posted October 14, 2020 07:39 PM            

I cannot find any source for this online.

posted October 15, 2020 10:02 PM            

So I'd say both Saturns rule each other out and are neutral relative to each other.

posted October 16, 2020 05:25 AM            

So the reason why I asked was I read somewhere that 5th house Saturn conjunction could be interpreted as the couple having a child during the Saturn return? Or becoming a parent was apart of their Saturn return experience.

posted October 16, 2020 02:46 PM            

Saturn in the 5th would be negative for having children.

But if Saturn was conjunct another person's planet, such as Jupiter, maybe not.

A Saturn return refers to a phase of life and in this context, women usually have children before their 1st Saturn return.

posted October 16, 2020 07:27 PM            

I realize that what I read was for someone with a huge age difference.

We were trying for a baby, but unfortunately, we were unsuccessful. Shortly after that, we unforeseeably broke up. It was like something just went wrong and she decided she needed to leave. So I've been looking into our charts to see if there was anything I missed.

posted October 16, 2020 09:04 PM            

I can try to help you if you'd like to post a synastry chart.

There are usually several others that offer opinions also.

posted October 16, 2020 10:35 PM            

When I met her it was an instant attraction. We were very connected to each, physically, emotionally, and spiritually. Our relationship moved really quickly. We really wanted to get married, build a home, and a family, etc.

Recently, we hit a random rough patch, and because of all the stress she was going through, she decided that we needed to separate. It really caught me off guard, because how could someone who wanted to build a future with you leave so quickly, and so abruptly. It has been the most painful breakup I've experienced in my entire life. I saw a future with this person, and it was all washed away randomly in one 3 days.

I know at the time her moon was transiting her 12th house, and she is 12th house heavy. I couldn't find anything else that played into this. Our Sun's are Sq, but we actually h a really good communication and understanding of each other.

posted October 17, 2020 08:36 AM            

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Originally posted by SecretGeek:
Are you the inside blue?

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posted October 17, 2020 04:26 PM            

I have read that Leos generally are the most dominant types of people of all fixed signs, with Scorpio second.

For example, your Sun is square her Sun.

That relationship can create dominant friction.

But it can also be sexually more hot.

posted October 17, 2020 06:04 PM            

With her Chiron being in her 12th, it might not be as clear to her as it is to you.

posted October 17, 2020 06:25 PM            

Your Saturn might be a little too close to her NN for comfort for her.

posted October 17, 2020 07:26 PM            

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Originally posted by SecretGeek:
Her Saturn sextile to your Venus is very good.

Your Saturn might be a little too close to her NN for comfort for her.

Did she ever complain about you trying to control her or cramp her style?

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She didn't really feel like I was cramping her style, mostly that I taught her when to rest, which was a good thing.

posted October 17, 2020 08:02 PM            

One's a square and the other's an opposite.

I'd say those could cause issues.

Her Pluto is in the 4th.

Any issues with her home life as far as you're concerned?

posted October 17, 2020 09:11 PM            

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Originally posted by SecretGeek:
There's a double whammy hard aspect with Sun and Pluto.

One's a square and the other's an opposite.

I'd say those could cause issues.

Her Pluto is in the 4th.

Any issues with her home life as far as you're concerned?

The birth times are correct?

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Yes her family had a lot of issues which lead to her staying with me for 3 days out the week. She eventually started feeling really stressed out by all the changes. So I guess that how that manifested.

posted October 17, 2020 09:33 PM            

[img]https://i.imgur.com/n3tljQC.png[/img]

posted October 17, 2020 09:56 PM            

These two asteroids above are in her 12th house.

posted October 17, 2020 10:13 PM            

I know because I have the same thing but I am older.

Right now, it is about 7 degrees away for the second time this year and closing.