posted August 17, 2020 12:51 PM            

I've been with my parter for about 3 years, and we're moving in together later this year. What do you make of this composite? There seem to be many planets in the 8th house, and I'm not entirely sure what the moon opposing this means. Also, the mars seems afflicted - does this mean lots of fights? Also, the north node and vertex positions?

https://imgur.com/WiQ2PSC

posted August 17, 2020 08:01 PM            

the stellium in 8th house is very binding and the Moon opposition signals a deep intimacy and emotional world between you, with Mars conjunct MC and square the Nodes, you certainly feel the very familiar bond and the pull to establish your relationship on long terms, with the Nodes involved there's a strong sense of destiny, you feel meant for each other.

However, with Neptune and Uranus square the MC/IC axis, there is an underlying strong insecurity, and with Chiron/ASC opposite Vertex, things might not go so smooth as you would expect, some expectations might not be fulfilled.
Pluto square Jupiter could bring issues in money matters or one of the two might put their own professional plans ahead the relationship... Also, neptune/uranus square Mars could signal strong cultural/habit differences or there could be other issues about personal independence/space and potentially neglectful attitudes towards the relationship. This aspect is a bit wide, but could still potentially bring also issues of addiction or infidelty.... this aspect is the most concerning cause involving Neptune conjunct North Node square to MC which could potentially bring separation or very strong uncertainties and trust issues at best...

posted August 17, 2020 08:51 PM            

We do indeed come from different backgrounds/races, which could be the uranus/mars. I've definitely put my career goals over the relationship at the beginning (we met at work, he found another job last year).

As for the neptune/uranus squares and the chiron/vertex placement, I guess that's something to watch out for. We have never cheated on each other or on our previous partners, so hopefully that wont be an issue. However, he has been cheated on in the past and I can sense he still carries some insecurities from that encounter. What does the chiron placement imply?

posted August 17, 2020 09:35 PM            

Well if there's an actual cultural difference, then the Neptune/Mars-MC square should definitely point to that, the involvement of the North Node should empower your "belonging together" by destiny, despite those differences, even though Neptune/Node versus the axis usually brings a lack of direction to the relationship or constant uncertainties... in this picture, Vertex on DSC looks even more karmic/fated but could leave something unfulfilled or unsolved, maybe your feelings for each other are quite overwhelming, yet hard to be fully expressed somehow... Chiron opposite to this could add the strong intimate feeling of the bond, however with Neptune/Saturn midpoint opposite Chiron, those insecurities or potential unfulfillment side could make room for controlling or negletful attitudes... since Chiron is in Cancer, a sense of union/family could be threatened. So Chiron looks like suggesting that this is the aspect to be nurtured in order to solve any potential uncertainty.