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posted October 11, 2020 05:34 PM            

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this is a relationship that has been going for almost two years but is undergoing a big shift... can you please give some insight?

Composite:
[img]https://i.ibb.co/vJKtwRz/comp-MT.png[/img]

Natal of person 1:
[img]https://i.ibb.co/420DD2h/mere-chart.png[/img]

Natal of person 2:
[img]https://i.ibb.co/zntTjHD/Screen-Shot-2020-10-11-at-5-24-49-PM.png[/img]

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posted October 11, 2020 07:45 PM            

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Hi StoneMoon

transiting Uranus is conjunct comp. South Node and square to Composite Saturn, this is usually a break up transit... moreover, this occurs while transiting nodes are square to DSC and Mars retrograde is square to Moon. It seems to me that basic elements are being questioned and he might be emotionally distant... Composite Saturn square Chiron and Uranus suggests that there's a burden in your relationship... does one of you have heavy responsibilities outside the relationship, such as a child or other priorities to the detriment of the other? Or there's a different expectation in the future of the relationship which causes friction? Saturn square Uranus on its own is not a good omen for stability and long term...

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posted October 11, 2020 07:51 PM            

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Well wow, I think you hit all three nails on the head. Yes, he has been distant the last couple of weeks, and we have talked about it. I am the one who has burdens outside of the relationship- multiple jobs, children from a previous marriage, and other unrelated responsibilities...

And we just literally discussed how our timelines and expectations for the relationship are different.

You are impressive!

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posted October 11, 2020 08:01 PM            

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and also forgive me, I failed to say THANK YOU!

I know what I need to do- end it- but it has been hard to accept. I actually feel relief and not sadness, but my hesitation is more about facing another relationship's end. I am too old to keep doing this.

Thank you for helping me and your thoughts. I really appreciate it.

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posted October 11, 2020 08:38 PM            

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You are so welcome <3

Yes, I have figured especially a child/children involved from previous relationship... Unfortunately those transits to composite look quite harsh, if you hadnt the Saturn/Uranus square I would have supposed a different scenario, but it seems to me that there are core issues, difficult to overcome... I'm sorry...

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posted October 11, 2020 08:54 PM            

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Actually you have helped me very much. In my gut I knew it needed to end, and you helped me not question myself. Thank you!

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posted October 11, 2020 08:56 PM            

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❤️

are you person 1 for the natal chart?

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posted October 11, 2020 08:57 PM            

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yes, I am

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posted October 11, 2020 09:26 PM            

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You are having transiting Saturn direct opposite to your Sun and trine your nodes, so it seems you're feeling the urge to take your responsabilities and duties to better settle in your life direction, get more stability, especially cause you had transiting nodes square your nodes... transiting Mercury is currently conjunct natal Uranus as trans. Uranus is opposite, so you might feel this "gut" urge to take a decision... Mars is retrograde, square Moon/Lilith-Jupiter, and conjunct to the Moon/Jupiter midpoint/amor... this is also a "gut" decision, but emotionally very harsh... consider that mercury will be retrograde in two days, it's possible you might regret such gut decision or will be emotionally stressed out an it could be hard let go. You might get a much clearer mind as Mars and mercury will turn direct in half november. btw transiting Uranus on your Chiron is urging you to follow your plans for your own stability with a more rational approach, so it seems like you're in a "mind versus heart" conflict or so... You will feel much more stable early next year, this is a "shift" you're passing through to get stronger and ready for more responsabilities you will have next year when tr. Saturn will be square to your Chiron.

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posted October 12, 2020 07:21 AM            

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thank you for taking the time to reply with that... everything you said resonates. My conflicted mind/heart feeling is not over this man, but more over my career and soul purpose in life. After pursuing my passion for years, I feel lost and passionless.

I have been through so many transits before to know that this is serving a purpose in my life. It's been hard to stay positive though, so I really appreciate your kindness here. It gives me strength to fight through this at least until November and the Mercury Mars direct.

I can't even imagine what more responsibilities I might be preparing for, so I will just tuck that one away for now. Again, thank you so much for your time.

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posted October 12, 2020 02:25 PM            

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I think it's transiting Neptune (retrograde) opposite your Mars, this looks quite draining and may make you feel lost... and it's in your 4th house (family) versus your work/career... I think you need to take more care of yourself and find a balance between your duties and your own wellbeing... I think you expected this support from this man but he didnt understand the burden you have and maybe made it worse... Endure my friend, I think you will do good in the second part of next year, but you need to not get exhausted before then.

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