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Topic: Should we stay together? Need you help **
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efaki94
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From: thessaloniki,greece
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posted September 04, 2020 06:30 PM
  
Hello everyone..!!
I had posted again about this relationship
But these days I think see some signs of rejection of my boyfriend
And I'm not sure if I should move with him
And making our home or keep it cool.
I think he takes me for granted the last days.
Also we have some contraparallels which are not good
Like his saturn contra parallel my moon
And his pluto contraparallel my venus.
Thanks in advance Synastry_ I'm outside
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efaki94
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posted September 04, 2020 06:32 PM
Is there any transit that would indicate
Cheating or separation because of him?
He has transit uranus in his 7th square his sun and trine his virgo stellium
We are very good together but when Istay in his home for some days (because we don't live together) he seems uninterested
In me after a while.. And he isn't the same. IP: Logged |
todd
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posted September 04, 2020 09:22 PM
I would blow this off.
First of all priapus is square to Pluto show all he wants from you is sex.
Secondly the Tsqure of mars/Jupiter/uranus-neptune indicates there in no chance this will be anything but a fling/affair.
He basically has no respect for you.
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efaki94
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posted September 05, 2020 04:39 AM
quote:
Originally posted by todd:
I would blow this off.
First of all priapus is square to Pluto show all he wants from you is sex.
Secondly the Tsqure of mars/Jupiter/uranus-neptune indicates there in no chance this will be anything but a fling/affair.
He basically has no respect for you.
todd
Todd thanks for the response
Well we are 2 years together and he is very affectionate when I'm sick (let's say) he would buy me food and come to my home
And see me for awhile. Also he helps financially when I didn't work he used to use his money for our trips and all of that.
But I have felt that and I have told him that sometimes he seems interested only when it comes to sex.after the sex he don't have the same interest as before.
So you think it won't workout in long term and living together thing?
Do you think that he could cheat or something like that?
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efaki94
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posted September 05, 2020 04:41 AM
Also does it count that composite chart and not Davison don't have this t-square and priapus pluto you described?
Could this make it easier?P.S. BTW I have felt that thing about respect from him but I have realize that is me who don't respect my self enough so sometimes as a result he do the same thing. Like he won't do anything bad but he will ignore me or dont respect my opinion IP: Logged |
efaki94
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posted September 05, 2020 04:41 AM
Also does it count that composite chart and not Davison don't have this t-square and priapus pluto you described?
Could this make it easier? IP: Logged |
todd
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posted September 05, 2020 08:47 PM
quote:
Originally posted by efaki94:
Also does it count that composite chart and not Davison don't have this t-square and priapus pluto you described?
Could this make it easier?
Davison charts are essentially worthless.
They don't correspond to any astrological factor besides the sun and moon.IP: Logged |
efaki94
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posted September 05, 2020 09:30 PM
quote:
Originally posted by todd:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by efaki94:
[b]Also does it count that composite chart and not Davison don't have this t-square and priapus pluto you described?
Could this make it easier?
Davison charts are essentially worthless.
They don't correspond to any astrological factor besides the sun and moon.[/B][/QUOTE] Okay I'm saying that because the t square to Mars and priapus to Pluto are in Davison. Composite chart don't have this aspects
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todd
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posted September 05, 2020 11:13 PM
Oh sorry I got mixed up.
I'll look it over again tomorrow
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efaki94
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posted September 06, 2020 05:13 AM
quote:
Originally posted by todd:
Oh sorry I got mixed up.
I'll look it over again tomorrow
todd
Thanks Todd
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todd
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posted September 06, 2020 05:02 PM
Hi efaki94
I have to start by saying this is a star crossed relationship.
The Venus/Jupiter midpoint is conjunct to priapus and opposed to lilith and square the node.this is imaginaryly romantic and loving.it seems to bode love and devotion.The vertex is conjunct the desc/Asc axis which brings feelings of connection between you from another reality. It also can feel a sign of destiny.but the energy of the vertex is so paranormal that it is very difficult for these energies to align with human desires and emotion
With the vertex and the node/lilith energies
involved ,this relationship can promise your dreams.
