posted July 17, 2020 10:23 AM            

Okay .. last night I misunderstood his birth date hour. Here below you can find the correct graphs! He is Virgo asc. Virgo!

I'm not an expert but it seems that the synastry is a little less powerful. That DW neptune on the axes made me smile (And I don't know if it's positive or not.. XD)- In composite chart I was surprised by the nodes exactly conjuct to the asc/desc axis and above all that NN conjuct to Vertex 0° in Davison Chart (also Mars/Venus have 0°)..

Yesterday I saw him and we kissed (a real kiss this time!) but nothing else happened. We talked a lot ... about his father, my story with my partner. He told me that first I have to fix my current story and I obviously agreed with him .. so now ... HELP. XD

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posted July 17, 2020 04:42 PM            

Then, your Neptunes on the IC and DSC make things quite romantic and idealistic, and with yours conjunct to his Eros... infatuation is highly possible.
And his Leo Venus opposite your MC falling in his 5th house! and sextile to his Libra Moon/North Node conjunct to your Moon falling in your 5th house! He obviously sees you as an ideal partner :-)

The Composite Nodes on the ASC/DSC axis is a sign of strong psychic/mental/otherworldly connection, especially with NN in the 12th house and it's very karmic, since it also forms the Magic Rectangle with Sun/Saturn and Jupiter. So this also gives the strong familiarity and intimacy.
With Chiron in the 10th house, things look a little more difficult though, and looks like a challenge to establish a stable relationship... again the YOD here can give a lot of unfulfilled desire, strong indecisiveness and a lurking obsession... Composite Vertex is square to Moon/Pluto/Juno, so overwhelming passionate feelings might arise and grow but they might be very difficult to manifest in a normal relationship and in the open, given the Chiron/Neptune/Moon-Pluto YOD... The Mars/Jupiter opposition might also signal his cautious attitude, even though he might be strongly attracted to the idea of a relationship with you.

posted July 17, 2020 07:26 PM            

We looked at each other for two minutes without saying NOTHING but I understood everything. Eyes fixed, resolute .. but sweet. An incredibile moment, full of unspoken words! I still don't understand how I couldn't notice before this bond with him. I think he is a man of great dignity, rational.. with a sort of (fake) detachment.. Even with a big desire he stepped back and said "Non posso farlo. Prima sistema la tua storia". Oh God.. so lovely.

Thank you very much for your interpretation of the transits .. don't worry, I won't be influenced by them I honestly don't believe in karma but I have never felt so "strange" in front this kind of events (di solito sono un treno in corsa XD). We said goodbye by saying that we would not write to each other and that we would see around next time.. who knows when I'll see him again and what will happen in the future :O

posted July 17, 2020 08:22 PM            

"Unspoken words" is exactly the effect of the Nodes on the ASC/DSC... It's not just a "karma" thing, it is an otherworldly "soul" connection :-D

Certo che tu ti metti sempre nei guai, però... ahah

Did I ever look at your charts with your "official" guy ?

posted July 17, 2020 09:12 PM            

But this "story" with Virgo man was completely out of my control (and I usually have a lot of it .. XD)

You looked at our composite once!

Composite: http://imgur.com/a/5FTdZlY

posted July 17, 2020 10:03 PM            

Yes, I remember now I had looked at it, but I remember absolutely nothing of what I had to say, LOL

At first glance now, the synastry has some very binding aspects (Saturn/Juno, Moon/Pluto...) and others a little unstable (Neptune opp Venus... Jupiter square Moon).
In Composite, Saturn sextile Sun and Neptune, and North Node trine to Jupiter/Mars, suggest that there's a longtime expectation/plan, even though with the Chiron/Neptune/Pluto YOD there might be some underlying insecurity despite the appearance... I honestly dont like the Libra Saturn square to Cap Moon/South Node, this might suggest that the emotional dimension is restricted in favour of that stability, but the longer you're together, the more this emotional side is restricted... even so Venus is supporting it with true affection.
The Neptune/Mars midpoint is conjunct Uranus and square to Juno, this is an unstable trait that might suggest dissatisfaction, separation, infidelty, or a very indipendent attitude.
Given Chiron 12th house square Sun, I'd dare to ask... are you sure he doesn't feel exactly like you about staying together "for the sake of"... ? (...family et al, Sun in 4th house).

