a fling, and I don't see this lasting too long or getting serious. Very much a dating and fleeting crush/infatuation type synastry. You don't match each others 7th house well enough for it to be a deeper lasting type of attraction. And I'm not seeing as much compatibility as id like either for a serious or long-term connection.

posted January 17, 2020 12:12 PM            

Two inseparable mad minds since high school. My soul brother and my piece of heart <3

posted January 17, 2020 02:26 PM            

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Originally posted by Graham:
Father/me on the outside � My son on the inside. (My Pluto not captured in the image)

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ahh, cute lol. Not surprised you picked your son as you're a cancer moon lol <3

right away I'm seeing a lot of dynamic aspects.
His mercury-pluto opposition turns your own moon-jupiter opposition into a grand gross. Strong pattern completion like this usually shows a connection where two people feel more complete with each other, or like the other person makes them a better version of themselves, like they found their missing puzzle piece. With the hard aspects though as with the grand cross, it can be more of a struggle at first, or push pull at times before you sync together. Trines tend to be effortless, but with squares/opp you have to learn/earn it first, work out the kinks and usually it gets better with time.
mercury, pluto, moon, jupiter; you probably have interesting or deep conversations (pluto), maybe philosophical in nature too (jupiter). He might help you understand yourself (moon) better since its his mercury involved, and maybe you find him a good confidant (pluto), someone you trust and who can give you good logical/objective advice or help rationalize some of your watery emotions. His aqua moon will help with that as well.
But since its his pluto, he could be a bit manipulative towards you, maybe tries to control you or change your opinions etc. Maybe a bit forceful. Or you do this as well, since both your plutos are in hard aspect to each others moons. But either way, you're going to have a strong emotional impact on each other, for good or bad. moon-pluto usually equals attachment.

Because you have a mutual moon-mercury square, and all your personal planets to each other are very different and not the most compatible; this tells me you two are very different and you have a hard time truly understanding (moon-merucry) each other. You might not know how or why he reacts the way he does and vice versa, and you could think the other is irrational at times.
But his scorpio asc and your sun in scorpio helps with this, you two do have some things in common. & He has neptune in the 1st so he's more sensitive, which helps because so are you. I just noticed you also probably have neptune in the 1st, plus water sun and moon. So yeah you're very emotional and sensitive, and your son although he may be more detached and rational (aqua moon) he appreciates and enjoys your sensitivity with his sweet venus in pisces in the 4th conjunct jupiter which is trine your moon in cancer. Especially since venus is his 7th ruler, so yeah so on his side I think he likes you if not loves you a lot lol. the 7th house is what we like/admire or find attractive about other people (venus too) and who we like to spend time with, who we connect with the best.
His planets fall in your 7th too and theres a symbolism match there, so yes overall I see why you two like each other, even if you two are different in a lot of ways or don't see eye to eye all the time.

posted January 18, 2020 02:51 AM            

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venus is his 7th ruler, so yeah so on his side I think he likes you if not loves you a lot lol. the 7th house is what we like/admire or find attractive about other people (venus too) and who we like to spend time with, who we connect with the best.
His planets fall in your 7th too and theres a symbolism match there, so yes overall I see why you two like each other, even if you two are different in a lot of ways or don't see eye to eye all the time.

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posted January 20, 2020 10:40 AM            

I�m also curious what you may say about my sister and I:

posted January 26, 2020 10:18 PM            

Our davison

Synastry

posted February 02, 2020 12:08 PM            

Composite:

Ref. Point Method Composite

Davison Chart

posted February 02, 2020 11:30 PM            

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Originally posted by Somna7H:
Sweet but Psycho friend.
As always Blue is me.

