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Topic: How do you think he feels about me?
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cultstatus
Knowflake Posts: 510
From: Australia
Registered: Nov 2014
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posted April 09, 2020 11:53 PM
  
We've known each other five years.
Have hooked up in the past.
Most recently hung out for two days on a platonic level, but it was super intimate, holding hands, sharing secrets etc.He has said things to me in the past like 'obsessed with you, have a massive crush on you' etc. I get butterflies when we communicate or when I even imagine being near him. However he hasn't ever expressed any feelings, or told me how he views me and our connection, and I'm guessing due to the mercury pluto and moon pluto squares I've always kind of tried to demand declarations from him. He get's annoyed with me and I end up blocking him. He triggers me massively. I just want to know how he feels about me and the connection. I feel like I'll never get the truth from him for whatever reason. He's not someone who I would want to be in a relationship with, but it drives me crazy that he won't admit his feelings for me. I feel like I can be too full on for him and his gemini stellium/aqua moon. When we are together the energy is perfect, its an equal give and take and adoration, but outside of that I am left feeling like he doesn't care as much as I do, that he doesn't value the connection as much as I do. So what do you think he really feels about me and this connection based on our synastry. I'm on the inside. 
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Randall
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posted April 10, 2020 04:08 PM
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cultstatus
Knowflake Posts: 510
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posted April 10, 2020 06:19 PM
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cultstatus
Knowflake Posts: 510
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posted April 17, 2020 09:10 AM
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comdoc
Knowflake Posts: 971
From: Tucson
Registered: Feb 2015
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posted April 17, 2020 09:48 AM
"We've known each other five years.
Have hooked up in the past.
Most recently hung out for two days on a platonic level, but it was super intimate, holding hands, sharing secrets etc.He has said things to me in the past like 'obsessed with you, have a massive crush on you' etc. I get butterflies when we communicate or when I even imagine being near him. However he hasn't ever expressed any feelings, or told me how he views me and our connection, and I'm guessing due to the mercury pluto and moon pluto squares I've always kind of tried to demand declarations from him. He get's annoyed with me and I end up blocking him. He triggers me massively. I just want to know how he feels about me and the connection. I feel like I'll never get the truth from him for whatever reason. He's not someone who I would want to be in a relationship with, but it drives me crazy that he won't admit his feelings for me. I feel like I can be too full on for him and his gemini stellium/aqua moon. When we are together the energy is perfect, its an equal give and take and adoration, but outside of that I am left feeling like he doesn't care as much as I do, that he doesn't value the connection as much as I do. So what do you think he really feels about me and this connection based on our synastry." Overall synastry potential of 88%(8.8/10) is powerful. Don't overlook the Mars/Neptune square; that dynamic does not help you feel stable. He feels the pull between 4th and 10th House planet groups. I sense his comfort in your intimacy, it's healing for you both (4H Sun-Chiron)--but your own outer world focus and concern is distracting. Avoid demanding and expectations. Karma at work: keep at it. Check your composite. IP: Logged |
cultstatus
Knowflake Posts: 510
From: Australia
Registered: Nov 2014
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posted April 17, 2020 10:08 PM
Thank you for the reply.How did you calculate the synastry potential? We are extremely compatible when we are around each other. Strong attraction on all levels and a good friendship and understanding of each other. He just never makes me feel like I am that important to him, but I know he has strong feelings for me? It does my head in, that's why I can't deal with him. I just want to understand why he is like this. Is it just me? Is he like this with everyone? Yes I experienced the Mars Neptune square with an ex and it wasn't fun.
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comdoc
Knowflake Posts: 971
From: Tucson
Registered: Feb 2015
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posted April 18, 2020 10:31 AM
"Thank you for the reply."You're welcome. "How did you calculate the synastry potential?" I'm a gifted kinesthetic energy sensitive who can feel scalar values of astrological combinations. I developed a way to compare individual potential values to each other, using electromagnetic sensors in my body. "We are extremely compatible when we are around each other. Strong attraction on all levels and a good friendship and understanding of each other. He just never makes me feel like I am that important to him, but I know he has strong feelings for me? It does my head in, that's why I can't deal with him. I just want to understand why he is like this. Is it just me? Is he like this with everyone?" Yes and no. His natal Moon is square Pluto, Sun square Mars (he's like this with everyone). OTOH it's you who bring your own qualities into your specific relationship with him: your Sun-Mercury square his Pluto. Your Venus-Saturn oppose his Sun. "Yes I experienced the Mars Neptune square with an ex and it wasn't fun." It's your internal condition and a generational influence.
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cultstatus
Knowflake Posts: 510
From: Australia
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posted April 19, 2020 08:57 AM
So would you think he’s affected to the degree that I am?I genuinely think he does, but just processes differently to me? Or am I deluding myself? IP: Logged |
comdoc
Knowflake Posts: 971
From: Tucson
Registered: Feb 2015
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posted April 19, 2020 09:39 PM
"So would you think he’s affected to the degree that I am?I genuinely think he does, but just processes differently to me? Or am I deluding myself?" Yes, I think you are both affected by your interpersonal synastry. His personal planets and placements cause him to process differently than your personal planets and placements. If you have not, first I suggest you look at his natal chart alone and your natal chart alone. I like astro.com AstroClick Portrait and AstroClick Love interpretations. Just click on each placement and read the text. This can provide invaluable insights into his and your own character. Then look at your synastry overlay from his House wheel perspective, and compare with your House wheel perspective. Finally select AstroClick Partner for your composite midpoint chart placement interpretations. IP: Logged |
Brenda_S
Knowflake Posts: 858
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posted April 19, 2020 10:34 PM
"I'm a gifted kinesthetic energy sensitive who can feel scalar values of astrological combinations. I developed a way to compare individual potential values to each other, using electromagnetic sensors in my body."@comdoc Can you elaborate? As to the process and all... I'm curious 🤗 thanks. IP: Logged |
cultstatus
Knowflake Posts: 510
From: Australia
Registered: Nov 2014
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posted April 20, 2020 04:34 AM
Yes, I use astro.com ComdotIt's interesting, I perceive him to be quite fiery and passionate, which is strange given his chart is basically void of fire IP: Logged |
comdoc
Knowflake Posts: 971
From: Tucson
Registered: Feb 2015
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posted April 20, 2020 09:31 AM
What do you see in the midpoint composite? I'm curious. Would you post it? quote:
Originally posted by cultstatus:
Yes, I use astro.com ComdocIt's interesting, I perceive him to be quite fiery and passionate, which is strange given his chart is basically void of fire
Is there anything in his chart element interpretations that could explain him being non-expressive? IP: Logged |
comdoc
Knowflake Posts: 971
From: Tucson
Registered: Feb 2015
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posted April 20, 2020 10:14 AM
@ Brenda S. Let's move this to another thread, I don't want to hijack cultstatus's thread. See you over there.IP: Logged |
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