posted July 18, 2020 10:14 AM            

When we were together, it was really fun. I feel I can open up my heart, I don't have to hide, don't have to pretend anymore. And I can feel his feelings for me, too. But at the same time his rational, logical mind outweighs those emotions. And our lives are not stable yet: we are struggling with financial problems, with the unpredicted future,... so many outside obstacles. When I said I liked him (i thought it was too soon to say "love"), he seemed really excited, but then told me: "Why do you fall in love with an unstable guy like me? Are you losing your mind?" (Well he is a musician). A long time after that, every time we met and was relaxing, he still told me to "love someone else, not me".

Now we do not stay friends on Facebook and contact each other anymore. He is the one who unfriended me first. Just this July, after a long time staying silent. I don't know why. The last time we chat, I asked him if he wanted to meet again, he didn't reply to that question. I felt like he was avoiding me. A few days later, I found that I was removed from his friend list. And no contact since that day. I want to have a clear answer from him, but at the same time I'm very tired and exhausted with his stubbornness and his high ego.

We're still young, will we reconcile and be happy together when we get more mature and financially stable? If I keep trying and being patient, will I have a good result? Or all those things are just messy right from the start and there will be no happy ending at all? I'm really desperated 😢 please tell me. Thank you guys.

Our synastry (I'm the blue one, I don't know his birth time but I guess he has Virgo rising with Mars in the 3rd house):

Our composite:

My natal:

His natal:

posted July 18, 2020 03:17 PM            

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Originally posted by todd:

This pattern is unstable and shows he is independent and does not want strings or attachment.
It was FWB from the beginning and that is all it was.
todd

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Thank you todd. That's really sad knowing what I've expected. Sometimes I wonder if he will want to settle down someday, and if the answer is "yes", then "with whom?".

posted July 18, 2020 10:46 PM            

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Originally posted by athenegoddess:
Definitely no with Venus in Virgo rx square Pluto. Venus in its fall and Venus square Pluto is unrequited love.

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posted July 19, 2020 12:50 AM            

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Originally posted by todd:
Hi lil_seddoll
The composite unfortunately contains aspects that invariably lead to a breakup and in fact are symbolic of exactly the type of relationship you had with him... intense affair but transient.
The sun with the node gives a magic,Uranus opposed to the sun gives a electric connection and mars square the node gives extreme physical passion.
This pattern is unstable and shows he is independent and does not want strings or attachment.
It was FWB from the beginning and that is all it was.
todd

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