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posted March 10, 2020 04:09 PM            

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I'd be really interested in the wisdom you guys will be able to tell me about the relationship that I have with somebody.

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I'm the virgo. I am especially interested in what you guys have to say about the natal planets that conjunct planets in the composite chart. It's really hard to find any information on natal compared to composite, even though I hear how important it is. If I see examples, it's never the same planets that we have. Your help is very appreciated!

composite + natal with orb
HIM:
neptune + sun 0 degree
jupiter + mercury 1 degree
uranus + jupiter 1 degree
jupiter + venus 2 degree
eros + amor 2 degree
ME:
Sun + pluto 1 degree
Mercury + pluto 1 degree
Neptune + uranus 2 degree
neptune + neptune 2 degree
lust + venus 2 degree

I'm lucky to get to have a venus, mercury, sun, pluto stellium in our composite. Even though it's a wide orb (9 degrees). The attraction is magnetic for me, but I don't know if he feels as strongly about me as I do him.

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posted March 10, 2020 06:40 PM            

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hi Charmander1761

this composite is a bit difficult. by that I mean the affection between you is unusual in that it I hard to figure if it isbonding or loose.

the Saturn/moon midpoint is square to the juno/Jupiter midpoint which shows the relationship will be commuted or will break off. it is not the nergy of an affair, it is more serious.

but the juno/Jupiter midpoint is conjunct to the Neptune/Uranus conjunction. this is a very confusing aspect because it can show vibrant creative sensitivity between you but then it also fore bodes deception and dissipation, like big plans will be made but nothing will come of them.

the venus/mercury/sun stellium is very favorable because it show affections and openness. it gives happiness and positivity.

Saturn is sextile to Neptune and to the stellium which stabilizes your feelings for each other. gives a underlying sensitivity and concern for each others feelings.

venus is square to juno on the descendant which shows that you are very happy and feel the relationship has a lot of potential to become committed.

but there are some concerns for the true nature of his feelings.
one is that eris is conjunct the south node. this is extremely sexual and affectionate but it is does not lead necessarily to greater emotional intimacy and love.
in addition chiron is and opposed to eris which does 2 things one is that it can give a strong psychic connection. you might find that you think very similiar but it can also make the sexual feelings stronger but again not the sincere feelings of love. with eris, Chiron tend to be exploitive and often shows he has interest in quirky or "kinky sexual desires".

then eros/psyche midpoint is square to orcus which also is very selfish sexually. it can be very romantic but underneath it tends to be cold and manipulative, though this may not be obvious because eros and psyche give such a and romantic affection that lapses of emotional content can be overlooked.
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posted March 10, 2020 09:06 PM            

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Thank you so much for your reply, Todd! I really appreciate your view and I admire your deep understanding of astrology. I'm a long time lurker, but a new poster.

I dated this person for a few months when he was in his senior year in high school and i was in my first year of college. I remember the moment i met him really vividly because i was so taken aback by how attracted i was to him. It was a year before we formed a relationship so we we're both in high school. It really felt like love at first sight even though his unibrow was unruly at the time (venus conj mars in synastry kinda spark). Then a week later, I saw him hugging another girl with his unibrow tamed and I was really jealous because he didn't need to change his appearance to be beautiful in my eyes. I left him alone for the rest of the school year.

When I was in college we started to hang around the same people, so I started to see him more. There was always a huge attraction, but we didn't really talk much. We would dance a lot at concerts (active 5th house). He would express his feelings through his eyes (scorpio asc?) a lot.

