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Topic: WTF is wrong with this dude!?
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Kekerina Knowflake Posts: 76 From: El Tigre,Anzoategui,Venezuela Registered: Jul 2019
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posted October 16, 2020 04:04 PM
OKAY, im gonna say the history from myself and my ExHe was my first boyfriend i give him my virginity and stuff, i moved with him after one month of dating and we last 4 years, i left college to be with him, and I starve in those years several times, I had a pretty rich life before meeting him, them my parents stop to giving money and he never work, we live in his parents house, it was a really toxic, and abusive relationship he didnt even liked to me being with my friends and i stopped to seeing my friends, so i was alone, poor, and in a abusive relationship. Then he dump me for a girl (17 years old), and it was really bad, he was with me and with her at the same time, saying stuff like he will be with me in the future, giving me hope and saying that thing wills be okay, he was really really mean to me, then he kick me out of his house, leaving in the streets, since i was not in my bithtown ( i even slept on a hospital one night :c ) It was a bad time for me, now im so much better. After I left his house i never spoke to him but he tried to reach me a lot of times, last year he stopped and a few days ago he wrote me. Here is the chart, i don't know the time of his birth ( sadly i didnt knew astrology in that time) Im the red and he is the Blue, also my SN conjunct one dregree with his sun. Can you please help me to understand this relationship??? it haunts me [/IMG]http://imgbox.com/r19SNioa[/IMG] EDIT:Okay, can anyone tell how to post the chart¿? EDIT 2: I used imgbox
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SecretGeek Knowflake Posts: 2233 From: Dallas Registered: Nov 2013
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posted October 16, 2020 04:41 PM
I would resist the temptation and ignore him and any chart that may or may not encourage you to be back together with him.IP: Logged |
Kekerina Knowflake Posts: 76 From: El Tigre,Anzoategui,Venezuela Registered: Jul 2019
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posted October 16, 2020 05:00 PM
quote: Originally posted by SecretGeek: I would resist the temptation and ignore him and any chart that may or may not encourage you to be back together with him.
Thanks a lot for asnwering me, and yeah, I didnt reply to him, he was a real trash to me, but i have a lot of curiosity to now what happen in there
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efaki94 Knowflake Posts: 137 From: thessaloniki,greece Registered: Jun 2020
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posted October 16, 2020 05:04 PM
I aggre with secretgeek I'm glad you are not with him anymore I have a same experience And I know how you might feel Leaving your life for one person And then this person treat you like that. Just let it be and move on It doesn't matter anymore. Hope to find someone who deserve you. IP: Logged |
SecretGeek Knowflake Posts: 2233 From: Dallas Registered: Nov 2013
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posted October 16, 2020 05:08 PM
quote: Originally posted by Kekerina: Thanks a lot for asnwering me, and yeah, I didnt reply to him, he was a real trash to me, but i have a lot of curiosity to now what happen in there
I was able to see the charts you posted before. Can you get it back the way it was? Since you seem to be already over him, I don't see how it could hurt. IP: Logged |
SecretGeek Knowflake Posts: 2233 From: Dallas Registered: Nov 2013
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posted October 16, 2020 05:09 PM
http://imgbox.com/r19SNioa IP: Logged |
ChildofVenus Knowflake Posts: 5282 From: Customer Service Rep. Registered: Apr 2015
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posted October 16, 2020 05:13 PM
Are you the libra Moon? It looks like your Moon is in his 8th house I've read that this is a powerful overlay.IP: Logged |
Kekerina Knowflake Posts: 76 From: El Tigre,Anzoategui,Venezuela Registered: Jul 2019
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posted October 16, 2020 05:30 PM
yes im the Libra moon, Its so weird to me this relationship in general beacause I cant see a good synastry or anything like that, seems pretty boring to me, but I dont know, the only thing my SN conjuncts his sun in one degre, thats the only thingIP: Logged |
anska5 Knowflake Posts: 146 From: Registered: Jun 2018
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posted October 16, 2020 05:50 PM
quote: Originally posted by ChildofVenus: Are you the libra Moon? It looks like your Moon is in his 8th house I've read that this is a powerful overlay.
She stated that she does not know his birth time so there is no way of knowing which of his houses her moon falls into... IP: Logged |
efaki94 Knowflake Posts: 137 From: thessaloniki,greece Registered: Jun 2020
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posted October 16, 2020 07:21 PM
quote: Originally posted by anska5: She stated that she does not know his birth time so there is no way of knowing which of his houses her moon falls into...
It's OK She may just confused the charts Because there is a natal 8th house moon there.
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efaki94 Knowflake Posts: 137 From: thessaloniki,greece Registered: Jun 2020
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posted October 16, 2020 07:22 PM
quote: Originally posted by efaki94: It's OK She may just confused the charts Because there is a natal 8th house moon there.
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Graham Knowflake Posts: 1778 From: Registered: Apr 2019
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posted October 17, 2020 02:09 AM
Originally posted by Kekerina :- quote: Can you please help me to understand this relationship???
Forget this past relationship ... It's purpose was simply to make you seek to understand yourself ... So, focus upon that now. IP: Logged |
vansio Knowflake Posts: 1329 From: the outskirts of Delphi Registered: Dec 2017
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posted October 17, 2020 02:19 AM
quote: Originally posted by Kekerina: Can you please help me to understand this relationship???
http://youtu.be/iaysTVcounI IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 133151 From: From a galaxy, far, far away... Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 23, 2020 10:28 PM
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Hikaru29 Knowflake Posts: 2885 From: Asia Registered: Nov 2018
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posted October 26, 2020 03:44 AM
quote: Originally posted by Kekerina: the only thing my SN conjuncts his sun in one degre, thats the only thing
This is what I read (in vedic) regarding Nodes conjunction to planets. It is better for NN to be conjunct the Sun rather than SN, reason being that NN is where you desire and grow towards so you will identify more and more with the Sun person even though in the beginning you might resist it. SN, on the other hand, can give you instant familiarity with the Sun person but over time you will find him overbearing (maybe too egoistic) so you will identify less and less over time.
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SadalSuud211 Knowflake Posts: 133 From: Melbourne, Florida, USA Registered: May 2018
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posted October 29, 2020 04:43 PM
I see neptune + uranus conjunct while sextiling venus, with uranus in the 12th house, this could have caused a lot of instability and illusions in the relationship; I know sextiles are usually viewed as 'good' but it being connected to this intense conjunction of large outer planets probably overshadowed anything that the sextile was *trying* to do.. It could also represent 'shocking secrets' like when you found he was cheating, maybe that was ticked off by a transit hitting the uranus/neptune or something.. Then I see pluto conjunct MC, meaning its opposite the IC that could be a cause of the intense issues/struggles you experienced while living together. Then the moon is conjunct NN (although wide and out of sign ~7°) so that could indicate that this was relationship was fated to be emotionally taxing or demanding as a catalyst for learning, probably a life lesson having to do with emotions/emotional security etc.. I also see BOTH mars very near to the descendant so that could have brought some volatile energy into your relationship together.. Just my interpretations and I do see some good things like Moon in 4th house, saturn trine venus.. But ultimately Im getting the feel that this relationship was meant to be some kind of karmic lesson for you surrounding emotionality, security, home/family, all things related to the moon etc., and the fact that it was your first boyfriend and probably first time ever living with a romantic partner and losing your family through it all kind of confirms in my mind thats what this relationship/lesson was about.IP: Logged |