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posted August 09, 2020 04:42 PM            

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Hiya all is there any chance anyone could help with a composite and synastry I am in the blue with correct tob and dob but the person on in the red has the correct dob but I had to guess his tob. I am just trying to understand why I have such strong feelings for this person as I feel he is meant to be in my life but I can't put a finger to it. Thank you for your help in advanced <3

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posted August 14, 2020 04:11 PM            

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Hi LibraGirl92,

looking at Composite, you have such a strong feeling of destiny because the vertex is conjunct DSC and square to MC, and the Nodes on the IC/MC axis give also an instant binding/familiar feeling. In synastry, your Venus/Pluto conjunct his Pluto and opposite his Moon, this shows very intense passionate feelings and chemistry, and can be a very painful aspect for separation.
Unfortunately the Composite doesnt look very favourable for long terms, Uranus/Neptune square Venus is a very unstable trait, usually it shows a short affair or strong ups and downs, and the otherwordly dimension of the Vertex usually makes things hard to take off the ground. With Mars/South Node square to DSC, I assume he wont be up for committment or he might not be a completely reliable partner for long terms... sorry about my negative insight...

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posted August 14, 2020 04:59 PM            

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Thank you for your reply :-)
Its always was on and off as in he would be in my life disappear for a few years then cone back and we have ben off and im getting the feeling he is coming back in ny life again soon.
I dont know if it was hard for him as it was for me for separation as i felt my heart was ripped and felt dead inside. But it was a painful separation.
With that aspect no wonder I had such strong feelings makes me wonder if he felt the same.
I believe he could of been the commitment phobe type of guy.
No worries about being negative about it all
I was wondering if I could post his natal and any chance you could interpret as I think he may of possibly been a narcissist but im not sure if you could find that in a natal chart thank you❤

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posted August 14, 2020 06:56 PM            

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Yes, with composite nodes on the axis this person could be back in your life over and over, but the other aspects suggest his presence is mainly temporary each time... And he could be kind of narcissist cause of natal Mars square Venus/Jupiter but with Chiron/Mercury opposite Saturn it might be a tool for finding self worth. He looks kind of a lonely wanderer with Saturn in Aquarius 4th house, he's in search for setting himself free from his past or roots, I dont think he will easily set a stable bond, maybe he's devoted to some social cause or creative dreams.

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posted August 14, 2020 07:02 PM            

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PS: I think he has a very strong and sincere affection over you btw. He likely dreams of you often when he's away. But it looks platonic and otherwordly.

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posted August 14, 2020 08:16 PM            

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I have a question what do you mean by otherwordly? I get platonic means friendly so is otherworldly mean spiritually?
and thank you for more insight.
I know that the last time we were in each other's presence my heart would race and just get the electric feeling throughout my whole body which I have never experience with any other guy. but again that might be the venus/pluto
I will say that his last presence it only lasted for a while so if he does re-enter soon then it would most likely be temporary again but I wouldn't mind if he stayed longer even if I was just as friends.
Makes me wonder why he has such strong affection over me I remember i had a paid reading and we were in a past life together apparently we had a baby girl in that life together so I'm wondering if the strong connection/feelings could be of that past life.

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posted August 14, 2020 08:49 PM            

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Your natal Nodes are conjunct, and Composite Nodes on the axis, if you believe in it, can suggest a bond coming from a past life.
By otherworldly I mean psychic, karmic, spiritual, there's a soul connection, with Composite Nodes square Mercury/Jupiter in 12th house, you likely have a strong mind connection, mostly at uncoscious level, but you can read each other mind or have synchronicities, and especially a sense of destiny is felt. Vertex square the axis where the nodes are and opposite to the 12th house and ASC strongly suggest the soul connection and likely an unsolved karma, which apparently is not going to be solved in this life. On a more earthly plane, things look too unstable in order to make the bond you feel become grounded.
The strong feeling and excitement you have with him is cause of comp. Uranus square venus, and the Moon/Pluto contacts in synastry, looking quite overwhelming.

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posted August 14, 2020 10:19 PM            

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Thank you for clarifying for me seems very interesting and honestly, if we could just reunite on a friend level and talk it all out that would be great but if we aren't meant to be in each other lives in this life then that is okay too <3

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posted August 14, 2020 10:41 PM            

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You're welcome ❤️

It seems to me that you're meant to be in each other' life basically in such on-off pattern... I am not sure that friendship can be an option cause Saturn in Aquarius, and Saturn/Lilith midpoint is opposite Chiron in 11th house and square Pluto... This strangely contains a toxic trait with strong control issues, so I am afraid that it all might develope in a "friends with benefits" dynamic but with strong obsessive and painful side effects...
I think that the nodes square to Jupiter in 12th house suggest a strong karma of awareness about a line that cant be crossed in this relationship, by destiny.

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posted August 14, 2020 11:07 PM            

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interesting you saying control issues as he did seem quite a bit controlling/ possessive I remember when broke up and talked a year after the break up he told he it was never over I just needed time so its sounds like he wants me in his life but not committed hence the whole friends with benefits so it would make sense and also the fact that in his way have a sense of control of me. makes me wonder if I am the obsessive one or him or both of us are obessive of one another

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posted August 15, 2020 07:53 PM            

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The Pluto/Venus/Moon aspects in synastry show quite overwhelming passionate feelings, so it seems the obsession can be mutual, in terms of depth of desire for the other and an hard letting go... your Venus/Pluto in Scorpio give you extremely intense feelings, but he especially has natal Pluto opposite Moon (in his 8th), this is a strong controlling aspect, so I assume that a potential toxic issue could come especially from his side, and in a paradoxical selfish way, with Composite mars square jupiter, while he's the one who seems not willing to commit.

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posted August 15, 2020 10:01 PM            

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Makes sense I have always wondered if in any chance he feels a need to have me in his life to keep an eye on me as when I dated someone else a few years back and we started talking again its as though he didn't like me being with that person well that's what I got from what he texted my cousin so it's like he doesn't want to commit to me but just have me in his life and when needed call upon me just like being on call if you must say

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