The first time I went to his house was the first time we made out. The second time I went to his house we hooked up, and got caught by his mom 0_0 i wasnt allowed over after that. Then, it was difficult for us to be alone together. We would be hanging out with friends and I'd be practically begging for his attention and he'd be like "no chill, there's people". That sun square venus synastry is no joke. Since i felt like i wasnt getting attention, i cheated (maybe moon square neptune in synastry but i don't want to excuse my actions). I'd knock my teenage self in the head, if i could. This guy and I never even had sex even though it was on both of our minds. I guess that's the "big plans will be made, but nothing will ever become of them".
Anyway, he found out and broke up with me on one heck of a day for me. I got hit by a car while biking to meet him, and I got kicked out of my dad's house after I met up him. It must have been a tough transit for me. It's been a few years and I've moved to a different state and he's in college. We've both matured and I've apologized to him for my actions.
We still stayed in touch, even though he's still as stoic as always. He does flirt with me and I flirt back. He still has the sweater that I gave him and I have the sweater that he gave me. I've opened up to him about a lot of really personal issues and he's as stoic as always. x.x
the last time i saw him, my intuition told me that i would meet up with him. There is a powerful spiritual connection between us, and when we are together i practically vibrate. The last time that i saw him was 5 years ago right before i moved across country.
Now, I'm moving back into the same state as him. I want to meet up with him, and I'll ask but i don't know what to expect.
I was looking into the astrology because I'm interested if we have the compatibility to get back together and to have a lasting relationship, which is such a common question. I want him to stay in my life forever, and I'll be his friend for that. But deep down, i want to tell him that he makes me feel the strongest love that ive ever felt and for him to reciprocate my feelings.

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posted March 18, 2020 06:44 PM            

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Welcome!

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posted March 26, 2020 04:49 PM            

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posted March 27, 2020 12:28 PM            

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Hello! I'm happy to be here. I'm new to this community so I'm still figuring out how to post pictures.
I'm going to try this:

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If there's actually a picture there, then it's our natal charts and our composite.

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posted March 27, 2020 12:32 PM            

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Oh jeez, that's not right (*×*)?

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posted March 27, 2020 12:55 PM            

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With imgur, I have to right-click the image into a new tab, and copy that link. I’m on my phone right now, otherwise I’d try to do it for you.

Try that address between [img] and [/img]

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posted March 27, 2020 05:37 PM            

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Here you go. You also need to remove the "s" from the http, whenever you post a link.

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posted April 03, 2020 05:49 PM            

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posted April 03, 2020 09:33 PM            

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Thank you Teasel, for being a tech-savvy genius.

I found out what transit was going on when he dumped me (and i got kicked out of my dads house and hit by a car while biking). Chiron was transiting my saturn.
Magi calls this "the heartbreak transit" and says that there's no hope for rekindling the relationship between us since we broke up during this transit. Which is pretty hard to hear, and even harder to believe since i dont want it to be true.
I often give him readings about transits. He calls me "his little fortune teller" *blush*. i noticed that he's going through the same transit now and chiron won't be 10 degrees away from his saturn until june next year because of it going into retrograde and all. Interestingly, when chiron finally gets moving, during that same month out prog composite moon will be opposite our composite "love stellium" sun, mercury, venus, pluto.
I don't know what that means for what'll happen between us, but here's to hoping i get to see him again.

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posted May 04, 2020 09:23 AM            

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I just started learning about attachment styles in love, recently. At this point in our lives, this guy has a dismissive avoidant attachment style and I have a fearful avoidant attachment style. So, his Eris conjunct the South Node, showing that he doesn't have emotional vulnerability in this relationship, fits. A lot.

Right now, chiron is transiting on his saturn (highlighting his grandcross) and opposing my venus. Learning about these attachment styles have been a blessing. I always knew that i felt more anxious the more a relationship became more serious, and this stemmed from being abandoned by my abusive mother as a child; but learning about how i can focus on my behavior to create a healthy dynamic where i feel like I'm being emotionally open with somebody is like opening an entire different chapter of my life.

I'm really happy that we are still in contact so that I can tell him about these attachment styles so that he can learn to create a healthy relationship for himself, too.

Disclaimer: this dude actually has dismissive avoidant behavior, though there is a probability that it could be that he's just not that into me.

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