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Topic: Lilith conjunct Venus synastry
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Hikaru29
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From: Asia
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posted March 31, 2020 11:38 AM
  
I know this is a very sexual connection but I want to hear some personal experience... what's it like when a woman's Venus conjunct a man's Lilith. How does the man feel?IP: Logged |
implosions
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posted March 31, 2020 02:10 PM
Lilith in a man's chart is similar to a woman's -- it's more of a 'how does a human feel this energy'. But also depends on how strongly the man was raised with conscious or unconscious patriarchal values. Sucks, but that's typically how it works out.Lilith in a man's chart will either be embodied by them, where they have the same instinctual area of autonomy and demand for being seen as an individual person (with all their individual choice and action), or they might project that onto a woman that embodies what they don't want to own in themselves (ie, feminine energy projected externally). When conjunct with a woman's Venus, it's pitting her values against his instinct and individuality at best. Those values can either flourish with Lilith, if they 'feel' right to the Lilith energy, or there may be outright rejection of either or. Usually, if two people are attracted to one another, then Lilith is instinctively drawn to explore those values. IP: Logged |
Hikaru29
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posted March 31, 2020 02:47 PM
I forgot to add... his Lilith is conjunct his DSC so my Venus is sitting on both. How would that change things? IP: Logged |
implosions
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From: canada
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posted March 31, 2020 02:53 PM
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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
I forgot to add... his Lilith is conjunct his DSC so my Venus is sitting on both. How would that change things?
Somewhat, yes. Venus on the DC can be lovely, as the DC person may see the Venus as all they love about another person! Which is great. Lilith on the DC natally though, can mean that they project Lilith qualities onto the other (even though it's typically them that has those traits quite strong). They may also see the Venus person embody those traits- but with Lilith, it's like I said before, just with more of a chance for projection or yearning for the other to embody what they're looking for. It will really depend on the person themselves and how grown they are when it comes to women. IP: Logged |
Hikaru29
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posted April 01, 2020 01:03 AM
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Originally posted by implosions:
Somewhat, yes. Venus on the DC can be lovely, as the DC person may see the Venus as all they love about another person! Which is great.Lilith on the DC natally though, can mean that they project Lilith qualities onto the other (even though it's typically them that has those traits quite strong). They may also see the Venus person embody those traits- but with Lilith, it's like I said before, just with more of a chance for projection or yearning for the other to embody what they're looking for. It will really depend on the person themselves and how grown they are when it comes to women.
Ah, thanks for the analysis! It's hard to find interpretations of Lilith in men other than it shows the type of women they both love and fear. For us it occurs in the sign of Gemini... is this the reason why he always accuses me of flirting? IP: Logged |
implosions
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From: canada
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posted April 01, 2020 04:05 AM
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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
Ah, thanks for the analysis! It's hard to find interpretations of Lilith in men other than it shows the type of women they both love and fear. For us it occurs in the sign of Gemini... is this the reason why he always accuses me of flirting?
I don't usually like to pin icky behaviours of people on astrological placements -- people still have choice no matter what. But Gemini/Air energy would give more a cerebral awareness of the other person, and Lilith in Gemini would be doubly so. There can be a hyper awareness of communication- inflection, intention, etc. But whether it's read correctly is another thing. It could be projection or it could just be insecurity-- which, the two typically go hand in hand. But to answer in short, yeah, Gemini (or any Lilith in Air placement) could have that fixation on communication style. I would say it has a Libra flavour as well since it's on the DC/7th. IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted April 12, 2020 12:31 PM
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