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AriesLilith
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posted November 15, 2020 04:15 AM

Hi todd, there is a composite that I’d like to have your help to see the major dynamics between the lovers. Their “relationship” ended more than a decade ago, it was intense that even if the time span was short, feelings and hurt lasted for years.

This is not my relationship, it was between my current partner and his past love. However, I’ve noticed some patterns (Nessus, Saturn/Pluto) in their composite as well as ours and I get the feeling that we came together to deal with some of these together.
These patterns keep appearing in the composites I’ve encountered, and I want to understand why are they stll appearing.
In my natal chart, I have Saturn/Pluto mp square Nessus. With my ex husband, we had that in our composite and after a decade and half, he expresses this energy with resentment towards me as I walked away.
My current partner’s natal chart has Saturn/Pluto mp square AC and Pluto/Lust on MC square Nessus. And our composite has Saturn/Pluto mp and Nessus patterns too.

It would help me a lot if I can understand these patterns, including my partner’s, so that I can learn and break this pattern.

Can you help me with this composite please? Thank you!

For reference, me and my current partner’s composite: http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum35/HTML/010426.html

My partner and his past love’s chart (her birth time unknown):

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todd
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posted November 15, 2020 08:44 PM

I'm not sure I can give insights to your current situation from his previous relationship.

But the composite showing has Saturn conjunct to node and square to Neptune.off the top ,this is very complicated and there was a under lying lack of clarity.there likely were substance abuse issues.
Nessus square Pluto givesca undeying coldness and control issues.
The sexual attraction seems to be the unifying element as the emotional attraction was non conditional as Venus was square to lith andudt.
There could have been a racial or cultural difference.Eros/psyche is conjunct to Neptune which increase the sexual chemistry but adds a element of control,as if love and sex for him depended on her subservience.

Off the GOP nessus/Pluto relationships are usually conditional.emotional intimacy is connect to support and guardianship.that is one provides gluten val strength and the other emotional supports.
The mars sextiles Venus midpoint conjunct to mercury and Juno does give sincere love and affections along with sense of commitment.

Still eris is opposed to Pluto and square to nessus,so the light love expressed still had a controlling g element.I would not be surprised if the so.an was quite s bit you get than the man.hi
Power and wealth deems to be part of the mix.it might be her heritage involved money.his also but he seemed to be more striving for wealth.it could be lost fortune
There does seem to be a conscious compatibility and love,but underneath there was ambition and control issues.

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