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Topic: Advice Needed BADLY!
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AquaGem86
Newflake Posts: 4
From: USA
Registered: Oct 2020
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posted October 05, 2020 11:08 PM
  
I'm going nuts. I love this guy but his communication is driving me absolutely insane. I've read Taurus Moons can be somewhat secretive and reserved, but he's telling me he wants marriage (looking at rings tomorrow) and dreams of me being pregnant. Its like 30% of the time he's really expressive, and then the other 70% of the time he doesn't share anything at all. We don't get to see each other in person much (maybe 1 x a week for dinner, hopefully its changing soon) and the rest of the time we just text. He never calls, just texts. When we are together everything is perfect...but when we aren't I'm pulling my hair out. What in his chart or in our synastry can explain this? I know he loves me, he's planning a future for us and working hard but its like he doesn't share anything unless I pull it out of him. Any suggestions or advice? I'm excited and happy to be looking at rings tomorrow, but I've also been so frustrated the last 10 days since we met due to the lack of communication. Chart here (I'm the Aqua, he's Leo) [IMG]https://hosting.photobucket.com/images/i/nsam[/IMG]
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Odette
Knowflake Posts: 6974
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Registered: May 2012
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posted October 06, 2020 01:51 AM
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Its like 30% of the time he's really expressive, and then the other 70% of the time he doesn't share anything at all. We don't get to see each other in person much (maybe 1 x a week for dinner, hopefully its changing soon) and the rest of the time we just text. He never calls, just texts.
Sigh.... He might have a dismissive attachment.
I'd say his behaviour is unusually detached... The majority of people would want more contact on a daily basis...Earth moon signs can be on the quiet side and it does take them a long while to truly trust someone - but in his case.. the way you described this.. I don't think it's just the astrology... This is a video on how people with this attachment style might act: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2eg4M_m0Acs&list=PL0EkRjSLGY_Ra_BrtjhNPbAf-S3DNkqHG&index=64 And this is - how to tell they are genuinely interested: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p-OwlEcatcE&list=PL0EkRjSLGY_Ra_BrtjhNPbAf-S3DNkqHG&index=30 IP: Logged |
Plut0nian2
Knowflake Posts: 1100
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Registered: Apr 2014
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posted October 07, 2020 03:14 AM
Pluto square Mercury
Saturn in 8th H
are highly secretiveHave one myself (8th H Saturn, along with Cancer in Mercury) and I hide even unimportant/mundane things like I'm hiding a corpse or smth. Being secretive comes naturally to be secretive, I don't feel the need to talk about things and the rare times I've done I haven't felt any better unless for example I gain some astrological knowledge or smth like that. Need for detachment is Uranian and sometimes Neptunian. Also I've
noticed that the same goes for people who prefer texting including myself. Probably because texting gives you more freedom compared to other ways of communicating (phone calls, video calls, face to face talking) since you can take your time to reply whenever you can or you feel like doing so.. also when texting people seem to skip (more often) small talk which personally bores me, and I've observed that they can be more honest compared to when they use other ways of communication. Pluto in hard aspect to Mercury (I would say heavy Pluto/Scorpio people in general) don't like small talk, they want deeper/more serious/meaningfull conversations. Based on these placements of his I think the above things apply to him. IP: Logged |
Randall
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From: From a galaxy, far, far away...
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 18, 2020 03:57 PM
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