posted April 02, 2020 04:16 PM            

I met a guy at an indoor race track. I can tell he noticed me intensely. He couldn't stop staring. He asked me what my name was I told him. He got every oppertunity to touch me like helping me to put my helmet on and trying to put my belt on. It was weird. He would've eat me alive if he could

The next 3 days I couldn't stop thinking about him. I searched him and found him on insta. We spoke. He seemed happy. We exchanged numbers and snapchats. We been talking since March 14. Admitted we liked each other. We we're supposed to hang out but this virus is going on.
We opened up to each other. I told him I been hurt before. I told him "I Noticed you follow a lottt of ladies on instagram". He laughed and told me those were friends or mutual friends. Ever since then he made an effort to follow only men or guys.At least that's what I noticed.

I've been making tik toks and we don't follow each other however I noticed he watches my videos. And gets inspired to do something similar.
Suddenly I noticed his texts getting less frequent. He was sending me snapchats everyday but then I noticed they were mass snap chats sent out to him and his friends. Idk why I caught feelings for that.I told him to keep me off his list. He asked how I knew i just said "either text me or dw" . I ignored him for a week.

In that week he kept me on his notifications. If I posted a story on snapchat or instagram he would be the first to view it. I ignored all of his. Then one day I hit him up. I told him why I was ignoring him he said "okay". Then he said he was going to bed and said he would message me. Never did

At this point I'm ignoring him again. Maybe he noticed I'm getting attached ? Should I tell him I wanna talk to him as a friend ? Make subtle hints he's my friend now ?I don't want him to feel like he's like locked down. I also don't want him to put his attention on another woman :/
He could also be busy with online classes from college.

posted April 03, 2020 09:55 PM            

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Originally posted by Librapurr:
First, need a synastry wheel, better from Astro.com
Second, if I understood correctly, you barely know each other to think somebody is getting attached.

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It's here
https://www.astro.com/cgi/aclch.cgi?btyp=acc;nhor=1;lang=e;nho2=2#cid=a14fileXP7KFp-u1585373033&lang=e&btyp=acc&uniq=035008_45083&sx1=1&sx2=0&AstroClick.x=381&AstroClick.y=228

Here's another one:
https://www.astrotheme.com/astrological_synastry_chart.php

Im not sure about his birth time. He said he *thinks* it's 7pm but that was in Greece. I'm leaning towards his rising sign to be a Virgo

posted April 04, 2020 06:12 PM            

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Originally posted by Librapurr:
The links don’t work. You need to load screenshots of the charts how you did with the first one.

Looking briefly at your first picture with natal signs, you might have what each other need. Your Aquarius Venus squares Pluto and his Aquarius Mars squares Pluto. It would be perfect if it’d be the opposite way because traditionally a woman Mars - what she looks in men. You both have a combination of intensity and detachment, desire of freedom.

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Hi Librapurr,
I made 2 charts just in case. Yeah I noticed he's a bit detached. Hard to distinguish if he actually likes me or is playing hard to get. How do I know ? Does he want to be chased ? Seems like he hardly initiates but responds fast to my texts

EDIT:
https://imgur.com/a/SmgjTFd

posted April 06, 2020 12:35 AM            

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Originally posted by anska5:
both links don't work

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Sorry about that ?? I thought I uploaded the links

posted April 06, 2020 12:35 AM            

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Originally posted by anska5:
both links don't work

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posted April 06, 2020 05:08 PM            

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Originally posted by Librapurr:
Astro.com - would be better. That format is common here, I’m not sure about this one. A link wouldn’t work, you need to load a picture of the chart.
With Aries Venus, he likes outgoing and confident women, but romantic with his Neptune and Pisces.

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Here is a wheel from ASTRO.com
https://imgur.com/VOxmPOk

If someone could please help me out as soon as possible. I'd appreciate it. I don't know much about astrology.

@Librapurr so you're saying to chase him here and there ? He is laying low these days and doesn't initiate at all anymore. But he responds fast. I'm just worried being affection will scare him off.

