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posted September 30, 2020 02:12 AM            

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So me and my boyfriend finally decided we wanted to get married and the date is set for this Saturday. I honestly have been having a lot of anxiety recently about this, especially since it's our first year being in a long distance relationship. We have been together for 4 years now and I just moved away for school. It's only gonna be 15 months but I worry a lot that he might find someone else while I am not around. Before we met, he dated a lot of women and he was poly at one point. So I guess that's where this anxiety comes from. Also, he has Venus in Gemini in the 1st. He tends to attract a lot of women. I am afraid that he might find someone else and change his mind about this. I have come so close to breaking up with him in the last few days because I have been so so afraid. I have Venus and Mercury square Pluto, so it doesn't help that I get paranoid a lot.

I wonder if we should wait to get engaged or if we should just stick with the plan. We decided this before Mars went retrograde, so I don't know if that helps.

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posted September 30, 2020 07:18 AM            

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Wait. Make an electional chart for the best date. Hire an astrologer to help you as this is pretty serious. The day decided for becomes the birthchart of your marriage

Maybe he’s pushing marriage because he’s worried you’ll leave him while away

Best of luck

Upload and post the chart for this Saturday, though this thread should be moved to Horary and Event Astrology

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posted October 04, 2020 12:24 AM            

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We actually had to postpone it because he got really sick when I got to his place. We're waiting on test results from the assessment centre and its been three days since he took the test.

Tbh, I'm not so mad it got postponed. A little inconvenient, yes, cause I travelled with a huge luggage with all my stuff supposed to be for this weekend. But I'd rather have it postponed than put everyone at risk.

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posted October 04, 2020 01:34 AM            

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Nm, think I missed the gist of the OP's concern.

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