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Hahahahaha this made me laugh/smile; �sweet but psycho�, and then I see they have sun/moon in Scorpio 😂 I don�t doubt it. That�s actually a perfect way to sum up strong Scorpio energy lol. They can be super caring/loving/sweet and all the great water qualities, as long as you�re on their good side lol. If not, WATCH OUT lol.
I also have Taurus rising, so all my closest connections and relationships are always with Scorpio types including all my best friends lol.

posted February 02, 2020 11:48 PM            

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Originally posted by LunaIscariot:

You match their 7th too! With your moon/Venus and asc ruler there. You two probably really admire each other in a lot of ways, and just enjoy each other�s company. A close bond forsure with the strong mutual 7th energy.
They like how smart/witty and funny you can be, and that you�re more lighthearted/easy going than them, and you probably like how loyal, trustworthy, sarcastic or protective they can be. With the saggy rising, probably funny too lol, but a dark or dry/twisted humour with all the Scorpio lol.

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Absolutely correct.
Thank you!

posted February 03, 2020 02:55 AM            

Specifically I would like to know why he's so insecure, jealous and suspicious. He thinks I still like my ex and whenever he sees guys (even his own friends) showing me attention he gets insecure which has caused trivial arguments between us. It isn't a 'dealbreaker' situation but I wish he would just trust me. Am I causing his insecurities or this is just him? He said he wasn't so jealous with his ex so I'm guessing it's in our Synastry?

posted February 04, 2020 03:48 AM            

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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
Hi Luna, you've analysed our Synastry before but I'd given you his wrong birth time(!) so his angles/houses have all changed. Here's the correct chart - me and my guy (he's blue, I'm red).

Specifically I would like to know why he's so insecure, jealous and suspicious. He thinks I still like my ex and whenever he sees guys (even his own friends) showing me attention he gets insecure which has caused trivial arguments between us. It isn't a 'dealbreaker' situation but I wish he would just trust me. Am I causing his insecurities or this is just him? He said he wasn't so jealous with his ex so I'm guessing it's in our Synastry?

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posted February 04, 2020 11:44 PM            

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Originally posted by LunaIscariot:
The insecurity is probably attributed to his Venus/Saturn conjunction. Venus is tied into our value and self worth, and with Saturn there, it�s limiting/blocking and challenging these themes, making them smaller as Saturn energy does. Insecurity/fear are good words to describe Saturn energy manifesting as its lower vibration/potential. Also he has moon conjunct Pluto, in libra so he could have co-dependency/attachment style issues. His emotional needs (moon) are tied into relationships, specially romantic (libra) and Pluto could be making these needs/feelings and reactions more intense, suspicious, paranoid and obsessive (Pluto).
Also, a big one is your own Saturn square this moon/Pluto conjunction. Saturn again (insecurities) on his moon (feelings), so you literally make him feel more insecure than normal. Transit saturn square moon is horrible, I remember feeling super insecure all the time when I had it, and I always say synastry is like a constant transit when you�re with that person. And with Pluto there, it could be making this more extreme too.
Saturn hard aspect to moon is a very difficult aspect, mainly because the planets energies themselves are opposite/difficult too besides just the nature of the aspect (Moon:Cancer, Saturn/Capricorn). So it�s one of the hardest/worst to see. And I�m pretty sure it�s a major culprit for what you described and is exacerbating his innate natal tendencies.
He also has moon conjunct NN, another difficult natal aspect, emotions are chaotic/unstable and usually a bad relationship with mom/didn�t get the proper nurturing growing up. So that�s why I think he had anxious attachment style, and this will cause lots of jealousy/insecurity/need for reassurance/prone to drama.

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Hi Luna, thanks for your analysis! I was thinking of his Venus/Saturn and Moon/Pluto too. And I also know how difficult Saturn-Moon can be, as binding as it is. It is often said that Saturn is cold to Moon but as Saturn, I've always been affectionate and emotionally supportive and I'm always here when he needs me, so I don't understand why he would feel insecure. On the other hand, I find Moon(him) a little distant at times. Maybe this is his protective mechanism. We're both in our 40s (not young) so I believe he would have found how to manage his Venus/Saturn & Moon/Pluto tendencies. Emotionally chaotic & dramatic, yes, and he finds a stabilising outlet by focusing on a project and I'm happy for him but he can get so obsessed he seems to "forget" me at times.

Do you see in Synastry how we can overcome these? When I try to flow with what he's saying or brush off what he says, it seems to exacerbate his insecurities.