posted March 02, 2020 09:49 AM            

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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
Are the birth times accurate?

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posted March 03, 2020 06:58 AM            

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We’re currently long distance and he is military which I think explains some of the Uranus activity. But we never bicker or fight like some of our placements say we should even when we disagree we happily agree to disagree so I’m just curious and need help interpreting.

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Lol, a lot of problems won't show up when you're long distance because you don't spend long hours together.

posted March 03, 2020 10:51 AM            

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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
You need to post the image links for forum. The images should then show up.

Lol, a lot of problems won't show up when you're long distance because you don't spend long hours together.

All charts have good/bad aspects anyway. How new is this rs?

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I’ve tried every manner of getting the pictures to post other people have received help with this issue hopefully someone will be kind enough to help me as well. I’m on a phone so I think that is what is making it more challenging.

The relationship is 6 months old and my BA is in Psych with a concentration in Marriage and Family Therapy so I’m aware the dynamics are different long distance but I also want to look at all sides of things before leaping and moving to another part of the country.

posted March 03, 2020 11:11 AM            

Well his Venus/Mars is conjunct your Moon and his Venus/Mars falls into your 5th house so I can completely understand why you're doing something that is traditionally seen as quite difficult (maintaining a LDR), there is always a tender, loving, romantic ambiance permeating your communication with him.

Aqua Sun conjunct Aqua Moon... he's very emotionally open with you, freakishly so, super out of character for him. There is a deep and abiding non-judgement between you both. The emotional intimacy is rich and transcends being in close proximity to one another - you can feel the closeness and tender emotional connection even through the distance. This is probably the most understood either of you have ever been, especially because your Sun is in the 12th, there are always big chunks of your personality you keep hidden from others, yet with him, you feel no need to keep up these barriers, and he's proven you right - he's one of the few that can be trusted with your emotional life. Because your Sun falls into his 9th, simply by being yourself, you've taught him A LOT about the world, also this does symbolize that you may be the more educated one between you both but he's more than happy to be the student in the relationship.

His Sun conjunct your DSC and his NN/Mercury in your 7th.. he's the perfect partner for you in your mind. You're more than happy to wait for him, because you feel it can't get any better than him. His Sun is trine your Venus/Neptune conjunction so this feels like soulmate material for you (he can feel it too, seems like everything here is mutual for the most part. Your Venus/Neptune falls into his 7th so you are the perfect gal to him, very much so.

Your Saturn conjunct HIS DSC, definitely long term material here, probably offsets the Uranus conjunct his DSC which has forced the hand of the relationship into the digital realm, that seems to be how the dynamic has manifested. The Saturn connection is mutual with his Saturn on your NN.

I suppose my biggest worry is that he doesn't put much into your 8th house, and vice versa with him. That seems to be a crucial cocktail in long term relationships, I've noticed. You do have your Moon in his 2nd house which is good though, he does feel possessive/protective over you. He doesn't want to ever hurt your delicate, feminine Cancer Moon self from what I can see based on the synastry. He may seem hard but he has a gentle soul (which you very much activate). He's not putting anything on your 2nd-8th axis though..

Also the ruler of your DSC is Mercury in Pisces - while he is a Gemini Rising/Virgo Sun (perfect Mercurial match for you), he doesn't have any Pisces, Neptune, or 12th house placements going on. You may find that while you can effortless access the world of the unconscious and sense the undercurrents in everything (especially as a psychologist you are VERY attuned to this) you might find this lacking in him after a while.

posted March 03, 2020 12:06 PM            

His moon is in my 12th and when we first met he told me he never remembers or has dreams but since we’ve met he’s had 3 of us in the future that he can vividly recall detail to, once in which I jokingly asked him to describe my engagement ring and to the “T” he described my ideal cushion cut halo mounted ring. Maybe this planetary alignment gives him some of my 12th house weirdness. Lol

Do you think that the sun and pluto in 7th house scorpio in our composite speaks for some of that missing 8th house in our synastry? Just interested in how that works.

posted March 03, 2020 03:25 PM            

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Originally posted by Randall:
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posted March 03, 2020 07:08 PM            

I agree with stoika's assessment for the most part, but I am a bit more pessimistic for the longterm between you.

