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Topic: Synastry with new guy :)
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MonteCristo
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From: Dallas, TX
Registered: Jun 2009
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posted January 28, 2020 01:15 AM
  
His time of birth is approximate. He said “around 2:30am,” so I went with that.How does it look? The good, the bad, the ugly, the beautiful? I’m the outside, he’s the inside. Synastry  
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LunaIscariot
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posted January 28, 2020 04:55 AM
Random q; but are you a natural blonde! Lol IP: Logged |
MonteCristo
Knowflake Posts: 50
From: Dallas, TX
Registered: Jun 2009
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posted January 28, 2020 09:22 AM
Lol, no, I’m as brunette as you can get 
Are you asking because of all the planets in Leo? Like a fiery lions mane?IP: Logged |
Stoika7
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From: Rome, Italy
Registered: Mar 2019
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posted January 29, 2020 02:30 AM
The beautiful is you 🥰The good is that you have a strong chemistry and very passionate intimacy, with synastry Pluto/Saturn conjunct ASC and his Mars sextile to your Venus/Uranus, he definitely lights your fire and you awaken his romantic and creative side with your Sun/Mars trine his Neptune trine Jupiter. Strong infatuation or actually falling in love is highly possible. With your Uranus sextile his Mars/Saturn and his Sun and Neptune trine to your Venus, he feels perfectly in harmony with you and he also feels the sexual sparks. There is also an immediate feeling that a strong bond can be established. This all is shown in Composite with Saturn/ASC opposite Sun/NN, and this is trine/sextile to Comp. Mars. So there's an immediate harmony and exciting feeling about your meeting. Comp. Moon trine Uranus also look quite inspiring as you experience new feelings and new refreshing emotional involvement together. You likely enjoy sharing ideas, artistic or intellectual interests and discover all sort of new things together nurturing your emotional bond. The ugly... in synastry, is Saturn in 10th house Libra quincunx your Moon, this shows someone who is not easily romantically committing. His Venus is also quincunx to your Sun/Mars, so maybe he feels you're not completely "his type"... and, your Pluto and Jupiter square to his Mercury. This might point to some stubborn arguments as you might have different views, opinions, tastes...
The big Composite concern is given by the Venus/Pluto/Mercury stellium in 12th house, square Jupiter/Moon, whereas Chiron is in 7th house, and NN square MC. I assume that straight and devoted committment from his part won't be easy, or things might not be so easy to take off the ground as you wish, with the Uranus/Neptune midpoint square Mars harsh arguments might arise, maybe also about the future of your relationship, cause NN square MC can give a lot of insecurity and question marks. Also, the Composite Saturn/Uranus midpoint conjunct South Node in first house might give a sense of unsolved and the feeling that the relationshop doesn't develope towards a clear direction, and you might not even grasp the real reasons for this. My feeling is that he might act with a detached attitude that might turn out unfulfilling. IP: Logged |
MonteCristo
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From: Dallas, TX
Registered: Jun 2009
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posted January 29, 2020 09:54 AM
Thank you, Stoika, what a lovely interpretation. I’m curious as to the initial effects as well as the long lasting ones, since he and I have actually not yet met in person 😬. We “met” by chance when I was considering moving to a different state, and was searching for different gym, apartments, trainers, restaurants, and randomly following a bunch of pages (on Instagram) about three years ago. He’s a personal trainer. A year later we ended up messaging one another, and then after a couple weeks of an innocent back and forth—BOOM—he turns it a 180 and it becomes highly charged, sexually. Can’t particularly put all the blame on him—I can be extremely flirty at certain times, and he grabbed at the opportunity and never looked back. 😂😂. That was kept up for about a couple of weeks, until I completely cooled off and backed away, much to his chagrin. I, for some reason, believed that maybe he wasn’t as attractive as I had originally thought, and then I was sort of put off by how forward he had been. I was like, is he like that with everyone? He didn’t even know me. He told me he was extremely attracted to me, and though that was the case, he also loved talking to me. (Our conversations are pretty comfortable and easy). I find that intellectually he was stimulating to me and on an equal plane, whereas with my ex it was not that way in the slightest.
He tried very hard to change my mind, and continue talking, would message me frequently trying to keep the conversation light, but I was having none of it lol. I ended up getting back with my ex for about a year and a half (definitely had some karmic stuff to work out with him), and the entire time, he was there on the sidelines, waiting 😂.
A few weeks ago, I began to wonder about him again, after seeing one of his pictures pop up on my timeline. I had already ended it with the ex, and so another flirtation ensued with this guy. He is adamant that we are going to meet one day and become lovers and I’m like.... “yeah right,” but secretly, I sort of agree/hope that it may be true.
