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Topic: Dreaming about ex every night for a week now - Can synastry hold any clues?
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roseblue
Knowflake Posts: 33
From: UK
Registered: Sep 2019
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posted January 30, 2020 01:14 AM
  
Hello lovely people, Todd very kindly helped me with this relationship before but I'm hoping maybe somebody else may have some words for me...
http://ibb.co/rd85YLQ - synastry chart
http://ibb.co/bNYWS4V - composite chart I am the Blue. TOB both 100% accurate Basically my ex and spilt up in November, we have been no contact since then as I always feel its best to cut contact to heal, however painful.
I just cant stop dreaming about him, its like my mind is screaming "pay attention to this person!" when I just want to forget and move on. I feel so bound to him still...my mind wants to move on but heart is stubbornly telling me he is my destiny, like it is unfinished and meant to be. We have quite heavy Pluto which I know can cause feelings of obsession. We have both, at points, felt very consumed by each other throughout the years with a heavy feeling of "you are everything I want"
We have both always told each other we see the other as "the one" . We wanted it so badly to work. My problem is I need to face the reality that this person, whom i've fiercely loved for almost 10 years is gone. Yet I still feel this pull. I dont want this to become an obsession that never ends. Here is the original thread if anyone would like to read it: http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum35/HTML/009541.html Thank you very much to anyone who takes the time to help me with this. IP: Logged |
SecretGeek
Knowflake Posts: 1672
From: Dallas
Registered: Nov 2013
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posted January 30, 2020 04:22 AM
In regards to the dreams, your natal Capricorn Neptune is at 16°35' and transit Pisces Neptune is at 17°2', so an orb less than one degree qualifies it as a sextile aspect.In regards to the obsession, it could be the transit Capricorn Pluto Saturn conjunction is interacting with your NN. Both shall pass. IP: Logged |
Bismarck2
Knowflake Posts: 455
From:
Registered: Mar 2019
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posted January 30, 2020 07:16 AM
Might be that NN/Neptune/Uranus conjunctionIP: Logged |
SecretGeek
Knowflake Posts: 1672
From: Dallas
Registered: Nov 2013
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posted January 30, 2020 07:35 AM
The dreams could be transit Jupiter on your natal Uranus, etc.I just got through reading an article how dreams could be influenced by Jupiter. Good dream NN and bad dream SN. So possible transit Jupiter interacting with transit SN. Jupiter just passed it. IP: Logged |
Stoika7
Knowflake Posts: 790
From: Rome, Italy
Registered: Mar 2019
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posted January 30, 2020 02:21 PM
Hi roseblue,transiting Jupiter is square to Composite Mercury as transiting Saturn/Pluto is square to Sun/Venus midpoint, and you are having transiting North Node conjunct your natal Venus square to transiting Mercury, while the Saturn/Pluto transit has passed your North Node opposite Chiron/Mars... so this whole transit situation looks like your subconscious is trying to process a wound to find healing, but in doing so your subconscious needs to express your attachment to whatever you're trying to set free from before finding release... Then your Composite is strongly psychic and karmic, so the "dream" dimension is also the astral one where your subconscious tries to get in contact with him. I have read Todd's reply to your chart and I see how he is spot on about it all.
Transiting Sun is conjunct Composite Saturn just past the square to Comp. Moon with Uranus conjunct Composite Mars, so you might feel especially missing him at this moment. Maybe you will feel some relief after transiting Sun has gone from Composite Saturn. Transiting Saturn/Pluto will be square to Comp Venus before entering Aquarius at the end of next month, so that's when you might start to feel detached, but consider that Saturn will be retrograde then in few months, so it's going to be ups and down for a while more. IP: Logged |
roseblue
Knowflake Posts: 33
From: UK
Registered: Sep 2019
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posted February 02, 2020 02:30 AM
Thank you all for your kind words! IP: Logged |
Hikaru29
Knowflake Posts: 2399
From: Asia
Registered: Nov 2018
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posted February 02, 2020 10:15 AM
Hi roseblue,
I'm sorry you're going through this. Regardless of transits, it's normal to dream of your ex as they're in our thoughts all the time. When I ended my 7-yr relationship, I also cut my ex off in order to move on but I continuously missed him and dreamt of him for the next 2-3yrs. I realised you've your angles conjunct. Such relationships feel very binding. The feeling of the other party is "the one" is strong. That composite contains a lot of strong feelings as well but the squares can be too much to handle.
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todd
Knowflake Posts: 3130
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Registered: Jun 2009
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posted February 03, 2020 10:17 PM
hi roseblueyour correct the synastry between you is causing these feelings
as I said before the connection between you is supernatural so
the node is transiting your natal venus and square to his natal node is bring up these energies again. so right now the transiting node is uniting your emotions with his psychic energy. this dynamic will continue till the 13th of feb then it shows pass away.
don't worry this is a passing transit and your will get over it.
todd
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roseblue
Knowflake Posts: 33
From: UK
Registered: Sep 2019
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posted February 05, 2020 02:00 AM
Thank you to everyone for their lovely and insightful comments. The dreams are getting less frequent now so I’m hoping it’s passing. Although....mercury retrograde is coming up fast so let’s see how that manifests for all of us. X IP: Logged |
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