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featherlightly
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posted October 06, 2020 06:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for featherlightly     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
We met by happenstance after I saw him post online about going to an event that I needed a ride to. While carpooling (our first time meeting), we completely hit it off, and kept in touch afterwards as friends. A really nice mix of banter/verbal sparring, intellectual connection, and emotional bonding.

Recently it progressed to more than friends and as soon as the physical barrier was broken, everything went gangbusters. The chemistry is sizzling. Totally in synch.

We're both shocked by how strong the feelings are and how well we click. Neither the synastry nor composite blew me away initially, which is why I'm curious for outside input. My last few relationships were very Neptunian and full of illusion that rapidly fell apart; it doesn't look like that's a risk here, but still wondering if I'm missing something.

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featherlightly
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posted October 06, 2020 07:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for featherlightly     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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featherlightly
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posted October 06, 2020 07:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for featherlightly     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Aspect grid for synastry http://i.imgur.com/IgAeLW5.png

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todd
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posted October 06, 2020 07:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for todd     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It is fairly obvious to me.
The composite has the vertex conjunct the DSC/arc axis.by itself this can give intensity to the he mental com in action as well as feelings of destiny at play.
Here with Jupiter and mars part of the mix,you have the amazing mental connection and the infectious physical play.

Then the node is square the vertex which ups the psychic connection and enhances the feeling that high planes are involved in your chance meeting.
With the Venus/mars midpoint conjunct the node the emotional/physical attraction becomes magical.

Of course when there is so much"paranormal"attraction,the relationship may not progress lime you expect. Here Venus opposed to pluto can add sexual intensity but also be from file and turn off unexpectedly .
With Uranus sextiles to Jupiter and trine to mars this hookup may have legs,but you might see what Juno's placement is for future considerations

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posted October 06, 2020 09:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for featherlightly     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by todd:
It is fairly obvious to me.
The composite has the vertex conjunct the DSC/arc axis.by itself this can give intensity to the he mental com in action as well as feelings of destiny at play.
Here with Jupiter and mars part of the mix,you have the amazing mental connection and the infectious physical play.

Then the node is square the vertex which ups the psychic connection and enhances the feeling that high planes are involved in your chance meeting.
With the Venus/mars midpoint conjunct the node the emotional/physical attraction becomes magical.

Of course when there is so much"paranormal"attraction,the relationship may not progress lime you expect. Here Venus opposed to pluto can add sexual intensity but also be from file and turn off unexpectedly .
With Uranus sextiles to Jupiter and trine to mars this hookup may have legs,but you might see what Juno's placement is for future considerations



Thank you, Todd! I hadn't picked up on any of that, especially the vertex involvement. The meeting definitely does feel fated; we never in a million years would've met if not for this. Everything you wrote resonates very strongly. I'm hoping the Saturn aspects in synastry add some durability, because I would really love to see this last.

Here's the synastry and composite with Juno added. Does this change anything?

Thanks so much for your help!


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todd
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posted October 08, 2020 08:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for todd     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Juno does had a favorable influence as the Jupiter/Juno midpoint is conjunct the sun which shows the possibility of marriage.in addition the Saturn/moon midpoint is opposed to Juno which indicates that there in a real real feeling of devotion between you.
The trine of Uranus to the vertex might be enough to stabilize the vertex energy.....good luck
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featherlightly
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posted October 10, 2020 03:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for featherlightly     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you so much Todd. I really appreciate your input. The detail you put into your analysis is really amazing to me. We had a really beautiful night last night and I’m definitely falling in love so it would be nice if this one lasts.

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