posted April 02, 2020 02:49 PM            

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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
I think you want someone sensitive/nurturing/caring like a Cancer and your Moon/Venus shows your inclination for a down-to-earth, calm, steady, practical and sensual partner. While he has lotsa planets in Capricorn but they're all in 5H + his Leo Moon so he has strong Leo influence. He also doesn't seem to be matching your 7H.

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posted April 02, 2020 03:11 PM            

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Originally posted by implosions:
First thing I noticed; your Aries stellium is ALL up in his 8th house. He sees you as someone REALLY close (or the potential to be very close, that you really 'see' him and his secrets, even if you yourself aren't on that boat).

He being more dominant to your 1/2nd houses makes a more immediate environment sort of interaction, and more comfortable there.

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posted April 03, 2020 09:50 AM            

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Originally posted by LaceyLeigh:
Thank you for your response! Do I match any of his houses? I can’t seem to figure out why he likes me.. we have nothing in common, and we look really strange together.

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I think you're hitting his 5th house with your Sag ASC with its ruler in 1st house conjunct his stellium. I thought with your 7th ruler conjunct Sun, you might like his Leo energy but I guess not.

posted April 03, 2020 03:48 PM            

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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
I think you're hitting his 5th house with your Sag ASC with its ruler in 1st house conjunct his stellium. I thought with your 7th ruler conjunct Sun, you might like his Leo energy but I guess not.

Btw, are you more attracted to people with Gemini or Aries?

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posted April 04, 2020 01:04 AM            

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Originally posted by Librapurr:
His Saturn/ Venus squares your Mercury, but Mercury is your DC ruler so understanding of relationships, communication are important to you. Maybe, this is a deal breaker.
Also, Saturn squares Jupiter- challenging
, different belief system, dynamics.

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posted April 04, 2020 02:29 AM            

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Originally posted by LaceyLeigh:
I think I’m more attracted to people with Gemini/Cancer and Leo placements doesn't have to be the Sun.

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That's matching your 7th/8th cusps directly + your stellium in 4th house so you definitely welcome Cancer traits.

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I think his Capricorn energy overpowers his Leo energy. He seems happy and upbeat when you first meet him, but after getting to know him, he seems to have a different vibe about him.

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Here it seems to show that sign overrules house. His planets all in squares to yours repels the attraction.

posted April 04, 2020 01:02 PM            

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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
Here it seems to show that sign overrules house. His planets all in squares to yours repels the attraction.

So do you find yourself more Aries or Cancer?

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posted April 10, 2020 10:52 PM            

Looking at your numbers, I'm guessing he was born on an even number day, you on an odd number day, that can cause a disconnect.

1st.
One of the biggest signs of physical attraction I've noticed is number conjunctions. He has progressed back to the 9/10 day of the month, while you are in & around 2nd/25th. For me there is no physical attraction.

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Your moon signs are neighbors, that is a high sign of compatibility and comfort. Your Virgo moon is at home around lunar Leos and Libras. To him, something about him feels familiar and comfortable.

posted April 11, 2020 01:03 AM            

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Originally posted by Nine:
Perhaps, he's not feminine enough.

Looking at your numbers, I'm guessing he was born on an even number day, you on an odd number day, that can cause a disconnect.

1st.
One of the biggest signs of physical attraction I've noticed is number conjunctions. He has progressed back to the 9/10 day of the month, while you are in & around 2nd/25th. For me there is no physical attraction.

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Your moon signs are neighbors, that is a high sign of compatibility and comfort. Your Virgo moon is at home around lunar Leos and Libras. To him, something about him feels familiar and comfortable.

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Your pMoon is currently showing Leo, which is conjunct his nMoon & nAsc. This is what he's feeling, you're hitting him in two sensitive spots. This is a sign of attraction - he's in your life! Just not a sexual attraction.

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posted April 11, 2020 05:04 AM            

H7 is "the one" in a romantic sense to us. His H7 Ruler is conj Mars - matching your Aries stellium especially since it involves Sun=Mars and even more they're conj. A bit weaker matchup is his DSC being aspected by Moon, and you have that stellium which is mostly personal planets in H4. Also, he might "get off' on, as you say, "looking really odd together" [as well as having nothing in common aka 'ill'-fitting] with Aqua DSC (DSC=Ideal Relationship, Aqua=likes "weird"/non-traditional stuff etc).

posted April 11, 2020 12:46 PM            

He idealizes you because of that aspect disregarding all the other placements and aspects that show that the two of you are a mismatch. It's that powerful but it'll wear off.

