posted October 14, 2020 05:48 PM            

I’m curious how big a part the nodal contacts play, as well as the Pluto contacts. Also, he is Aquarius sun and Venus, and I’m Leo Sun and Venus (I’m the top person on the chart). His moon and Saturn sit in my 7th house, and his Mars is in my 1st conjunct Ascendant (Libra). Ruler of my 7th is mars.

I’m the inside person. Since he doesn’t know his TOB, can I still count that his Moon and Saturn fall in my 7th, and his Mars in my 1st?

posted October 15, 2020 09:09 PM            

I ran a composite chart for you.
As to your concern about not having his birth time,in a composite with one correct birth time and if you give noon for his time,then the moon placement can only be 3 degrees off or +/- 1.5 degrees from the moon.so this if close enough to interpret the moons placement.
Of the angles are useless.

Jupiter is sextiles to the node.this makes me think this a friend from work. Though he might be teacher or authority figure.
Off the top this does not look like a Romantic relationship right now but you certainty are interested in that direction.
Mars is trine to Venus so there is mutual warm feeling between you.
But it seems he is somewhat of a unknown/mysterious guy.the sun is square to pholous and the midpoint is conjunct to the mars/lilith conjunction. This shows you feel him deeply but he doesn't divulge his feeling hence your not clear what you feel or why you feel connected.
One very strong connection is the mercury/Uranus midpoint conjunct the south node.this is pure mental/psychic electricity between you this implies when you start talking you can't stop as you both stimulate new perspectives in each others mind.this shows a psychic connection so you likely know what each of you are thinking and even can answer questions before they are asked. This also connects you on the astral. you likely have vivid dreams of each other. As I said this give a almost palatable electricity between you.
Venus is opposed to Pluto,which is attraction but it is usually subdued.here Venus is opposed to psyche showing a attraction to him but Saturn forms a tsquare with Pluto and Venus so it doesn't look like there is a overt display of affection .
So with such a electric mental connection ,you likely wonder about the emotional connection.
Eris is square to the Uranus/Neptune/Juno stellium.this certainly brings out vibrant emotional attraction but it tends to be superficial in that eris does not elicit deep love but is interested in infatuation and affairs.so it is interesting that the Venus/sun midpoint is opposed to Saturn which elicit serious emotional feeling.
So again it seems you are confused about the potential here because the are very attractive aspects but also very reserved almost cold feelings at times.
Chiron is opposed to Ceres and this is square the node.this shows you are both have very sharp minds and articuate with a almost incisive critical perspective.opposed to Ceres this might show that you have similar feelings
about relationships and the pitfalls human nature.
todd

posted October 15, 2020 10:11 PM            

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Originally posted by todd:
Hi MonteCristo

Jupiter is sextiles to the node.this makes me think this a friend from work. Though he might be teacher or authority figure.
Off the top this does not look like a Romantic relationship right now but you certainty are interested in that direction.
Mars is trine to Venus so there is mutual warm feeling between you.
But it seems he is somewhat of a unknown/mysterious guy.the sun is square to pholous and the midpoint is conjunct to the mars/lilith conjunction. This shows you feel him deeply but he doesn't divulge his feeling hence your not clear what you feel or why you feel connected.
One very strong connection is the mercury/Uranus midpoint conjunct the south node.this is pure mental/psychic electricity between you this implies when you start talking you can't stop as you both stimulate new perspectives in each others mind.this shows a psychic connection so you likely know what each of you are thinking and even can answer questions before they are asked. This also connects you on the astral. you likely have vivid dreams of each other. As I said this give a almost palatable electricity between you.
Venus is opposed to Pluto,which is attraction but it is usually subdued.here Venus is opposed to psyche showing a attraction to him but Saturn forms a tsquare with Pluto and Venus so it doesn't look like there is a overt display of affection .
So with such a electric mental connection ,you likely wonder about the emotional connection.
Eris is square to the Uranus/Neptune/Juno stellium.this certainly brings out vibrant emotional attraction but it tends to be superficial in that eris does not elicit deep love but is interested in infatuation and affairs.so it is interesting that the Venus/sun midpoint is opposed to Saturn which elicit serious emotional feeling.
So again it seems you are confused about the potential here because the are very attractive aspects but also very reserved almost cold feelings at times.
Chiron is opposed to Ceres and this is square the node.this shows you are both have very sharp minds and articuate with a almost incisive critical perspective.opposed to Ceres this might show that you have similar feelings
about relationships and the pitfalls human nature.
todd

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I appreciate you taking the time to do that, todd. Good insight, too, because I am confused 😂. We met by complete chance on my birthday two months ago. I thought nothing of him because he is not typically someone I’d be interested in physically, but after spending time with him—honestly, just being near him—I felt this strange pull. It felt electrifying...but I was confused because he is just so different than others that I normally like. He had a very reserved, quiet, intense manner, yet he laughed at all my jokes and was very attentive for the entire evening. The few things he did say I remember, thrilled me. Just the way he said things, even if no one could hear except for me. It’s hard to meet men that flow with my intellectual tastes, and he seemed so on par with me. At the beginning of the night I simply thought nothing of him. By the end, I could barely look him in the eyes for fear it would reveal my attraction to him. I remember as I was leaving, I had a feeling of sadness because I knew I wouldn’t get to kiss him (why would one kiss after just meeting in a group setting?), and I remember thinking it was an odd thing to be sad about. But somehow, we ended up alone as the others went outside, and it was like we both knew but beat around the bush... we went in for a hug to say goodbye and BAM. Electric kiss. He seemed shocked and elated and wouldn’t let me go. I escaped his grip and tried to run away lol, and he kept trying to pull me back, but I ran outside towards my friends as he ran after me 😂. I told him I had to go and he kept trying to kiss me again... needless to say EVERYBODY was confused because this literally came out of nowhere 😂

We’ve talked after that, it is very charged, the attraction on both ends is just extremely intense. However, I don’t live in his city yet. I’m moving in about a year. I haven’t felt THIS attracted to someone in a long, long time. I think the last time was the only other Aquarian I dated. Electric is the word that describes them for me.

I noticed that there is a kite in the composite. Does that hold significance, in your opinion?

You mentioned Eris eliciting desire/infatuation but not deep love, and Saturn opposite the Venus/Sun midpoint elicits deep emotional connection. I wonder if that could signify that perhaps the initial meeting was magnetic because of this Eris aspect, and maybe Saturn provides the anchor?

posted October 19, 2020 08:32 PM            

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Originally posted by todd:
Well I have to be direct.
The problem is that the nature of eris pattern and the Venus/Pluto pattern are so different that a relationship that both dynamics would be very bipolar.
Your feeling would be either elated or depressed,there would be no middle ground of normal human emotion bonding.
The saturn/Pluto/Venus tsquare is that extremely controlling and malicious.the persistence he showed just trying to keep you from leaving after you birthday party is just a fore taste for his need to control you.
These aspects to not balance each other.the Pluto aspects would demand complete compliance.

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posted October 20, 2020 01:56 PM            

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Originally posted by todd:
Well just one added thought.Pluto/Venus aspects can start out very sexual.but if he is approaching you as a conquest, rather that a being to love,then the sexual energy will lose intensity and even cease altogether.

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posted October 20, 2020 09:44 PM            

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Originally posted by MonteCristo:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by todd:
[b]Well just one added thought.Pluto/Venus aspects can start out very sexual.but if he is approaching you as a conquest, rather that a being to love,then the sexual energy will lose intensity and even cease altogether.

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What about all of the other aspects in synastry? I feel that those are major and of influence for sure.[/B][/QUOTE]