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posted July 16, 2020 10:12 PM            

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Hey all, first post here!
I met this guy online not long ago and got some bad vibes.
We hadn't talked for more than a week and I felt like he was getting needy. Tried to cut ties but he lashed out at me and sort of threatened that his depression relapsed.
Doesn't sound too good, does it?
Anyhow, I looked at our synastry and composite and was surprised. What do you guys think?

I'm blue, he's red.
Synastry:
Http://imgur.com/a/KFVLD1U

Composite:
Http://imgur.com/a/iJ4b2A4

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posted July 17, 2020 02:13 PM            

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Hi Dwhelps
Your feelings about him are valid.
On first glance the numerous sextiles and trines looks favorable but closer analysis gives a alarming picture.
Venus is opposed to Venus which show a deep albeit concealed intensity but the mars / Pluto midpoint is conjunct to Uranus.this can be very dark and .malicious.impulse.as the Venus/mars midpoint is square Uranus,there is a obsessive emotional sexual component.
The Pluto/Orcus midpoint is opposed to Eros which also shows dark obsessive sexual impulses.
Most threatening is that mars is conjunct the node with the node quintile venus and the south node quintile Pluto.this is extremely controlling and domineering .
With the Saturn/Neptune conjunct to the sun and moon,he might seem needy and weak but his obsessive sexual nature far more a impulse to be concerned with.
todd

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posted July 18, 2020 01:16 AM            

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Wow, Todd! Thank you for your deep insight.
I could not see that. Instead I was surprised to see all the sextiles and trines, and felt our charts looked better than what I felt in my gut through our short chats.
I was especially surprised to see his Venus conjunct my Vertex in synastry.
I was half worried that would mean over time I would be drawn to him romantically.

Nice to know my gut was right.
I’m going to phase him out

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posted July 24, 2020 04:44 PM            

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Bump!

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