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posted July 26, 2020 01:41 AM            

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So I've known this girl for about a year now, but we recently got really close to each other (bc quarantine) and i definitely feel some sort or connection with her and she feels the same way too. However, I'm just curious to see how we would be like together in the long run as a couple?

My chart: https://imgur.com/lxagKOj

Her chart: https://imgur.com/JlWPKaU

Composite chart: https://imgur.com/ivI1Vuz

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posted July 26, 2020 09:39 PM            

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Hi localparasite, the synastry looks binding and very intense at emotional and intimate level, even though things might develope slowly and maybe with some ups and downs, but the Sun/Moon conjunction opposite to Moon/Venus and on your axis is very intense, and with her nodes on your ASC/DSC the more you get closer, the more you're fascinated by her... There is also a particular healing energy in the synastry, with Chiron conjunct Pluto opposite Sun/Jupiter, this is very transformative especially for her cause she might have experienced challenges or restricitons in relationships, this is square to her Mars, so a push and pull dynamic can also be triggered by some past issues of hers which might not let her be completely at ease and spontaneous... but your Chiron/Mars is trine to the Moon/Venus conjunction, so this suggests there's a constant emotional support through which your bond can develope... please post a Composite chart for further potentiality cause the one you have posted is a synastry, not a composite.

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posted July 27, 2020 03:19 AM            

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Hi stoika, thanks for the response! Everything you've said so far is so accurate, especially the push pull dynamic part. I've just updated the link to the composite charts.

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posted July 27, 2020 10:26 AM            

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The Composite looks "harsher" than the synastry, i.e. not so favourable... but before I tell you what I think at first glance, I'd like to ask:
1) is this a long distance relationship? (the Uranus/Neptune midpoint opposite Sun along other unstable aspects might suggest so as a possibility)

2) are you two from different countries or cultural background?

3) are the TOBS accurate?

If the TOB is correct, could you please pull out a new Composite from astro.com including Vertex?

Thank you! 🙏

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posted July 28, 2020 01:02 AM            

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Originally posted by Stoika7:
The Composite looks "harsher" than the synastry, i.e. not so favourable... but before I tell you what I think at first glance, I'd like to ask:
1) is this a long distance relationship? (the Uranus/Neptune midpoint opposite Sun along other unstable aspects might suggest so as a possibility)

2) are you two from different countries or cultural background?

3) are the TOBS accurate?

If the TOB is correct, could you please pull out a new Composite from astro.com including Vertex?

Thank you! 🙏

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Hi yes this is a long distance relationship, we're both from different countries but culture-wise, we're pretty similar. The TOB is correct and here is the new composite with vertex.

https://imgur.com/ivI1Vuz

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posted July 28, 2020 03:45 PM            

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Hi again localparasite !

Thank you so much for replying and for the new chart 🙏

So that's how I suspected, there's a long distance issue, this means that despite all those lovely potential aspects shown in synastry about a very deep emotional connection, unfortunately it seems very unlikely or complicated to have this relationship take off the ground cause of physical distance (Uranus/Neptune midpoint opposite Sun + Venus/Neptune square Mars) and I guess also cause of work/professional reasons which might add difficulties to get closer physically or romantically (Chiron/Pluto midpoint in 6th house opposite Jupiter in 12th house square to MC)... maybe, there are other issues in your private lives which dont allow you two to get closer, one of you being in another stable relationship is a possibility... (Venus/Neptune square Mars)
Mercury square Saturn and quincunx to Venus/Neptune may suggest that something might be holden back, you are not really allowed to know each other closely somehow and to know everything about the other person's life....
South Node is conjunct Vertex and trine to IC/MC axis, this adds a strong psychic connection and the closeness and intimacy shown in synastry is felt in a very intense way, but it might be unattainable in real life cause of these issues mentioned... The Magic Rectangle (Sun/Jupiter/Venus-Uranus/Pluto) and Saturn trine to Neptune shows that whether you had the real possibility, you would be a very devoted and passionate couple, which is what you might figure out based on your long distance exchange, but this is unfortunately a possibility which may be highly challenged in the reality......

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posted July 30, 2020 10:47 PM            

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Yikes, that is quite the bummer :\ We're really far apart from each other but we've made plans to move closer to one another in the future; I'll probably study for my bachelor's degree at a university near her town after i come back from my military deployment or we'll both study overseas. What would you say are the top 5 strongest aspects though, whether they are good or bad.

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posted July 30, 2020 11:51 PM            

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One strong point is that the Chiron aspects in synastry show a strong drive to get closer through common life plan (Chiron conjunct Pluto opposite Sun/Jupiter) and this could refer to your future career or studies bringing you together... this seems especially supported by the Sun/Moon conjunction opposite to Moon/Venus on your axis, so you both feel the intense connection and might want to get physically closer (Chiron/Mars trine to Moon/Venus in synastry)... In Composite, the strongest aspects are mainly South Node conjunct Vertex, which gives a deep sense of destiny, supported by the Magic rectangle with Composite Sun in second house/Leo, which looks longing to find an actual establishment, with Jupiter and Pluto involved in the configuration, it looks such wishful thinking is felt by both of you. The most concerning aspect, with physical distance shown by Neptune/Uranus opposite Sun, is that Jupiter and Pluto are also involved in the square to MC, so this means that individual priorities or change of plans might interfere, and since Neptune/South Node midpoint is opposite Moon, your emotional connection looks challenged...
I would say that the main strongest aspects in Composite are basically the karmic otherworldly connection given by Vertex/South Node, and the challenge given by Jupiter/Pluto square MC.
Keep an eye on transiting South Node going through Composite DSC in half september, that might be the "moment of truth", as you might then have a clearer idea of the real possibility to have your shared plans take off the ground.

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posted August 05, 2020 12:24 AM            

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Thanks for the reply stoika, does the Vertex/South Node connection suggest a past life love perhaps? I can't seem to find a description of this connection. Also, are there aspects that cause some kind of "distancing" from each other? For example, there are times when things are going well but she just goes MIA for a couple of days/weeks for no reason then come back. Not sure why she does that and it stings quite abit when she just disappears all of a sudden.

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posted August 06, 2020 12:20 AM            

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South Node with Vertex looks like an unsolved issue, maybe from past life. What are South Nodes aspects in synastry?

She has Chiron/Pluto in 7th house opposite Jupiter and square Mars, which can suggest a person with deep feelings but difficult to open up, and with the square to Mars there could be an issue with the male figure or in relationship matters given by an abusive experience. With Mars square Jupiter, she could also have a strong self-defensive attitude. With natal Saturn conjunct ASC and opposite Venus, she looks reserved, and her Moon in 12th looks emotionally deep but somehow reserved again. The Composite Venus/Neptune quincunx mercury can suggest an issue in opening up, and Uranus opposite Sun is actually a trait of possible "distancing".
My feeling is that she has some insecurity issues triggered by your relationship cause Chiron is conjunct DSC and opposite Jupiter in 12th house, and with her Uranus in Aquarius trine to Sun she might need space and detachment as a reaction.
Also, with Saturn in 12th house square to Mercury, and Venus/Neptune quincunx mercury, I feel that there is something holden back, a "hidden" and unclear element in this relationship, but with those sensitive natal aspects of hers I wouldnt suggest to "push" her to open up about her going MIA too much.

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