posted June 06, 2020 10:01 PM            

What speaks to me the most as far as soulmates/twin flames etc goes is all of our Sun/Moon energy.
Moons both conjunct at 5' Libra (in my 8th, his 2nd) square my 6' cancer sun, sextile his 9' sag/pluto. Sun/moon are also loosely conjunct in the composite & both receive lots of harmonious aspects. Composite sun is also in the 10th and Pluto in the 1st (trine Venus sextile Moon) and I've read those are significant as the latter involve Pluto and we are both relatively plutonic people.

I like our composite, I think it's strong, I can tell we both get a lot out of this connection even without us communicating that. Honestly, I don't get a lot out of our synastry... Maybe that's why I feel like we can be so awkward in our interactions but we feel so connected? Hence why I'm starting to buy into the whole soulmates/twin flames thing... Like I said though, not much in our synastry stands out to me. All of the sun/moon contacts stick out of course, and we have our moons trine his mars/neptune... I don't know, maybe I'm just being a bummer? Lol. Libra moon needs another opinion.

Here's the charts if anyone is interested. It would be much appreciated!
synastry:

composite:

posted June 09, 2020 07:18 AM            

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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
Based on what I've read on TFs, it's certain that you will go through an extremely painful period with everything not making sense...on/off, on/off until one stops running, one stops chasing.

If it feels so nice so cozy like everything just falls into place nicely, then it's most likely a soulmate connection.

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Thanks for the reply! I've also read about running/chasing, and how both flames have to look inward and love themselves before they can love the other... We've been playing this weirdly transformative game of cat and mouse since we met last September. (We both have Plutonic influences - Moon in my 8th and his sun conjunct Pluto in Sag and Aries jupiter in his 8th, so we both enjoy growing and changing, him especially) We're even in an off period right now.

Sometimes it feels like we're both doing both, running and chasing, like we come back together and we both chase a little and then later we both run, and we still end up separated... We've both sparked a lot of personal growth in each other, and the couple of separation periods we've already experienced have been painful and extremely confusing for both of us, but always makes us transform something about ourselves and draws us back to each other...

I'm still not sure if it's a twin flame connection myself, but it feels really karmic, and it definitely isn't any sort of walk-in-the-park, cozy, easy soulmate connection; it feels worth all the toil, though. I can't explain why I feel like I'm just supposed to keep holding on.

Like I said, I don't know if we're really twin flames, seems like it's a tricky subject to pin down. Thanks again for the reply.