posted April 12, 2020 08:40 PM            

She's team leader over one of our lines, but I've never had an intelligent conversation with her as I work on a different line, so I can't say what her personality is really like, I'm just going off of interactions between her and other co-workers. From what I've gathered so far, she's a little affectionate (says "I love you!") to her Fiance loud and proud, (most couples I work with don't even do that), not afraid of a challenge, has an extremely good work ethic (never calls in and gets work done), and she's highly dependable, when she says she'll do something or be somewhere, she follows through with those promises. Something I find very hot in a woman😁

So what do you guys see in our synastry? I'm not going to post the composite until I can figure out her "Time of Reincarnation".

Thanks!

posted April 17, 2020 01:08 AM            

I’ll never normally like to look at charts without accurate TOB, it’s like looking at a half finished painting. If you want a real view of the relationship maybe find a way to get that info from her. I can see you have a few nice aspects and I can see and hear from your words that you have a nice attraction.

I would caution against getting too caught up in the fantasy of this crush however, she is clearly taken and until the changes the more you learn about this relationship the more invested you may get.

Perhaps this is a past life lesson at play. Is there anyone else who is single you like? Might be better to put the focus there. Although I know sometimes the fact you can’t have someone makes the attraction seem stronger.

posted April 29, 2020 11:45 PM            

Hi there,

All of what you mentioned regarding the nodes, point to totally different lifestyles and life directions.

You're mostly attracted because of her moon possibly opposed to your sun. I don't know about her or your moral standards, but If you want advice on this synastry, I'd advise against any flirting or attempts to seduce her.
With her being a Virgo sun/venus she probably likes being helpful to everyone and it won't be exclusive to you.

From the composits I can see that this relationship's theme (if it is ever formed in reality) will be a tool to use as boost to your ego. While conversations like might seem sweet at first, soon they turn sarcastic and abusive to her particularly.

posted May 15, 2020 07:07 PM            

I'd say that without the TOB the moon and ascendant are going to be basically useless, they will shift wildly, especially the asc. The outer planets can be guessed a little more accurately, because they move slower in the sky and a day or two would make very little difference in their general placement, but even then it could mean the difference between a tight orb and not in aspect at all.

Venus and mars looks interesting between the two, and it looks like your mercurys might have some commonalities, but the main themes are:
Pluto Square Venus: there can be some control issues, where the pluto person might use the venus person for their own personal gain.
Pluto Conjunct Mars/Mars Square Sun: there will be attraction, but it's kinda a war of wills too. You might fight a lot. You might irritate each other a lot. And the 2nd person's mercury squares the 1st's mars, so they might have difficulty understanding why they do things the way they do. The mars is conjunct the south node, which might make things seem easy to fall back on old habits, and might make it hard to move forward. The pluto in aspect to the sun shows some level of influence on the sun person, but the orb is farther out, so the effects might be very very subtle. And the 2nd persons mars aspects the sun, which if the mars is the woman, points to some attraction on the physical level.

posted June 14, 2020 02:08 AM            

Her B-Day is Sept. 5th, 1995.

Mine is July 14th, 1986. I did some rectifying of my own chart and narrowed my own TOR to 4:38:12AM.

posted June 14, 2020 06:05 PM            

What about her Moon/Uranus/Neptune conjunction squaring both our Nodes?

Should I count my Sun squaring her Nodes even though it's beyond a 5° orb? I can't find anything on squares to the Nodes other than articles talking about "Skipped Steps" but even then those are more centered around the Natal Chart not Synastry.

If we were to succumb to our urges, what do you guys see potentially for us? I know, it would essentially be our "15min of Lust" and all, I'm prepared for both of us jumping ship, something this hot almost always dies young and fast. I'm ok with all of that.