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littlelune
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posted October 21, 2020 04:37 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for littlelune     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
From the moment I first laid eyes on this man I've been on fire He has invaded my thoughts and dreams regularly. I have never pined so intensely for any other the way I do for him.

The energy exchange between us is exciting, playfully aggressive, with flirty/sexual overtones that I could tell we BOTH had to consciously keep in check. He has been in a relationship the entire time I've known him, so of course nothing has come of this. I've tried dating other men since meeting him, and I always end up losing interest I think because I crave the chemistry him and I naturally have. It's like a drug...

Any thoughts on how our synastry reflects this? (I don't know his birth time so I'm not sure if we actually have a Moon conjunct Mars DW)

(I am the inner circle, btw )

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posted October 21, 2020 04:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for efaki94     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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littlelune
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posted October 21, 2020 05:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for littlelune     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Okay, thank you lol hopefully it's working now...

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anska5
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posted October 21, 2020 05:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for anska5     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Are you the person inside or outside? Moon - mars probably plays a large part. The 2 biggest and, as you call it, unrelenting attractions I've ever felt for men had both moon-mars in synastry. In one case I was the moon (conjunct his mars) and the attraction seemed quite primal and mutual.In the other case I was mars (opposite his moon).

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posted October 21, 2020 06:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for littlelune     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Did anything worthwhile ever come of those attractions for you?

I'm the one inside, my Aries Moon conjunct his Aries Mars. We also have my Capricorn Mars conjunct his Capricorn Moon at a wide orb (6 degrees) though I don't know his birth time so I have no idea how accurate that is. Primal is a good way to describe. I wish I could count the times I caught him gazing very intently at me from across the building (we were coworkers), and how often his full attention was grabbed by me just walking by him, even when his area was very busy. It seemed obvious that he almost couldn't help himself, much like myself lol

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todd
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posted October 21, 2020 07:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for todd     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

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todd
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posted October 21, 2020 07:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for todd     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi little line
Iooked at the composite.since you have one known birth time we can also use the moon though the angles will be useless.

You guys definitely have a sizzling chemistry.before I go into it I have to play the Grinch. It is too not to handle a d will only be an intense affair for reasons I will discuss.
But WOW .
The Venus/Uranus and Venus/ mercury midpoints square the node and moon hives immediate, intense electric,sexual,emotional,psychic,me two,astral attraction .eris is square to the sub and opposes juno which adds unbearable lust that shows you were thinking wedding bells from the get go.
The mercury/Uranus conjunction is square to lilith which accentuates the vivid/astral dreams between you.
Pallas conjunct to Eros sextiles to Saturn/Neptune also likely make you feel he is the One.
Jupiter is trine to Juno and the midpoint is on the cusp of the descendant ,another aspect of marriage.

The major concern here is the sun/Saturn/Neptune stellium opposed to Chiron.
.this is a complex and difficult aspect.
Just as the chart so much exuberance, the sun/Saturn conjunction gives a despondency and Chiron adds a very critical controing nature.
When there are such deeply opposite impulses in a composite,the relationship can be bipolar.that is very good but then very bad emotionally.
The attraction is so far off the chart that a "real" relationship can't usually sustain the initial intensity.and when the intensity begins to fade....
Also Neptune with Saturn can also indicate immoderate alcohol or other substances use.if this is true,then any type of commitment is in jeopardy.
Paradoxicay if there wasn't so much electricity the chart would be more favorable for a long term hookup.

it is just so difficult to put magic in a bottle.

If you both are in creative jobs or if you are from different cultures or beliefs,the relationship might be more stable.

The last concern is that Saturn/Neptune can show business insincerity or deception.

But it is what it is.super hot and psychic so fasten your belt and hang on.

todd

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posted October 21, 2020 10:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Sinder     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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littlelune
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posted October 22, 2020 12:42 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for littlelune     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you so much for the insights Todd.

Yes the attraction is so intense that sometimes it's scary. It's funny because the initial reaction I had the first time I saw him was "that's my person" and then forgot everything else around me and stood there like a buffoon for a moment. So it was definitely immediate lol.

I certainly feel a strong psychic/intuitive connection. One thing is how aware I am to his physical energy. I could actually sense when he was around, like if he wasn't at work I could FEEL the lack of his energy and honestly that spooks me out lol. Is that represented with Mercury/Uranus square to Lilith or is there any other indications in the composite of that?

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posted October 22, 2020 06:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for todd     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by littlelune:
Thank you so much for the insights Todd.

Yes the attraction is so intense that sometimes it's scary. It's funny because the initial reaction I had the first time I saw him was "that's my person" and then forgot everything else around me and stood there like a buffoon for a moment. So it was definitely immediate lol.

I certainly feel a strong psychic/intuitive connection. One thing is how aware I am to his physical energy. I could actually sense when he was around, like if he wasn't at work I could FEEL the lack of his energy and honestly that spooks me out lol. Is that represented with Mercury/Uranus square to Lilith or is there any other indications in the composite of that?


That feeling his presence is mostly the Venus/Uranus and Venus/mercury midpoint square the node.though mercury/Uranus square Lilith does add electricity ,this emotional/sexual attractions is mainly the node

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posted October 26, 2020 09:54 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Sinder     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by todd:
That feeling his presence is mostly the Venus/Uranus and Venus/mercury midpoint square the node.though mercury/Uranus square Lilith does add electricity ,this emotional/sexual attractions is mainly the node


Hello Todd!
What would you think of a composite where Moon Venus Midpoint hits the sun
And Venus Mars Midpoint exact Squares the Vertex and Juno.. and Conjunct the Vesta..

Also the venus Uranus midpoint you talked about..
Conjunct s the composite sun by 2.5 degree and Jupiter by a degree..

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littlelune
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posted October 31, 2020 11:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for littlelune     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
As fate would have it, our time together has finally arrived. I'm ready for whatever it brings. Wish me luck

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anska5
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posted November 01, 2020 10:16 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for anska5     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
@littlelune

That's wonderful, congratulations and so good to hear how despite these very strange socially distanced corona times we live in, it sounds like you and your love have managed to find each other. All the very best to you!

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