You, on the other hand, need a lot of Aries in a partner:
- Dsc ruler Mercury in Aries
- Sun in Aries
- Mars in Aries

All three of them are in H4, so you like Cancer traits.
Your Dsc is in Gemini, so you need that, too. Dsc ruler Mercury is conjunct Sun, so you also need Leo energy.
Your secondary H7 would be your third house (Gemini = H3), you might like planets in very late Aquarius or in Pisces.

His Asc ruler Sun is in Aqua doing nothing for you. His Mars is in Capricorn also doing nothing for you.
His Asc is in Leo, which is probably the only reason you noticed him at all.

Had his Ascendant ruler been in Gemini or Aries, you would've felt it. Were he an Aries Sun, you might have felt the same way as he does about you. But he just doesn't touch anything important in your chart, that's why you're not interested in him.

posted April 11, 2020 04:37 PM            

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Originally posted by HelixID:
It's pretty obvious:
1. His Descendant ruler is in Capricorn.
2. Your Ascendant ruler is in Capricorn.

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posted May 02, 2020 09:11 PM            

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Originally posted by ULT12:
I cannot tell - is he Leo ASC or Virgo ASC. I'm going to assume Leo.

H7 is "the one" in a romantic sense to us. His H7 Ruler is conj Mars - matching your Aries stellium especially since it involves Sun=Mars and even more they're conj. A bit weaker matchup is his DSC being aspected by Moon, and you have that stellium which is mostly personal planets in H4. Also, he might "get off' on, as you say, "looking really odd together" [as well as having nothing in common aka 'ill'-fitting] with Aqua DSC (DSC=Ideal Relationship, Aqua=likes "weird"/non-traditional stuff etc).

You definitely not liking him romantically can be seen by your DSC Ruler square(doesn't like) his Cap stellium. Sexual, physical, so on, chemistry(whether we "instinctively feel attracted/repulsed) is generally/mostly a Mars matter. Your repulsion can be seen by his Mars squaring your DSC Ruler as said, but it also squaring your/a female''s top 2 pointers for men(male role models - what you like), Sun+Mars.

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posted May 02, 2020 09:14 PM            

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Originally posted by HelixID:
It's pretty obvious:
1. His Descendant ruler is in Capricorn.
2. Your Ascendant ruler is in Capricorn.

He idealizes you because of that aspect disregarding all the other placements and aspects that show that the two of you are a mismatch. It's that powerful but it'll wear off.

You, on the other hand, need a lot of Aries in a partner:
- Dsc ruler Mercury in Aries
- Sun in Aries
- Mars in Aries

All three of them are in H4, so you like Cancer traits.
Your Dsc is in Gemini, so you need that, too. Dsc ruler Mercury is conjunct Sun, so you also need Leo energy.
Your secondary H7 would be your third house (Gemini = H3), you might like planets in very late Aquarius or in Pisces.

His Asc ruler Sun is in Aqua doing nothing for you. His Mars is in Capricorn also doing nothing for you.
His Asc is in Leo, which is probably the only reason you noticed him at all.

Had his Ascendant ruler been in Gemini or Aries, you would've felt it. Were he an Aries Sun, you might have felt the same way as he does about you. But he just doesn't touch anything important in your chart, that's why you're not interested in him.

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posted May 02, 2020 09:14 PM            

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Originally posted by Randall:
Bump!

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posted May 02, 2020 09:42 PM            

I think being Aquarius he likes that you are completely different to him and maybe to anyone else he has ever dated before.
So he feels he can learn from the differences... He's attracted to the differences.

You, on the other hand might be put off by the differences...

Having so much Aries going on, you probably have higher self-esteem... and you would probably want to be in a relationship that simply makes you happy and makes you feel supported... with someone who fuels, rather than quenches, your fire...

posted May 02, 2020 10:44 PM            

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Originally posted by Odette:
There is usually an attraction/repulsion with squares... and you have quite the cardinal stelliums squaring each other...

I think being Aquarius he likes that you are completely different to him and maybe to anyone else he has ever dated before.
So he feels he can learn from the differences... He's attracted to the differences.

You, on the other hand might be put off by the differences...

Having so much Aries going on, you probably have higher self-esteem... and you would probably want to be in a relationship that simply makes you happy and makes you feel supported... with someone who fuels, rather than quenches, your fire...

He, on the other hand, has a different view of relationships.. He might generally think of relationships as being *difficult*, problematic etc..
If this guy attracted a woman who was very similar to him and didn't challenge him, he would probably feel bored and he would feel as though that wasn't "true love"... because "true love" is supposed to be really really hard... and complicated.

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