posted May 15, 2020 05:53 PM            

New to the forum, hoping to contribute as time goes on.

TLDR: her moon in my 4th (she opened up/relaxed energy), my moon in her fifth (very fun convo/emotional energy), and a lot of physical synastry aspects: DW Mars/Venus and DW Mars/Moon. Best way to sum it up is a very mars/moon vibe, so it felt very physically magnetizing and emotionally fulfilling at the same time.

Story time: I met a woman who is married, through a mutual friend, and I couldn't help but notice her. We basically gravitated to each other and just hit it off really well at the beginning of the event. I just thought she was very beautiful, we had a really good time that turned into a heartfelt conversation, so we felt really comfortable just sharing and it felt like a game of ping pong where our feelings just synced up and played off of each other. I'm an ambivert, although I'm more introverted, but I just felt better and better and the conversation was surprisingly smooth and very enjoyable as the night went on. We spent the whole time chatting together, I forgot time as we got so engrossed in conversation. When we departed she wanted to give me a hug, and it felt incredibly intimate. She even arched her lower back during the hug so she was really pressing into me tight. I still haven't forgotten what that hug felt like, months later. We connected on social media pretty much right away. She reached out to me a couple of times after, asking for recommendations on several things we chatted about. Knowing she was married, I didn't take things further. And then I looked at our synastry and composite, and frankly I was taken aback by the aspects.

(note: all aspects are under 5 degrees and are aspected in the respected houses)
Her Venus is in my 7th, almost exactly opposite my mars, which is in her 7th house along with my pluto and ascendant. My Mars also sextiles her pluto and trines her moon. Her mars is conjunct my venus in her 11th house, her mars is also inconjunct my moon. My lilith is opposite her mars and north node.
Her moon is in my 4th, my moon in her 5th.
Her sun is in my 8th house trine my venus, and my pluto is exactly opposite her ascendant.

For our composite, there's a grand air trine of our pluto, moon, and ascendant. Also, there are aspects of moon-pluto, venus-mars, venus-pluto, pluto-ascendant, and venus-neptune.

She's been chasing me a little, and wants to see me in person again, and I don't know how I'm going to be able to handle it, it just feels so magnetic, like twin flames with this incredible physical tension, and I'm afraid of what this might become.

posted May 19, 2020 03:35 PM            

In my humble opinion your synastry with her shows an attraction that starts powerfully but also ends abruptly.