posted November 11, 2020 05:58 PM            

The first chart looks like more fun but is much more unstable than the second one.
With uranus/Venus square the moon and vertex,the first chart is extremely hot,karmic and electric.
But this intensity can't be put in
a bottle and a "normal" realistic relationship can't form i.e. long term.
In addition the mercury/Saturn midpoint is conjunct to Venus/Uranus which adds a very disingenuous streak in him.nothing said in passion will prove true.
Juno is conjunct to the south node which gives a strong pull toward marriage and Jupiter is square to the sun which can add to this impulse,but with the midpoint conjunct to Neptune,again,it looks like he will say what you want to hear but....

The second chart also has a karmic feel to it but it is not so rooted in electric/sexual/emotional attraction.
The grand trine of the node,Jupiter at MC, Venus bodes very nicely with a long-term hookup.and the midpoint of the spontaneous affection of the moon/Venus square is opposed to Juno which false favors a serious relationship.
The sun/pert of fortune square the node certainly points to a favorable union.

The wild card is the vertex on the DSC and opposed to Lilith.this,though,karmic,is very difficult to anticipate if the influence is positive or negative in the long run.
But of the 2 ,the second seems more likely to form into a long-term relationship.
todd

posted November 12, 2020 06:25 AM            

So do both of these people know you are posting the composite chart that includes their natals as a means to compare them? Do they know they are, more or less competing for your affections? Quite frankly I'd be p***ed if my information was involved in a post like this, fyi. I think a lot of people would be p***ed and/or hurt.

I am either someone's first choice or NO choice, I'm NOT going to be someone's second or "other choice". Not surprisingly a lot of people would feel the same.

Hope they both know they are not the only ones. Have you been honest with them? That you are considering and/or dating other people? Because if not, that (dishonesty) is a pretty crummy way to start a relationship and eventually the one you choose will likely find out and be mad you weren't more forthcoming at the start.

posted November 12, 2020 07:02 AM            

But to quickly address your concerns, because I also care considerably about trust and respect - I am not romantically involved with any of these people, YET, and no one is competing for anything. I am pooling astrological insight to try and gage them with what I observe in the evolving dynamics in real life.

posted November 12, 2020 08:37 AM            

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Originally posted by Travelman:
No projection what so ever, and oddly defensive, I must say.

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Nothing odd about it - you questioned my position and intention, I defended it. There is no aspect to what I shared above that is more revelatory than your average astrology query in terms of privacy, if anything, much of it is blocked. If you have nothing else to clarify, I consider the matter resolved and go back to my initial query.

posted November 12, 2020 01:04 PM            

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Originally posted by todd:
Hi HieronymusTush

The first chart looks like more fun but is much more unstable than the second one.
With uranus/Venus square the moon and vertex,the first chart is extremely hot,karmic and electric.

The second chart also has a karmic feel to it but it is not so rooted in electric/sexual/emotional attraction.
The grand trine of the node,Jupiter at MC, Venus bodes very nicely with a long-term hookup.and the midpoint of the spontaneous affection of the moon/Venus square is opposed to Juno which false favors a serious relationship.

But of the 2 ,the second seems more likely to form into a long-term relationship.
todd

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Todd, thank you so much! It's so interesting, I would presume the exact opposite as the first dynamic is much more rooted in the real world, a real merging of long term aspirations in real life, and true matching of tastes/goals. They just live in another country, which is the whole problem in itself.

The second one is of a working relationship of eight plus years where there is some sort of tension. They are possibly one of my favorite people to work and create with. I am hesitant to sully this wonderfully productive and loving friendship with something more.