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posted October 16, 2020 05:46 PM            

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https://i.postimg.cc/Rh5LJ3X7/C0-C5-A985-67-B1-451-B-A755-8863-D2726-AEA.png

First date on Sunday, I’m feeling rather nervous...Please tell me my search for love is finally over! Hehe

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posted October 17, 2020 10:01 AM            

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there will be a lot of sexual attraction and energy and passion, captivating. however you might encounter issues of control within this relationship. one person (saturn) wanting to place limits on the other (south node)....

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posted October 18, 2020 01:31 AM            

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Hey! If you want the chart to show up - you have to delete the "s" in "https".. in the link you used.

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posted October 18, 2020 01:34 AM            

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You are both earth signs and have that nice Gemini connection between his Moon and your Venus/Mercury, plus Mercury conj Uranus... I'm pretty positive that the date will go well! You are definitely not a pair to bore each other, so you'll have lots to talk about and have a similar sense of humour.

Definitely a keeper!

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posted October 18, 2020 01:20 PM            

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Thanks!

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posted October 27, 2020 06:35 PM            

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Bumping myself as rescheduled our date for this weekend and getting good feelings about this one..🤞🏻

Does our synastry look promising?

Thanks in advance!
Lisa

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posted October 28, 2020 11:35 AM            

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Like what the others said, I think you can easily feel comfortable with this guy and have nice conversations. Moon trine Moon both in 5H (if his birth time is correct), Moon conjunct Venus/Mercury, Sun trine Sun/Venus.... As this is first date, I don't wanna read too much into it.

Good luck!

EDIT: I saw your Composite in the other thread and noticed those Neptune squares, so just make sure you don't put him on a pedestal because in that other thread you said "he ticks all the boxes for what I’m looking for in a man". This statement itself is not real already (haha) so just be cautious there. *wink*

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posted October 28, 2020 06:03 PM            

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Thanks Hikaru,

Yes those pesky squares in our composite are concerning... apart from those I see only positive in our synastry and composite, baring those Neptune squares the composite has some excellent things going on... and the synastry is the best I’ve had with someone in a long time.
But I shall be Wary of things not planning out quite how I wanted them to and rose tinted glasses, hopefully a good composite and synastry will outweigh those 3 Neptune squares 🤷🏻‍♀️ Still haven’t met him yet. But feel we will hit it off !

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posted October 28, 2020 06:03 PM            

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Thanks Hikaru,

Yes those pesky squares in our composite are concerning... apart from those I see only positive in our synastry and composite, baring those Neptune squares the composite has some excellent things going on... and the synastry is the best I’ve had with someone in a long time.
But I shall be Wary of things not planning out quite how I wanted them to and rose tinted glasses, hopefully a good composite and synastry will outweigh those 3 Neptune squares 🤷🏻‍♀️ Still haven’t met him yet. But feel we will hit it off !

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posted October 28, 2020 06:05 PM            

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Hikaru yes his birth time is correct!
Would love for you to dig a little deeper if our date goes well. Getting too old for all this dating and want to not waste anymore time trying to establish a relationship with someone who isn’t suited!

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posted October 29, 2020 03:13 AM            

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Both charts have intercepted signs and duplicated house cusps ... and those will significantly affect the inter-actions between you and him, abfa.

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posted October 29, 2020 03:50 AM            

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There are only 10 synastry aspects that (imo) are close enough to have a significant influence in this relationship. ... These are :-

1) Your Sun trine his Venus.
2) Your Moon trine his Moon.
3) Your Moon square his Mercury.
4) Your Mercury conjunct his Moon.
5) Your Venus conjunct his Moon.

6) Your Mars square his North Node.
7) Your Uranus conjunct his Mercury.
8) Your Uranus sextile his Mc.
9) Your Neptune square his North Node.
10 Your Ascendant trine his North Node.

The first 5 are inner-to-inner contacts, so will manifest as personality clashes (or affinities) ... which are unlikely to affect the duration of the relationship, but will be a strong influence in your initial attraction to each other.

The second 5 are outer-to-inner planet contacts, and (unless confronted/handled correctly) the squares + conjunction are likely to eventually result in a breakdown of the relationship (although you may still be together physically).

Initially though, those soft inner-to-inner planet aspects (and the excitement generated by any Uranus contacts) are what is giving the two of you the "tingling feeling" of a new romantic relationship.

[Note for information : You are looking at the wrong thing here, since the synastry is meaningless without having first obtained a detailed understanding of him/his natal chart. ... For example, in the synastry, your Uranus activates his Mercury - via what appears to be a no-problem conjunction. However, the midpoint of his natal Mercury and its ruler (Saturn) is in an exact square with his natal Mars + a close qcx with natal Moon and a close opposition to natal Chiron. ... Hence, when your Uranus stimulates his Mercury, that (difficult) configuration is also activated - so I'd advise you to at least explore how that configuration is likely to manifest in him (as instinctive/habitual behaviour traits, which he will be bringing into any/all of his relationships).]

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