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Topic: Why does he think I'm perfect for him?
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ChildofVenus
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posted August 10, 2020 11:46 AM
  
He says that he thinks I'm perfect for him. I don't really know why though. Is it because my planets are in his 5th, 7th, and 4th house?
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Randall
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posted August 11, 2020 10:46 AM
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LaceyLeigh
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posted August 11, 2020 09:04 PM
The house overlays and your Pluto on his Sun/Venus conjunction. He might find himself a bit obsessed.IP: Logged |
ChildofVenus
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posted August 12, 2020 01:11 AM
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Originally posted by LaceyLeigh:
The house overlays and your Pluto on his Sun/Venus conjunction. He might find himself a bit obsessed.
Thanks for your input 😊 well I hope it's more than just obsession lol. IP: Logged |
ChildofVenus
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posted August 12, 2020 05:10 AM
Because I want something long term.IP: Logged |
LaceyLeigh
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posted August 12, 2020 05:16 AM
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Because I want something long term.
I completely understand! Do you think he is the one for you? IP: Logged |
Lalafortunaea
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posted August 12, 2020 09:03 AM
If you want something long term, just take things slowly. That mars+mars can be impulsive. Gotta wait and see if it'll last.Other than that, your synastry does look decent. also 3-11 overlay looks great imo, stable relatability, friendship, deep connection. 8th house touching the IC, with those planets - whooey! very strong feelings! Just wait and see, I say. IP: Logged |
ChildofVenus
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posted August 12, 2020 10:01 AM
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Originally posted by Lalafortunaea:
If you want something long term, just take things slowly. That mars+mars can be impulsive. Gotta wait and see if it'll last.Other than that, your synastry does look decent. also 3-11 overlay looks great imo, stable relatability, friendship, deep connection. 8th house touching the IC, with those planets - whooey! very strong feelings! Just wait and see, I say.
Thanks for your input do you mean my Pluto being in his 11th house? That’s the only 11th house overlay. I think the 8th house touching the IC explains the connection. And I agree with you about Mars/Mars. IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted August 22, 2020 01:23 PM
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Odette
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posted August 23, 2020 10:01 PM
How long have you known each other?I like your synastry. There is definitely an attraction and you have a lot in common. But I don't like hearing compliments like this - "you're perfect", "you're the one", etc.. when it's too early for them... Whenever a guy behaved this way ^ he always had some emotional/psychological issues, and it wasn't the best situation long term. If you've known each other for a few months or more, then I would take this as a good sign.
But if it's more like weeks, and he's saying "OMG you're the perfect woman!"... I would be wary..... IP: Logged |
Saggy7
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posted August 23, 2020 11:17 PM
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Originally posted by Odette:
How long have you known each other?I like your synastry. There is definitely an attraction and you have a lot in common. But I don't like hearing compliments like this - "you're perfect", "you're the one", etc.. when it's too early for them... Whenever a guy behaved this way ^ he always had some emotional/psychological issues, and it wasn't the best situation long term. If you've known each other for a few months or more, then I would take this as a good sign.
But if it's more like weeks, and he's saying "OMG you're the perfect woman!"... I would be wary.....
I can second this, learned it the hard way  IP: Logged |
livvywatermonkey
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posted August 24, 2020 01:01 AM
Hello ChildofVenus!!I’m practising looking at progressed synastry ... something interesting comes up in yours ^_^ His natal Sun opposes your progressed Venus in Taurus (this aspect is active from around mid-2019 to mid-2022, I think becoming exact around end of next year). perhaps he feels valued & capable of being his best self in your presence? Maybe you represent to him an ideal of grounded sensuality, & he may feel you would be receptive to his core personality/energy which is precious, powerful & at times more intense than just anybody could handle!? Let me know if this resonates ^_^ IP: Logged |
ChildofVenus
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posted August 24, 2020 11:26 AM
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Originally posted by Odette:
How long have you known each other?I like your synastry. There is definitely an attraction and you have a lot in common. But I don't like hearing compliments like this - "you're perfect", "you're the one", etc.. when it's too early for them... Whenever a guy behaved this way ^ he always had some emotional/psychological issues, and it wasn't the best situation long term. If you've known each other for a few months or more, then I would take this as a good sign.