UPDATED: I sent him a snapchat today he opened and didn't respond. I told him "wow". He said "What lol"
I told him "no snap? "
He said "im busy"

posted April 06, 2020 11:36 PM            

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Originally posted by Librapurr:
I see a different picture, not the correct chart https://www.astro.com/ - from this site.

With Virgo rising, and Sun and Mars in 6th - he is probably very serious about his job, business responsibilities. However, he still likes to have fun with Jupiter in 5th.
Astrology cannot tell you exactly what to do and how to behave. You still need to get to know him and see how he reacts. Maybe, he isn’t interested much in online flirting since you cannot go out anyway because of quarantine.
Aries Venus might not have patience going backwards and forwards, prefers direct women who know what they want. But with Aquarius and Virgo, you don’t want to appear too pushy.
From your picture, It’s not easy to see, you might have some nice aspects what show romantic interest in each other. Your Rising really matches his romantic relationship house - no wonder he likes to watch your videos.

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hanks for responding 🙂 if it helps maybe you can show me which chart to use ? I only see 3 charts related to relationships so I used the closest one to a synastry one.

Lately he has been busy and not interested in talking for long so I let him be . I dont know if that is a test or not. Youre also right. He seems guarded and doesnt want to flirt online since we can't see each other. If he wasn't interested he wouldnt respond at all right ? He would simply tell me ?

What house is the relationship house ? What is it called ?

Should I just back off for now ?
Also does he seem like a womanizer ? Does he want someone who is independent ?someone not very social ? He is the opposite of me. He has a wide social network. I dont. I'm more low key and private. I hardly use social media

posted April 07, 2020 02:03 PM            

Houses are number sections on a natal wheel. 5th house - related to pleasure, entertainment, and romantic relationships
7th house - related to partnerships, long-term relationships.

He has an inclination toward liking fun and romantic things much with Jupiter in 5th and square Venus. It’s not a necessary womanizer, he might just like women attention or indulge in the other types of fun things. However, with Capricorn in 5th and Saturn in 7th he is more serious towards relationships, and Virgo AC can make him uptight. So he can appreciate serious girls. I’d say he is mix of being too serious or too fun loving.

posted April 07, 2020 03:57 PM            

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Originally posted by Librapurr:
Astro.com - Free horoscopes- Under drawings & calculations- Extended Chart Selection.
Under birth data - in Sections - chart type: Synastry chart.

Houses are number sections on a natal wheel. 5th house - related to pleasure, entertainment, and romantic relationships
7th house - related to partnerships, long-term relationships.

He has an inclination toward liking fun and romantic things much with Jupiter in 5th and square Venus. It’s not a necessary womanizer, he might just like women attention or indulge in the other types of fun things. However, with Capricorn in 5th and Saturn in 7th he is more serious towards relationships, and Virgo AC can make him uptight. So he can appreciate serious girls. I’d say he is mix of being too serious or too fun loving.

I don’t know how much you did to back off. I guess with your Aries moon sq. Uranus/ Neptune and Mars oppos Neptune and Uranus, and Venus/ Pluto you can go to extremes by being too detached and dreamy or too intense.

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I just stopped talking to him when he told me "I'm busy". I know I texted him at the wrong time. If i texted him later at night he would've responded in a different way. Yeah your insight seems about right. Last time he had sex was last summer lol.

posted April 08, 2020 11:48 AM            

“Mercury might feel childish or not “bright enough”. Saturn could be silent often. There can be a serious tone to your conversations that impedes a natural flow of communication. Negativity or criticism may dominate your communications from time to time. Try to avoid focusing on problems or negative stories/expressions of ideas.”

Saturn could be critical about Mercury.
Since you’re not seeing each other, it could be a major obstacle. I would suggest to try to get a real meeting with him so the other nice aspects have an opportunity to be expressed.

I have this with someone. We have different interests and could annoy each other sometimes, but we still have the common ground. It’s more challenging in the beginning.
He is Saturn so he might block communication and be critical.

