posted September 24, 2020 03:30 PM            

His issue is that he doesn't like the age difference (even though it's small but he's always dated people his age or a smaller age gap)

His birthtime is an approx after telling me he was a libra rising.

Synastry
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posted September 26, 2020 12:23 AM            

Mars is trine to Venus so the attraction is clear,but the trine is not particularly binding.the intensity as I said resides with eris in this chart.

The Juno/Jupiter midpoint is conjunct the sun so there is a sense or yearning g for a extended or committed relationship.
But Saturn is opposed to Orcus which puts a damper on those feelings.

Chiron is square to Pluto which likewise shows a coldness to the relationship.this aspect isolating and usually is unfavorable because it is quite insensitive and critical .

You need to follow his lead and let this go.
Your feelings of intensity and even a sense of destiny are misplaced.

The vertex is square the node,which always give a almost otherworldly attraction,but rarely shows a relationship will form.this square adds a intensity that is not of earth plane and this aspect very often shows one partner who becomes obsessive and will not take no for a answer.

So to answer your question, the intensity of the time together was good but if you do not let go then this aspect can become extremely destructive.