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todd
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posted September 06, 2020 05:08 PM
But with the Tsquare of Chiron opposed to Saturn and square to Pluto.. plus the mars/Venus midpoint conjunct Chiron, the dreams and aspirations are only false hopes.this pattern is very selfish and controlling.not to mention extremely abusive.what you feel is correct, you are simply a sex object and he doesn't have any deeper emotional feelings.todd IP: Logged |
efaki94
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posted September 06, 2020 06:41 PM
quote:
Originally posted by todd:
But with the Tsquare of Chiron opposed to Saturn and square to Pluto.. plus the mars/Venus midpoint conjunct Chiron, the dreams and aspirations are only false hopes.this pattern is very selfish and controlling.not to mention extremely abusive.what you feel is correct, you are simply a sex object and he doesn't have any deeper emotional feelings.todd
Todd thanks a lot for your analysis
Well yes he seems selfish sometimes
Like narrow mind he just want only to say his opinion about things but I think his father is like that because I see the way he interacts with his wife and I think that he have just took his chacateristics and deep down he is more sensitive than that.
Also he wanted to have sex with me frim the first meeting but I stopped him
The thing is that he can be mean with his words to me or his attitude but
I feel that he cares deep down.. that what holds me in this relationship.
Maybe I'm being delusional.
Could you see any affair from his side?
Any cheat aspect? IP: Logged |
efaki94
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posted September 06, 2020 06:46 PM
Also could I ask you about his synastry composite with another girl?
Do they seem more compatible? She is a girlfriend of his friend 
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todd
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posted September 06, 2020 07:11 PM
Yes I think you are delusional but you are not alone,the vertex makes even the most level headed person obsessive as it brings energies that are more powerful than our human reality.
This second composite shows he will be even more sexually exploitative than with you.
It is very sexual but totally wanton..Your love will never be reciprocated by him,you will only lose your abity to trust and love but being to his carnal desires. IP: Logged |
maleja.rangel
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posted September 06, 2020 11:11 PM
No synastry or composite at all will tell you if a relationship will last or no. A real profesional astrologer never will doom a relationship without checking natal charts and more things. Even if there are difficult aspects they wont tell you that your relationship won’t last, just check the strengths of the relationship and also the weaknesses and work through that. Also, communication is key, talk to him and express him how you feel in a deep talk. If you still feeling he doesn’t improve, so you should take a decision by yourself, not because some people tell you he wants just sex. You are the only one who have lived the relationship, follow your intuition and sorry for my English. Take care IP: Logged |
efaki94
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posted September 07, 2020 01:37 AM
quote:
Originally posted by todd:
Yes I think you are delusional but you are not alone,the vertex makes even the most level headed person obsessive as it brings energies that are more powerful than our human reality.
This second composite shows he will be even more sexually exploitative than with you.
It is very sexual but totally wanton..Your love will never be reciprocated by him,you will only lose your abity to trust and love but being to his carnal desires.
Well Todd Thnanks for you time and your honesty
I ll keep you posted if things go better or worse, 🙄 IP: Logged |
efaki94
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posted September 07, 2020 01:43 AM
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Originally posted by maleja.rangel:
No synastry or composite at all will tell you if a relationship will last or no. A real profesional astrologer never will doom a relationship without checking natal charts and more things. Even if there are difficult aspects they wont tell you that your relationship won’t last, just check the strengths of the relationship and also the weaknesses and work through that. Also, communication is key, talk to him and express him how you feel in a deep talk. If you still feeling he doesn’t improve, so you should take a decision by yourself, not because some people tell you he wants just sex. You are the only one who have lived the relationship, follow your intuition and sorry for my English. Take care
Maleja thanks for your kind words
Of course it's not just astrology
That define our relationships.
Communication like you said is the key
The most of the time.
Your English is great but sorry for mine.
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efaki94
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posted September 14, 2020 01:44 PM
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efaki94
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posted September 19, 2020 04:44 PM
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