posted July 24, 2020 02:44 AM            

https://ibb.co/K24wtx2

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posted July 24, 2020 02:53 AM            

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Originally posted by Laylay:
https://www.astro.com/cgi/showgif.cgi?lang=e&gif=astro_w2gw_a.23378.1294.png&res=63

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Hellooo.. It must be a problem with the photos because they can't be seen try to upload them in imgur.com and then post the link here👍

posted July 24, 2020 02:57 AM            

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Originally posted by efaki94:
Hellooo.. It must be a problem with the photos because they can't be seen try to upload them in imgur.com and then post the link here👍

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posted July 24, 2020 02:02 PM            

Sorry to say this, but you should absolutely move on. You had that sense of destiny cause Composite North Node is in 12th house and you have South Node/Chiron in synastry. Then you have Pluto conjunct Venus in your 8th house, so this is why you are obsessed by him. I think also Composite Vertex square Venus adds a destiny feeling which is not real and a difficult letting go.
But Composite Venus/MC quincunx Jupiter/Chiron and the YOD formed by Neptune-Mars/ASC/Moon quincinx South Node suggest he's a player and self-serving, he would just take advantage of you and then ghost you, exatcly as he did. Especially Neptune quincunx South Node show this was going to be a short lived affair and since Mars/Moon is part of the YOD, this seems what he always wanted it to be.
Try to move on cause it seems to me that if he had stayed, he would have hurted you even more.

posted July 24, 2020 05:35 PM            

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Originally posted by Stoika7:
Hi Laylay,

Sorry to say this, but you should absolutely move on. You had that sense of destiny cause Composite North Node is in 12th house and you have South Node/Chiron in synastry. Then you have Pluto conjunct Venus in your 8th house, so this is why you are obsessed by him. I think also Composite Vertex square Venus adds a destiny feeling which is not real and a difficult letting go.
But Composite Venus/MC quincunx Jupiter/Chiron and the YOD formed by Neptune-Mars/ASC/Moon quincinx South Node suggest he's a player and self-serving, he would just take advantage of you and then ghost you, exatcly as he did. Especially Neptune quincunx South Node show this was going to be a short lived affair and since Mars/Moon is part of the YOD, this seems what he always wanted it to be.
Try to move on cause it seems to me that if he had stayed, he would have hurted you even more.

Is he the outside one in synastry?

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posted July 24, 2020 08:47 PM            

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Originally posted by Stoika7:
I am very sorry and I hope I am wrong about him... natally he has Mars square Neptune opposite Chiron in 5th house, so he seems to have a lot of issues from his childhood, but he also is not a reliable person, and with North Node in first house square MC he has an unstable life and difficult relationships... he might also have an escapism attitude and be a very reserved person, since Saturn is in 11th house opposite Chiron and Lilith is square to Mercury/Psyche, he likely doesnt easily share his true thoughts and feelings and prefers to avoid any confrontation... Pluto quincunx to Mars/Eros also might suggest he's especially interested in sexually based relationships only.
The feeling I have about his natal chart is that this is someone who carries deep wounds since his childhood and is not able to deal with it in an honest mature way, and this makes his life and relationships unstable...
So sorry to say this straight... if someone else on here has a different or more accurate opinion (Todd?) is welcome.
Wish you to feel much better soon ❤️

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posted July 24, 2020 10:00 PM            

the transits to Composite show that he's being very selfish and "sneaky" cause transiting Mars and Lilith are going through a square to Composite Sun, Saturn/Jupiter-Chiron opposition, and with tr. Mars currently square Neptune, also Lilith shows he was not honest and maybe having hidden motives. Transiting Chiron is square Uranus, and transiting Uranus is square the Nodes, so it seems that an abrupt end was "fated". Same thing is shown by transiting Neptune square MC/Venus and opposite Vertex, here again there is a sense of destiny in how things ended up, with Neptune square Venus signaling again that there might have just been a playful attitude from his part but also deceit... Transiting Pluto is opposite Jupiter and Chiron, this looks like a painful lesson, but since transiting Pluto is also conjunct to comp. Saturn, it looks like a "wake up" call as you might need to review this whole relationship, regaining your own balance and values.

posted July 24, 2020 11:57 PM            

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...hope it helps ❤️

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posted July 25, 2020 12:12 PM            

I understand you so well, I know what it means to be "obsessed" by a "fated" meeting and have a hard letting go!

I would like others' opinions, especially Todd's, cause I could always be wrong, especially about him being a player and damaged person (I need to add that Composite Nessus is square Neptune/Uranus, so this to me would confirm his deceptive or shallow behaviour at best and a potential abusive trait of the relationship...), even though about the fated end and short lived nature of the relationship I have almost no doubt.

I'm attaching the Composite I have pulled out on astro.com.

Let me know how you're doing... big hugs ❤️

posted July 26, 2020 01:09 AM            

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Originally posted by anska5:
Hi, Is his birthtime correct? I'm asking because 12 p.m. sounds like the generic time people use when birthtime is unknown. If his birthtime is unknown, I think major pieces of information not only about his natal chart and therefore his personality is missing, but also how you affect him in synastry and of course also composite houses will be missing.

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posted July 26, 2020 05:43 AM            

This kinda thing happened to lots of people. Someone amazing comes into our lives just to leave very suddenly leaving us wondering what we did wrong when most likely it's nothing to do with us. They likely have other options or simply still can't forget their exes. So don't have a headache analysing him and what lesson you need to learn. The lesson is just to accept such situations in life and be at peace with it.

posted July 26, 2020 06:20 AM            

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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
If you don't know his actual birth time then his Ascendant, angles, Vertex and house placements may all be wrong. The ascendant especially is very key in determining a person's character and major themes in their life.

This kinda thing happened to lots of people. Someone amazing comes into our lives just to leave very suddenly leaving us wondering what we did wrong when most likely it's nothing to do with us. They likely have other options or simply still can't forget their exes. So don't have a headache analysing him and what lesson you need to learn. The lesson is just to accept such situations in life and be at peace with it.

You will soon forget him.. You've only met twice.. Soon someone who treasures you will come along.

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I feel like your response is very condescending. I know all this already I'm not a fool. To say not to analyze a person or a situation contradicts part of the purpose of astrology dont you think?
"Dont analyze" yet heres a whole forum dedicated to the very thing.
Even if it's not accurate it helped me anyway and that still counts.

posted July 26, 2020 10:11 AM            

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Originally posted by Laylay:
I feel like your response is very condescending. I know all this already I'm not a fool. To say not to analyze a person or a situation contradicts part of the purpose of astrology dont you think?
"Dont analyze" yet heres a whole forum dedicated to the very thing.
Even if it's not accurate it helped me anyway and that still counts.

I wont be commenting any further on this post.
Thankyou @Stoika7

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posted July 26, 2020 03:37 PM            

my idea of his chart and the Composite doesnt change according to his TOB. The aspects I mentioned about him being a player and only searching for sex are based mainly on planets aspects, just to make this clear... If he told you he's born around midday and it's not completely accurate, doesnt really matter in the big picture that I have seen.

I think people on here should try to give an opinion based on the elements given, even when a TOB is missing, even though having accurate TOB is obviously giving much more infos, but in case of this chart I find that there are enough elements to say that he didnt take this relationship seriously and that there is an abusive and deceptive trait (in my opinion).