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Iris98
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posted June 23, 2020 02:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Iris98     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sinastry chart- https://ibb.co/BTC96RW
Hi! I am 22 years old lady and I am not attracted to men. Well, but I have been in love with one woman for almost three years. Her chart- https://ibb.co/jw4XYvj .We were very close friends and 1 year ago I told her about my feelings. I'm so in love with her. Since this moment she got very confused,she said she is impressed that she is important for someone, once she is very kind and flirty and looking for me, once she gets very rude and distanced, then again very warm and shy and flirts with me. In social medias one day she blocks me, other unblocks me, then again and again.. I need to know how she feels about me, will something can happen & why I'm so strongly sexual attracted and love attached to her, almost like addicted to her company and obsessed! But not like a psycho way ( I don't stalk her, I'm not jealous, I don't want to control her, just to be in normal relationship only if she want it). I adore her & want her to be happy with or without me. During the past 2 weeks I met her 3 times!! accidentally while going out with my friends. So the universe is trying to tell me something. We are not in a relationship, cause she is 50 years old, but she is a spinster, never even been with man in a relationship (nor do I), doesn't have children,a bit self-orientated, childish with high ego and looks gorgeous like she is 30 years old. I don't know her orientation, she said she had never even been in a relationship. We both looks very feminine, but we have strong masculine energy and attitude. My chart- https://ibb.co/d00Lp4g
Composite chart- https://ibb.co/sb5bVN1
Thank you!!

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Stoika7
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posted June 23, 2020 08:20 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Stoika7     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi Iris98 and welcome :-)

Her Venus is conjunct to your ASC opposite your Sun/DSC, and square to your Pluto/Venus, her Saturn/DSC is conjunct your Venus/Jupiter in your 8th house, trine to your Pluto/Juno, this is a strong combination in terms of attraction and falling in love which is why you are so in love with her and drawn to her; morever, her Moon/Chiron is conjunct your mercury in 7th house trine your Neptune and your Moon, so there's a strong idealization of this person from your part.
She's attracted to you too, and curious, but she has deep issues in relationships with her Eris/Saturn conjunct DSC quincunx to her Venus, and her Moon/Chiron is square Mars, and opposite her Uranus/Pluto, she's scared by relationships and likely distrusts men, maybe she was victim of abuse cause Nessus is also square to Venus, and she keeps her emotions well under control cause she's very insecure about her feelings...
Can you please add a Composite chart?

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Iris98
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posted June 24, 2020 04:51 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Iris98     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Stoika7:
Hi Iris98 and welcome :-)

Her Venus is conjunct to your ASC opposite your Sun/DSC, and square to your Pluto/Venus, her Saturn/DSC is conjunct your Venus/Jupiter in your 8th house, trine to your Pluto/Juno, this is a strong combination in terms of attraction and falling in love which is why you are so in love with her and drawn to her; morever, her Moon/Chiron is conjunct your mercury in 7th house trine your Neptune and your Moon, so there's a strong idealization of this person from your part.
She's attracted to you too, and curious, but she has deep issues in relationships with her Eris/Saturn conjunct DSC quincunx to her Venus, and her Moon/Chiron is square Mars, and opposite her Uranus/Pluto, she's scared by relationships and likely distrusts men, maybe she was victim of abuse cause Nessus is also square to Venus, and she keeps her emotions well under control cause she's very insecure about her feelings...
Can you please add a Composite chart?


Thank you a lot, Stoika7 !!
Here is the composite chart- https://ibb.co/sb5bVN1
And the Progressed Composite- https://ibb.co/LRrzYxd
What do you see? Does the relationship possible or not? What is going to happen with us?