My friend and I might be taking a trip for spring break to the city he lives in (I’ve been wanting to go there for years now) and it’s a possibility that he and I will meet. I wonder if it’ll be worth it...IP: Logged |
Stoika7
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From: Rome, Italy
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posted January 29, 2020 04:14 PM
Oh I see, so this explains the Composite Uranus placement in first house trine Moon... and the Uranus/Venus midpoint is square to MC, so this maybe explains the on-off and long distance connection... well, I'd suggest to meet him if you have the chance, just to not have regrets and make up your mind. Honestly, I wouldnt have big expectations cause the nodes square to MC/IC with Venus/Uranus midpoint also square to this would likely make this just a short affair and with Pluto/Mercury square Jupiter you might find out he's a different person than you had imagined, even though with Saturn on the ASC you might still keep this connection going for a while... Comp. Mars square Uranus/Neptune suggests he's very flirty and not completely reliable for a committed relationship with Saturn square Moon. I am wondering how the Vertex is placed in Composite...IP: Logged |
Stoika7
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From: Rome, Italy
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posted January 29, 2020 04:18 PM
Sorry I forgot, in late spring transiting south node will approach Composite Neptune, once it leaves this connection then in early summer you might have a definitive answer to your questions... IP: Logged |
MonteCristo
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From: Dallas, TX
Registered: Jun 2009
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posted January 29, 2020 07:42 PM
Seems sort of ill-fated, which makes me doubt even the worth of entering into anything. I don’t want to waste my time! I want my forever love ❤️ I’ve dealt with enough unsettled and unsure elements in my last relationship. I want someone mature, hilarious, emotionally intelligent, clever, witty—-AND ATTRACTIVE to me! Is that too much to ask for? 😂 probably yes, but I don’t care.IP: Logged |
Stoika7
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From: Rome, Italy
Registered: Mar 2019
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posted January 29, 2020 08:50 PM
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Originally posted by MonteCristo:
Seems sort of ill-fated, which makes me doubt even the worth of entering into anything. I don’t want to waste my time! I want my forever love ❤️ I’ve dealt with enough unsettled and unsure elements in my last relationship. I want someone mature, hilarious, emotionally intelligent, clever, witty—-AND ATTRACTIVE to me! Is that too much to ask for? 😂 probably yes, but I don’t care.
Oh no, you ask for the right thing 😍
Well.... he might actually have those qualities!
I would say, if you have a chance to visit his town, you have nothing to lose in meeting him and see how things feel in person, trust your gut regardless of astrology! IP: Logged |
MonteCristo
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From: Dallas, TX
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posted January 29, 2020 09:20 PM
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Originally posted by Stoika7:
Oh no, you ask for the right thing 😍
Well.... he might actually have those qualities!
I would say, if you have a chance to visit his town, you have nothing to lose in meeting him and see how things feel in person, trust your gut regardless of astrology!
Life is interesting that way, isn't it? Almost like a game! So many things to see and try, and some of those things may lead you to the most delightful places/experiences/people! Also, I notice it says you are in Rome? Do you really live there? 😍 I dream of going there someday. IP: Logged |
Stoika7
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From: Rome, Italy
Registered: Mar 2019
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posted January 29, 2020 09:45 PM
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Originally posted by MonteCristo:
Life is interesting that way, isn't it? Almost like a game! So many things to see and try, and some of those things may lead you to the most delightful places/experiences/people!Also, I notice it says you are in Rome? Do you really live there? 😍 I dream of going there someday.
Yes I'm italian and I live in the countryside near Rome! Come over!! 😍 IP: Logged |
MonteCristo
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From: Dallas, TX
Registered: Jun 2009
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posted January 30, 2020 12:05 AM
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Originally posted by Stoika7:
Yes I'm italian and I live in the countryside near Rome! Come over!! 😍
*goes to airport and hops on plane to Rome* IP: Logged |
MonteCristo
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From: Dallas, TX
Registered: Jun 2009
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posted February 17, 2020 10:03 AM
So, I am going to meet him in one month. Dear Lord help us all lol. I wonder if this will end up being anything at all, and if it does, I wonder if it has the potential to be a significant long term relationship. IP: Logged |
Stoika7
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From: Rome, Italy
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posted February 17, 2020 02:41 PM
Well... the physical distance might be an issue with the 12th house stellium and the nodes square to MC... but Saturn on the ASC opposite Sun/NN in 7th house (if his TOB is accurate) is strong... so I have the feeling you both might go for it despite the distance... with NN square MC I am not sure it's going to be long term though.
Keep me updated then! IP: Logged |
angel4845
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posted February 17, 2020 05:28 PM
Your synastry looks great and super awesome but composite is weak in my experience with studying composites since 2014. I never have a good experience dating or seeing other in relationships when there is a Stella un in the 12th. It’s not good. I wouldn’t expect a lasting relationship, the composite isn’t great but then again we don’t really know if he was born at 2:30 am. Soooo we have to take this with a grain of salt. Anyways, this is just my opinion. I wish you the best of luck though!If it helps you should also post the meeting chart cause that’s very significant as well. That is if you meet him in person, and when you do mark the time. IP: Logged |
MonteCristo
Knowflake Posts: 50
From: Dallas, TX
Registered: Jun 2009
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posted February 17, 2020 05:32 PM
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Originally posted by angel4845:
Your synastry looks great and super awesome but composite is weak in my experience with studying composites since 2014. I never have a good experience dating or seeing other in relationships when there is a Stella un in the 12th. It’s not good. I wouldn’t expect a lasting relationship just my opinion. I wish you the best of luck though!
Thank you! I’ve been wondering about how the synastry would play out in comparison with the composite. I feel that maybe if both individuals are evolved and mature enough with their thinking and emotions, perhaps these roadblocks presented in the composite may actually strengthen a relationship. Sometimes tension and difficulty can provide an opportunity for the good things to shine forth—like choosing faith over jealousy, or strength of mind over anger, or trust over insecurity. Perhaps these sorts of relationships bring forward our most intimate fears, so that together, we can conquer them and rise above.
But perhaps not. Life is a fun mystery  Good idea about the meeting chart. I will do that. IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted February 24, 2020 05:06 PM
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