posted September 15, 2020 08:22 PM            

Time ago we talked about the boomerang pattern in my birth chart. I found the same figure in this composite chart. What do you think it could mean from the point of view of a (possible, in this case) relationship?

posted September 16, 2020 04:25 AM            

The qcx connections to Chiron in Taurus/10th indicates that the two people will be focused on dissolving the same barrier, and the opposition to Uranus suggests that both will be willing to fight (together) for that cause.

posted September 16, 2020 05:23 AM            

I also have this with my guy. Composite Sun/Mercury in 5H sextile Mars in 3H, quincunx Neptune in 10H. The intriguing thing is I found our name asteroids also part of the configuration. His name asteroid conjuncts Sun/Mercury forming the same aspects with Mars/Neptune. My name asteroid opposite Neptune creating a boomerang.

How do I interpret this?

posted September 16, 2020 07:17 AM            

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Originally posted by Hikaru29:

@Sara, hope you don't mind I ride on your thread as I've been curious about this configuration as well.

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No problem at all Hikaru

posted September 16, 2020 07:29 AM            

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Originally posted by Graham:

The Neptune in Sagittarius/Pluto in Libra generation are here to dissolve the barriers to personal development/growth that are hindering the evolutionary objective to create a "level playing field for all of humankind".

The qcx connections to Chiron in Taurus/10th indicates that the two people will be focused on dissolving the same barrier, and the opposition to Uranus suggests that both will be willing to fight (together) for that cause.

Could the cause be "equal pay for equally qualified/experienced personnel"?

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Well, it seems a "positive" pattern! I think that sooner or later we will have to overcome our fears and come out saying to the world that we love each other, even if it will be very difficult..

Thanks

posted September 16, 2020 11:25 AM            

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Originally posted by Sara1984:
Well, it seems a "positive" pattern! I think that sooner or later we will have to overcome our fears and come out saying to the world that we love each other, even if it will be very difficult..

Thanks

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Yes. ... It is a positive configuration -as having a common cause bring/holds/"binds" the two of you together.

posted September 16, 2020 11:56 AM            

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Is the YoD divisive or binding, since quincunx aspect is considered negative?

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In synastry, it can be either divisive or binding ... depending upon the extent to which each of the two people are inclined to walk away from the relationship rather than work together on resolving the issue.

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I also have this with my guy. Composite Sun/Mercury in 5H sextile Mars in 3H, quincunx Neptune in 10H. The intriguing thing is I found our name asteroids also part of the configuration. His name asteroid conjuncts Sun/Mercury forming the same aspects with Mars/Neptune. My name asteroid opposite Neptune creating a boomerang.

How do I interpret this?

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posted September 17, 2020 03:43 AM            

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Originally posted by Graham:
Sun/Mercury in 5th = self-expression : Mars in 3rd = assertive communications : Neptune in 10th = avoid doing anything that would cause shame (or be used against you). ... So, the couple's reputation (and ability to be a relationship-role-model for others) requires them to communicate assertively with each other. ... And, communicating assertively is perhaps what they will be modelling.

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posted September 17, 2020 03:46 AM            

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Originally posted by Sara1984:
No problem at all Hikaru

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posted September 17, 2020 06:57 AM            

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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
Thanks for this, Graham. Indeed we have become more honest and assertive with each other and this is good as we're able to discuss our feelings. But with the Neptune quincunxes, does it also indicate that we may not be on the same page as to where the relationship is heading or do you see the assertive communication helping with that? Also, with my name asteroid opposing Neptune... what does it mean?

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The Neptune qcxs indicate that ... to be sure of being on the same page ... the two of you must communicate assertively/clearly with each other. ... In particular, be sure to "state the obvious" rather than assume that the other can see it too.

The only asteroid I use is Chiron, but my guess is this opposition to Neptune from your named asteroid is warning you (rather than your partner) to "be sure to state the obvious". ... (If it was Chiron, the wound would be distorting communications.)

posted September 17, 2020 08:10 AM            

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Originally posted by Graham:
The Neptune qcxs indicate that ... to be sure of being on the same page ... the two of you must communicate assertively/clearly with each other. ... In particular, be sure to "state the obvious" rather than [b]assume that the other can see it too.

The only asteroid I use is Chiron, but my guess is this opposition to Neptune from your named asteroid is warning you (rather than your partner) to "be sure to state the obvious". ... (If it was Chiron, the wound would be distorting communications.)

"Where do you see our relationship going, partner?" is the elephant-in-the-room question that goes unasked by couples who are not communicating assertively. ... So, feel the fear and ask it anyway - and don't assume that the partner already has a clear understanding of where you see this relationship going. [/B]

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