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Stoika7
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posted June 24, 2020 08:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Stoika7     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Iris98,

Composite North Node conjunct Venus and Venus conjunct to MC can give you the strong feeling that this relationship is meant to be, that she's "the one", that this meeting is fated... and it could be that this meeting is fated and karmic, but unfortunately it doesn't look like a good karma... opposite to this, there's Sun/Neptune conjunct to South Node, this is a very instable trait, usually pointing to the fact that the relationship is platonic and lacking ground, often giving a lot of insecurity and doubts... especially Neptune square to ASC suggests that the relationship is hardly being established and if it does, it often lacks direction and full understanding of what it's all about... South Node conjunct Netpune also often suggests "parting ways".
With the opposition to NN/Venus/MC, this can suggest that this relationship has a "diversity" trait in terms of cultural and romantic habits, so it's possible that she has a different sexual orientation than yours. This aspect also suggests, with the nodes involved, that there might be a karma about learning from diversity and compassion, but also learning of "letting go".
The most concerning aspects here though are Nessus/DSC square Venus/MC and IC, and Chiron square PLuto. This suggests that there might be a potential abusive or strong toxic trait if such relationship developes. This potential toxic trait is also present in the nessus and chiron contacts in synastry. The strong attraction she has for you might trigger her deepest fears and insicurities to which she might react in a deeply frustrating way for you, and Pluto square Chiron shows that a toxic attachment with strong oppressive and control issues might arise.
Mars/Uranus opposite Moon is emotionally unstable and can give coldness, it also might show unrequitted feelings (since Moon is also quincunx to neptune).

Sorry for giving you such a negative insight... With South Node/Neptune/Sun there can also be a deep spiritual or creative link, something you both might learn and be inspired by each other. But in terms of stable and long terms relationship, it's a very unstable Composite. Saturn/Eris sextile Venus/MC/Jupiter might show a strong sexual hook, the Saturn-Eris/Venus midpoint is conjunct Moon but opposite Mars/Uranus, so if a relationship is established, my feeling is that it would especially have a sexual nature, which would hardly manifest with the same instensity at the emotional level.

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Iris98
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posted June 25, 2020 03:41 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Iris98     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Stoika7:
Iris98,

Composite North Node conjunct Venus and Venus conjunct to MC can give you the strong feeling that this relationship is meant to be, that she's "the one", that this meeting is fated... and it could be that this meeting is fated and karmic, but unfortunately it doesn't look like a good karma... opposite to this, there's Sun/Neptune conjunct to South Node, this is a very instable trait, usually pointing to the fact that the relationship is platonic and lacking ground, often giving a lot of insecurity and doubts... especially Neptune square to ASC suggests that the relationship is hardly being established and if it does, it often lacks direction and full understanding of what it's all about... South Node conjunct Netpune also often suggests "parting ways".
With the opposition to NN/Venus/MC, this can suggest that this relationship has a "diversity" trait in terms of cultural and romantic habits, so it's possible that she has a different sexual orientation than yours. This aspect also suggests, with the nodes involved, that there might be a karma about learning from diversity and compassion, but also learning of "letting go".
The most concerning aspects here though are Nessus/DSC square Venus/MC and IC, and Chiron square PLuto. This suggests that there might be a potential abusive or strong toxic trait if such relationship developes. This potential toxic trait is also present in the nessus and chiron contacts in synastry. The strong attraction she has for you might trigger her deepest fears and insicurities to which she might react in a deeply frustrating way for you, and Pluto square Chiron shows that a toxic attachment with strong oppressive and control issues might arise.
Mars/Uranus opposite Moon is emotionally unstable and can give coldness, it also might show unrequitted feelings (since Moon is also quincunx to neptune).

Sorry for giving you such a negative insight... With South Node/Neptune/Sun there can also be a deep spiritual or creative link, something you both might learn and be inspired by each other. But in terms of stable and long terms relationship, it's a very unstable Composite. Saturn/Eris sextile Venus/MC/Jupiter might show a strong sexual hook, the Saturn-Eris/Venus midpoint is conjunct Moon but opposite Mars/Uranus, so if a relationship is established, my feeling is that it would especially have a sexual nature, which would hardly manifest with the same instensity at the emotional level.



Thank you a lot!!

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