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Kekerina
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From: El Tigre,Anzoategui,Venezuela
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posted October 16, 2020 04:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Kekerina     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
OKAY, im gonna say the history from myself and my Ex

He was my first boyfriend i give him my virginity and stuff, i moved with him after one month of dating and we last 4 years, i left college to be with him, and I starve in those years several times, I had a pretty rich life before meeting him, them my parents stop to giving money and he never work, we live in his parents house, it was a really toxic, and abusive relationship he didnt even liked to me being with my friends and i stopped to seeing my friends, so i was alone, poor, and in a abusive relationship.

Then he dump me for a girl (17 years old), and it was really bad, he was with me and with her at the same time, saying stuff like he will be with me in the future, giving me hope and saying that thing wills be okay, he was really really mean to me, then he kick me out of his house, leaving in the streets, since i was not in my bithtown ( i even slept on a hospital one night :c ) It was a bad time for me, now im so much better.

After I left his house i never spoke to him but he tried to reach me a lot of times, last year he stopped and a few days ago he wrote me.

Here is the chart, i don't know the time of his birth ( sadly i didnt knew astrology in that time) Im the red and he is the Blue, also my SN conjunct one dregree with his sun.

Can you please help me to understand this relationship??? it haunts me

[/IMG]http://imgbox.com/r19SNioa[/IMG]

EDIT:Okay, can anyone tell how to post the chart¿?
EDIT 2: I used imgbox


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SecretGeek
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posted October 16, 2020 04:41 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SecretGeek     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I would resist the temptation and ignore him and any chart that may or may not encourage you to be back together with him.

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Kekerina
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posted October 16, 2020 05:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Kekerina     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by SecretGeek:
I would resist the temptation and ignore him and any chart that may or may not encourage you to be back together with him.

Thanks a lot for asnwering me, and yeah, I didnt reply to him, he was a real trash to me, but i have a lot of curiosity to now what happen in there

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efaki94
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posted October 16, 2020 05:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for efaki94     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I aggre with secretgeek
I'm glad you are not with him anymore
I have a same experience
And I know how you might feel
Leaving your life for one person
And then this person treat you like that.
Just let it be and move on
It doesn't matter anymore.
Hope to find someone who deserve you.

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SecretGeek
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posted October 16, 2020 05:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SecretGeek     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Kekerina:
Thanks a lot for asnwering me, and yeah, I didnt reply to him, he was a real trash to me, but i have a lot of curiosity to now what happen in there

I was able to see the charts you posted before.

Can you get it back the way it was?

Since you seem to be already over him, I don't see how it could hurt.

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SecretGeek
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posted October 16, 2020 05:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SecretGeek     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
http://imgbox.com/r19SNioa

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ChildofVenus
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posted October 16, 2020 05:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ChildofVenus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Are you the libra Moon? It looks like your Moon is in his 8th house I've read that this is a powerful overlay.

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Kekerina
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posted October 16, 2020 05:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Kekerina     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
yes im the Libra moon, Its so weird to me this relationship in general beacause I cant see a good synastry or anything like that, seems pretty boring to me, but I dont know, the only thing my SN conjuncts his sun in one degre, thats the only thing

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anska5
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posted October 16, 2020 05:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for anska5     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
Are you the libra Moon? It looks like your Moon is in his 8th house I've read that this is a powerful overlay.

She stated that she does not know his birth time so there is no way of knowing which of his houses her moon falls into...

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efaki94
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posted October 16, 2020 07:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for efaki94     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by anska5:
She stated that she does not know his birth time so there is no way of knowing which of his houses her moon falls into...


It's OK
She may just confused the charts
Because there is a natal 8th house moon there.

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efaki94
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posted October 16, 2020 07:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for efaki94     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by efaki94:


It's OK
She may just confused the charts
Because there is a natal 8th house moon there.


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Graham
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posted October 17, 2020 02:09 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Graham     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Originally posted by Kekerina :-

quote:
Can you please help me to understand this relationship???

Forget this past relationship ... It's purpose was simply to make you seek to understand yourself ... So, focus upon that now.

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vansio
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posted October 17, 2020 02:19 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for vansio     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Kekerina:
Can you please help me to understand this relationship???


http://youtu.be/iaysTVcounI

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Randall
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posted October 23, 2020 10:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Bump!

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Hikaru29
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posted October 26, 2020 03:44 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Hikaru29     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Kekerina:
the only thing my SN conjuncts his sun in one degre, thats the only thing

This is what I read (in vedic) regarding Nodes conjunction to planets. It is better for NN to be conjunct the Sun rather than SN, reason being that NN is where you desire and grow towards so you will identify more and more with the Sun person even though in the beginning you might resist it. SN, on the other hand, can give you instant familiarity with the Sun person but over time you will find him overbearing (maybe too egoistic) so you will identify less and less over time.

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SadalSuud211
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posted October 29, 2020 04:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SadalSuud211     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I see neptune + uranus conjunct while sextiling venus, with uranus in the 12th house, this could have caused a lot of instability and illusions in the relationship; I know sextiles are usually viewed as 'good' but it being connected to this intense conjunction of large outer planets probably overshadowed anything that the sextile was *trying* to do.. It could also represent 'shocking secrets' like when you found he was cheating, maybe that was ticked off by a transit hitting the uranus/neptune or something.. Then I see pluto conjunct MC, meaning its opposite the IC that could be a cause of the intense issues/struggles you experienced while living together. Then the moon is conjunct NN (although wide and out of sign ~7°) so that could indicate that this was relationship was fated to be emotionally taxing or demanding as a catalyst for learning, probably a life lesson having to do with emotions/emotional security etc.. I also see BOTH mars very near to the descendant so that could have brought some volatile energy into your relationship together.. Just my interpretations and I do see some good things like Moon in 4th house, saturn trine venus.. But ultimately Im getting the feel that this relationship was meant to be some kind of karmic lesson for you surrounding emotionality, security, home/family, all things related to the moon etc., and the fact that it was your first boyfriend and probably first time ever living with a romantic partner and losing your family through it all kind of confirms in my mind thats what this relationship/lesson was about.

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