posted August 14, 2020 06:11 AM            

Now your gal has Pluto oppose her Sun Jupiter conjunct in Taurus and Square Aqua Mars. So the possessive factor has just been increased tenfold in her case.

Maybe both things are true: she likes you and she sometimes doesn't want to share her brother's attention/affection.

You could also be making her slightly uncomfortable by being... Yourself.

posted August 14, 2020 06:42 AM            

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Originally posted by psytaurus:
Taurus gets a reputation for being possessive. And regardless of what anyone could be telling trust me that reputation is well deserved and well earned.

Now your gal has Pluto oppose her Sun Jupiter conjunct in Taurus and Square Aqua Mars. So the possessive factor has just been increased tenfold in her case.

Maybe both things are true: she likes you and she sometimes doesn't want to share her brother's attention/affection.

You could also be making her slightly uncomfortable by being... Yourself.

You see your taurus gal is kinda a fire void (I did say kinda because she seems to have a fire Ascendant) whereas your Leo Sun shines brightly wherever you go. It is who you are the could be making her uncomfortable from time to time.

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psytaurus thank you
for your response a lot.
i see you are a taurus too ..haha <3
well she is possessive for sure
and i get that because i am too
but i dont show it so much..
she do that with her parents too
for example her father offer me a fruit (lets say) she will say "why didnt you offer me too?"
silly things i know..
i see what you mean by being "my self"
the truth is i try to act in someway because
its her sister and his family
and i dont want to overdo it sometimes
but sometimes when im being just me
its true that she gets a little uncomfortable
just a little

posted August 19, 2020 07:28 PM            

Also she has Lilith and Nessus in the first, she might be naturally like that. The way she acts with you is probably the way she treats many other people (outside from her family). Our AC is our “mask” what we show to the outside world.

posted August 19, 2020 07:33 PM            

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Originally posted by H20AC:
I see that your Lilith is touching some of her planets. I’ve had a similar synastry with 2 girls at my job. I have noticed that when my Lilith touches or makes any aspect (trines included) to another girls planets, she tends to act a little awkward. Sometimes they seem to be nice and other times they act bi*chy. Not everybody can handle Lilith in a Synastry chart, even when they have Lilith in aspect to their own AC!

Also she has Lilith and Nessus in the first, she might be naturally like that. The way she acts with you is probably the way she treats many other people (outside from her family). Our AC is our “mask” what we show to the outside world.

- “ The AC defines, in part, the first impression we make on others is often referred to as the mask we wear. What it does represent is our natural and personal defense mechanisms that we use to adapt to, and cope with, our environment.” -

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posted August 20, 2020 05:13 AM            

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Originally posted by H20AC:
I see that your Lilith is touching some of her planets. I’ve had a similar synastry with 2 girls at my job. I have noticed that when my Lilith touches or makes any aspect (trines included) to another girls planets, she tends to act a little awkward. Sometimes they seem to be nice and other times they act bi*chy. Not everybody can handle Lilith in a Synastry chart, even when they have Lilith in aspect to their own AC!

Also she has Lilith and Nessus in the first, she might be naturally like that. The way she acts with you is probably the way she treats many other people (outside from her family). Our AC is our “mask” what we show to the outside world.

- “ The AC defines, in part, the first impression we make on others is often referred to as the mask we wear. What it does represent is our natural and personal defense mechanisms that we use to adapt to, and cope with, our environment.” -

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thank you for the response H20AC
well you must be right
i was working with a guy whose venus
opposite my lilith
and we werent very good together
he was getting on my nerves
and i did too.
like you said she is naturally like that
i have noticed that she wants to have control with everyone around her even if shes a good person deep inside.
also my lilith trine my bf venus
but he has this placement in his natal
so i guess that why we dont feel awkard.

posted August 20, 2020 03:43 PM            

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Originally posted by efaki94:

thank you for the response H20AC
well you must be right
i was working with a guy whose venus
opposite my lilith
and we werent very good together
he was getting on my nerves
and i did too.
like you said she is naturally like that
i have noticed that she wants to have control with everyone around her even if shes a good person deep inside.
also my lilith trine my bf venus
but he has this placement in his natal
so i guess that why we dont feel awkard.

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That’s correct! When you have similar Lilith aspects with someone, you’ll tend to feel more comfortable around that person. It’s almost like you can see a part of your energy in the other person.

posted August 20, 2020 06:06 PM            

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Originally posted by H20AC:
That’s correct! When you have similar Lilith aspects with someone, you’ll tend to feel more comfortable around that person. It’s almost like you can see a part of your energy in the other person.

With Lilith and Nessus in the first, she can definitely be controlling over other people especially when they are already closed to her (family, friends etc).

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thats so true. her parents make fun of her (in good way)because
she is like that..
could you give your opinion about the synastry with his mom?

posted August 20, 2020 07:06 PM            

The AC-IC and DC-MC conjunction is very positive! I’ve read somewhere that Any conjunction between your angles is simply a plus for the relationship because it makes it easier to understand each other and forgive. There could be a positive friendship between the two of you.

Mars trine Jupiter is very positive! You will feel like doing activities together or might notice that you enjoy doing the same stuff.
Venus conjunct Jupiter as well. I often attract people who’s Venus conjuncts my Jupiter and we get along. Its usually a very easy interaction. It doesn’t feel awkward at all!
I also see Moon conjunct Jupiter.... EXTREMELY POSITIVE.
I honestly feel like the two of you could get along very well.

posted October 05, 2020 02:48 PM            

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Originally posted by Randall:
Bump!

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