I am particularly concerned about your comment:

"My life has kinda fallen apart like crazy lately and made me really flexible. I’m hoping that this rare chance for me to be able to flex to him will help get us some grounding like we need."

I am afraid this is a very self destructive attitude to have with this man. you are mistaking the intensity of the "other worldy" attraction to each other with a truly sincere earthly love.

the composite shows he is first most interested in the sexual connection and that the love/emotional intimacy is not a priority for him.

this is an affair and nothing more to him so for your to try to mold yourself to what he whats will leave you emotional barren in the future when he dumps you. I am sorry to have to be this blunt but you are like a moth drawn to a flame .

the stellium of venus/vertex and nessus is square to the stellium of the node/eros/Neptune/urnaus and eris forms a t square with these stelliums.

venus and urnaus gives the intense, immediate and electric physical. emotional and mental attraction.as stoika mentioned the node/vertex square gives a sense of destiny or fate to the relationship.

but Uranus/venus square is very unstable and it rarely leass to a commitment.. it is an aspect of an affair..painful if you think it shows a commitment is possible. this interpretation is further reinforced by Neptune square to venus. this is a very intense spiritual/sexual aspect but is also very unfaithful and which suggest that he has other love interest he is not mentioning to you.

in addition eris is square to venus. eris is extremely sexual but with almost no emotional content, that is eris wants sexual conquest but does not seek a loyal or devoted mate.

in addition eros and nessus are part of this t square which show he is using you . nessus particularly is an aspect of emotional coldness and is associate with abusive actions and feelings. there is no commitment here, there is only control and emotional subjugation.
this is why I am so concerned for you. you seem to want to mold to his wants about you but you do not realize how malicious his sexual desires are.

the Jupiter/juno midpoint, which can symbolize marriage, is square to the sun... so on the face of it,this might seem to shows a potential for a committed relationship or marriage and as mars is square to juno, he might even talk about a long term future with you.

but the venus/Uranus midpoint and the many other midpoints of the two stelliums are conjunct the sun and square to juno/Jupiter also.

so the feelings of a committed relationship are purely fiction. this entire relationship to him is simply to satisfy his sexual needs. he has no intention of a long term commitment not matter what he says .

so you re falling apart because you are mistaking these feelings of sexual attraction for feelings of devotion and commitment. you think he is the one ,but to him you are only one of many he wants to be with.

his extreme selfish orientation toward you is also show with the Saturn/Jupiter conjunction opposed to orcus and chiron. there is nothing here but selfishness and the need to control you emotionally. pallas forms a square to this opposition which exemplifies your attitude of being so enthralled with him that you will mold yourself to his desires.

you are way over your head and chance to lose your soul.

as you will ignore my words, at least do not throw yourself away on him....take this relationship as an affair, don't' let your heart jump to a conclusion for a month or so.(though I don't think this will last that long)

todd

posted March 03, 2020 09:26 PM            

I’m dramatic so my world isn’t falling apart I am clearly hyperbolic but I am in a place where I can transfer and accommodate his work.

posted March 04, 2020 01:42 AM            

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Originally posted by Kimberlina210:
I’ve tried every manner of getting the pictures to post other people have received help with this issue hopefully someone will be kind enough to help me as well. I’m on a phone so I think that is what is making it more challenging.

The relationship is 6 months old and my BA is in Psych with a concentration in Marriage and Family Therapy so I’m aware the dynamics are different long distance but I also want to look at all sides of things before leaping and moving to another part of the country.

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posted March 04, 2020 02:11 AM            

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I am not foolish enough to quit a relationship that has showed no signs of anything sexual predator like thus far based on the word of a man who is reading a chart

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Nevertheless, Kimberlina - you are a woman, and he is still a testosterone-fuelled boy. ... So, "before leaping and moving to another part of the country" ... do make the time to get a sound understanding of the Moon's qcx to the mid-point of Pluto/Mars/Sun in the Davison Chart (posted below). ... [And I'd be inclined to also explore its Venus-Jupiter-Uranus learning triangle.]