posted July 18, 2020 10:16 AM            

What you said is all true. I don't know.. I think he's really in love or at least he was before I left him 2 years ago. The first 3 years were beautiful and I really thought I had found "the one" but unfortunately something broke inside me.. I don't think he can fully satisfy me (in every context...), I have the sun conjunct Pluto natally and everything must be intense for me .. I think that for me routine and boredom is deadly. :/ Plus he is the classic condescending man (tappetino fatto e finito) with a passive aggressive attitude and this makes me mad. Recently I realize that I get irritated by everything he says, it's unconscious and I feel sorry for him because is really a good person. I feel very guilty.

posted July 18, 2020 11:15 AM            

I think the same .. you have to take your happiness before it's too late. But this Is the worst moment to take a decision .. unstable work and health problems in is family.. I can't do it now, even if we don't live together.

posted July 18, 2020 03:34 PM            

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Originally posted by Sara1984:
Oddio spero tu stia bene adesso ❤️ Non so perché ma sento una certa connessione con te.. peccato che abitiamo lontano perché con tutte le interpretazioni che mi hai fatto sono in debito di almeno una decina di aperitivi! XD

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ahahah! Sarebbe bello conoscerci, e non per gli aperitivi! Ma tu dove sei, non mi ricordo... io sono a Roma... Purtroppo credevo di essere guarita dopo tanti anni, e non ho manco fatto in tempo a festeggiare, finito il lockdown mi sono immobilizzata di nuovo :-(

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I think the same .. you have to take your happiness before it's too late. But this Is the worst moment to take a decision .. unstable work and health problems in is family.. I can't do it now, even if we don't live together.

C'è comunque un cambiamento all'orizzonte. Lo sento e credo io mi stia preparando ad affrontarlo.. e forse anche lui lo sente. Ovviamente ti terrò aggiornata, mia preziosa amica ❤️ Buon weekend

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I understand so well! Sono anch'io intrappolata in una situazione simile, per i miei problemi di salute...

posted July 18, 2020 04:36 PM            

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Originally posted by Stoika7:
whatever it is I wish it is going bring you all good things!! Yes, keep me updated and have a nice weekend you too! ❤️

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Hi Stoika! Hope you're very well! Can I be a little bit rude and interrupt -hi, original poster! hope you're well also!- and ask your opinion on the natal to composite comparisons on the charts you looked at last week in this thread: http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum35/HTML/010216.html

posted July 18, 2020 05:37 PM            

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Originally posted by HieronymusTush:
Hi Stoika! Hope you're very well! Can I be a little bit rude and interrupt -hi, original poster! hope you're well also!- and ask your opinion on the natal to composite comparisons on the charts you looked at last week in this thread: [URL=http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum35/HTML/010216.html]http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum35/HTML/010216.html[/UR]
Many apologies again for barging in like a mad person as I won't have reliable internet next week and am really curious! Sorry!

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Hi! There's no problem at all. I know that Stoika is very requested ❤️

posted July 18, 2020 05:50 PM            

Things are changing.. I Hope for the best! And maybe that this change will also include virgo man XD The vibrations are positive, for once! ❤️

posted July 18, 2020 08:36 PM            

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Originally posted by Sara1984:
Sono di Rimini!! Non so se capiti mai in Romagna.. magari al mare.. Mi dispiace molto per il tuo problema.. ti sono vicina e di mando un grosso abbraccio. Davvero. Con il cuore ❤️

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Grazie!! ❤️ Magari potessi muovermi, ma a quanto pare ancora non mi è concesso... :-( Anche tu, se capiti a Roma, vieni a trovarmi!!

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Things are changing.. I Hope for the best! And maybe that this change will also include virgo man XD The vibrations are positive, for once! ❤️

Un grosso bacio

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