Also, Saturn sq. NN - bounding and challenging in the same time requires some maturity.

posted April 14, 2020 04:44 PM            

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Originally posted by Librapurr:
Your Venus on his Mars - the traditional aspect of psychical attraction. You are the perfectly good fit for his romantic interest with your Capricorn/Neptune/ in his 5th. If time of birth is correct, he should be pretty much attracted to you.
I think I found a problem Saturn sq. Mercury - communicator barrier, different styles of thinking.

“Mercury might feel childish or not “bright enough”. Saturn could be silent often. There can be a serious tone to your conversations that impedes a natural flow of communication. Negativity or criticism may dominate your communications from time to time. Try to avoid focusing on problems or negative stories/expressions of ideas.”

Saturn could be critical about Mercury.
Since you’re not seeing each other, it could be a major obstacle. I would suggest to try to get a real meeting with him so the other nice aspects have an opportunity to be expressed.

I have this with someone. We have different interests and could annoy each other sometimes, but we still have the common ground. It’s more challenging in the beginning.
He is Saturn so he might block communication and be critical.

Also, Saturn sq. NN - bounding and challenging in the same time requires some maturity.

It could be some disappointments and phantasy vs reality theme. You might feel like his actions are confusing. ((Mars oppos. Neptune) Probably, this’s why he seems detached to you.
It’s not that bad in your situation because he has strong Mars aspect to you, and this one is farther.

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Thanks so much makes so much more sense now. I have one more question for you or anyone else who can answer

Do you think I have a better chance if I pursue something casual with him in the beginning ? I think aquarius guys can sense if you're trying to lock them down. I don't want him to know I wanna lock him down lol

OR should i just give him the impression I want no strings just sex and see if he would like that ? Or is he REALLY a serious guy that he only likes serious girls ?

posted April 18, 2020 04:20 AM            

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Originally posted by Librapurr:
I think they already told you about Aquarius in a different topic. Plus, his Aries Venus - I told you before and his Mars is basically in Cancer because it’s in the last degrees of Aquarius. if he is indeed Virgo Rising. It could be more problems, they could be over-analytical, reserved and picky, I wouldn’t expect him to do much chasing - doesn’t matter what you pursue.
Again, astrology cannot tell you 100% his reaction. The fact, he didn’t have any kind of relationships for almost a year (how I understood) tells a lot.
Probably, you don’t want to be too aggressive, but the active one .

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AHh thanks so much. Sorry for the myriad of questions. It's hard to get a response on here and you're the only one that seemed to provide answers

I guess I will gently chase... i don't want to overwhelm him. I will throw in hints here and there. hopefully its enough !

posted April 27, 2020 03:52 PM            

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Originally posted by Librapurr:
Welcome. There’s used to be more astrology experts. It’s slow over here now.

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Ahh okay. Since you're the only user that is interested in helping, let me give you a quick update.

So because of quarantine, we haven't seen each other yet. He doesn't ever text me first. One day I had the guts to message him first and ask him "what are you looking for anyway ? Something between dating & friends?"

He responds with "i don't want to put labels on anything yet but I want to go with the flow"
I said "me too i think that's better for me"

He says " yeah i don't want to put labels because there's less pressure"

I think he's just saying that because I been hurt before and i don't want too much too soon

Then I told him we should slow down with the sexting because then you're going to want sex right away

He's like "No obviously not we'll hang out first of course"

posted May 02, 2020 03:53 PM            

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Originally posted by Librapurr:
He’s been having hard transits through his 5th house and Transit Saturn on his Mercury- would make him more serious and stiff. It doesn’t sound like he’s into having fun.

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I see

Update: we spoke and I opened up about how I crave love but I also feared it . I made it known to him I need courage

He said he understands
Later he posted a pic of himself saying he needs a hair cut. I told him hes handsome still

He responded with" lmao thanks 😘"

I guess now hes kind of being responsive emotionally

posted May 03, 2020 04:01 PM            

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Originally posted by soapy_3:
I see

Update: we spoke and I opened up about how I crave love but I also feared it . I made it known to him I need courage

He said he understands
Later he posted a pic of himself saying he needs a hair cut. I told him hes handsome still

He responded with" lmao thanks 😘"

I guess now hes kind of being responsive emotionally

He only likes when i initiate. its weird

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