But if it's more like weeks, and he's saying "OMG you're the perfect woman!"... I would be wary.....
Yes it's been more than a couple of months. We do have a lot in common I just worry because we don't have a lot of Saturn aspects. IP: Logged |
ChildofVenus
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posted August 24, 2020 09:05 PM
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Originally posted by livvywatermonkey:
Hello ChildofVenus!!I’m practising looking at progressed synastry ... something interesting comes up in yours ^_^ His natal Sun opposes your progressed Venus in Taurus (this aspect is active from around mid-2019 to mid-2022, I think becoming exact around end of next year). perhaps he feels valued & capable of being his best self in your presence? Maybe you represent to him an ideal of grounded sensuality, & he may feel you would be receptive to his core personality/energy which is precious, powerful & at times more intense than just anybody could handle!? Let me know if this resonates ^_^
Thanks for your input I never looked at the progressed synastry so thanks for looking into that. I assume that it could be a reason why sounds about right. 😊 IP: Logged |
athenegoddess
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posted August 24, 2020 10:45 PM
Because the composite Sun square Pluto he or you may become possessive but not in a healthy way. Sun square Pluto in composite is always a bad sign. Plus the Moon square Uranus the woman may be fleeting and not wanting commitment from the man. Doesn't look healthy to me but more spur of the moment.IP: Logged |
ChildofVenus
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posted August 25, 2020 02:36 AM
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Originally posted by athenegoddess:
Because the composite Sun square Pluto he or you may become possessive but not in a healthy way. Sun square Pluto in composite is always a bad sign. Plus the Moon square Uranus the woman may be fleeting and not wanting commitment from the man. Doesn't look healthy to me but more spur of the moment.
It depends on the people involved I have an Aquarius Moon. Moon square Uranus isn’t an issue for me. And the Moon is also square Saturn. We both have Sun/Pluto in our natal charts. It always depends on both people who are involved everyone is different. IP: Logged |
PrettyVirgo
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posted August 26, 2020 09:43 AM
Can you add psyche and eros 433,16. And Juno. I tend to see this having to do with “perfection”, etcIP: Logged |
ChildofVenus
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posted August 26, 2020 02:45 PM
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Originally posted by PrettyVirgo:
Can you add psyche and eros 433,16. And Juno. I tend to see this having to do with “perfection”, etc
We do have Eros conjunct Psyche in synastry it’s his Eros conjunct my Psyche. But what about Saturn? Don’t you need Saturn aspects for longevity? We do have parallel aspects from Saturn to personal planets.
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PrettyVirgo
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posted August 26, 2020 06:03 PM
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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
We do have Eros conjunct Psyche in synastry it’s his Eros conjunct my Psyche. But what about Saturn? Don’t you need Saturn aspects for longevity? We do have parallel aspects from Saturn to personal planets.
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PrettyVirgo
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posted August 26, 2020 06:08 PM
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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
We do have Eros conjunct Psyche in synastry it’s his Eros conjunct my Psyche. But what about Saturn? Don’t you need Saturn aspects for longevity? We do have parallel aspects from Saturn to personal planets.
You have psyche conjunct eros double whammy. I’ve seen this definitely hold couples. Juno opposite Eros. His Saturn is in your first house too which can also hold commitment. If you both are mature and work/communicate through things, and don’t allow people into you’re relationship and stuff = amazing. I really love this.
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ChildofVenus
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posted August 26, 2020 06:29 PM
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Originally posted by PrettyVirgo:
You have psyche conjunct eros double whammy. I’ve seen this definitely hold couples. Juno opposite Eros. His Saturn is in your first house too which can also hold commitment. If you both are mature and work/communicate through things, and don’t allow people into you’re relationship and stuff = amazing. I really love this.
Thank you for your input I didn't know it was a double whammy. It's my Saturn in his 1st house his Saturn is in my 5th IP: Logged |
ChildofVenus
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posted August 29, 2020 10:16 AM
I thought Saturn actually had to be conjunct the descendant to be considered. Not just being in the first house. IP: Logged |
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