posted November 18, 2020 06:23 PM            

1) With this man I had a significant long relationship that ended because of external causes (if you care for the whole story, it's here http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum35/HTML/009915.html )
BUT I forgot to add that he contacts me regularly and made clear that he'd like to rekindle this romance

this is our synastry http://imgur.com/i2f7dK9
and our composite http://imgur.com/XX1yF4R

2) This man came right after him and we rushed headlong (as I always do) in a relationship that still continues. This synastry is so much better in my eyes, nonetheless I can't really pinpoint the reason mr. 1) is so compelling to me after all this time and as I said up here this feeling is reciprocated, so I hope astrology helps me out.

synastry: http://imgur.com/a/51RZQRD
composite: http://imgur.com/a/fRMIlny

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My natal chart with asteroids http://i.imgur.com/1IG2Im4.png

and without asteroids http://i.imgur.com/Tl0L7oL.png

posted November 18, 2020 07:18 PM            

Venus in Cancer in the seventh house is quite beautiful to have in a relationship and I also see married couples with this particular aspect you have as well.

What I am concerned about though is your composite sun in the seventh receiving opposition from a malefic planet and in this case it's uranus. Both of these planets are square your composite IC. Transit chiron is also right on your composite IC. I wonder how that is playing out between the two of you? Please elaborate on that because chiron sucks in transit and I never really had a great experience with transit chiron aspecting such a personal angle in the composite myself.

Mars conjunct the north node is wonderful to see in a composite because it really shows that the two of you feel there is unfinished business to work on this lifetime. In this case it's mars in aquarium issues that have to be dealt with between you to. Hmmmm transit Jupiter and Saturn will aspect this next year so keep and eye on that.

You should also check out the progressed composite as well to evaluate the upcoming and current trends of your relationship right now and to see what you should be aware of on what's about to come up next.

Nonetheless your composite is great! I'm sure there's a reason for your sun aspect uranus

I'm guessing that the two of you have a special eccentric connection that possibly people Outside of your circle don't quite understand maybe or perhaps this could be a long distance relationship or one of you has kids or perhaps one of you travels often for work or to visit family.

I also see here Moon T square Pluto and Juno.... I feel that this could manifest as projected fears that are brought up due to family or childhood issues that need to be healed still between either one of you.

I've had Moon Square Pluto in the composite before and that's how I've dealt with it. The bond also felt veeeeery strong for me. I wouldn't be surprised if you feel that too.

As for the synastry wow I love that your moon in Taurus is conjunct his sun and venus! This is great! No wonder why you guys feel strong and loyal with each other. I can see that he really enjoys your company and so do you! The attraction and familiarity is strong between you two.

posted November 19, 2020 10:19 AM            

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Originally posted by angel4845:
Transit chiron is also right on your composite IC. I wonder how that is playing out between the two of you? Please elaborate on that because chiron sucks in transit and I never really had a great experience with transit chiron aspecting such a personal angle in the composite myself.

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This sucks I agree!it's a couple weeks I'm all mad at him for very minor things, but the underlying issue is that I'd like our relationship to step forward towards major steps that I know are not possible at the moment, nonetheless I'm gutted and take it out on him.

Nonetheless your composite is great! I'm sure there's a reason for your sun aspect uranus

I'm guessing that the two of you have a special eccentric connection that possibly people Outside of your circle don't quite understand maybe or perhaps this could be a long distance relationship or one of you has kids or perhaps one of you travels often for work or to visit family.

I also see here Moon T square Pluto and Juno.... I feel that this could manifest as projected fears that are brought up due to family or childhood issues that need to be healed still between either one of you.

I've had Moon Square Pluto in the composite before and that's how I've dealt with it. The bond also felt veeeeery strong for me. I wouldn't be surprised if you feel that too.

As for the synastry wow I love that your moon in Taurus is conjunct his sun and venus! This is great! No wonder why you guys feel strong and loyal with each other. I can see that he really enjoys your company and so do you! The attraction and familiarity is strong between you two.

I love moon conjunct sun venue aspects there one of my favorites! You just feel super comfortable and at home with them. It just feels so natural. I get it! Moon opposite moon I've had this myself and man I honestly think it's super complimentary! [/QUOTE]

posted November 19, 2020 11:29 AM            

I mostly agree with what angel said so I won't repeat those same observations.

posted November 19, 2020 08:29 PM            

Aww I'm glad that most of my reading resonated with you. That's interesting that you say your relationship was more exciting with Mr. 1. I need to check your synastry and composite with Mr. 1 guy. So you're saying that this dude is not fulfilling your desire needs? I get that as you mentioned Venus square Uranus. Do you want an open relationship? Is that what you mean? Because I can see an open relationship crossing your mind as your Venus Squares your Uranus.

posted November 19, 2020 09:54 PM            

As I look into the synastry chart, one of the things I notice is that your mars and his are sextile! I looooove when mars are in a nice aspect to the other guy's mars. Sexual compatibility is suuuuuper likely, in my experience. lol.

Venus trine Venus I love venus aspects to one another because it shows common interests between two people in love.

He has Mars Conjunct Saturn in Scorpio so this could be why you two are attracted to one another since your Mars is in Capricorn ruler of Saturn. There is a common mars theme in similarity here.

I've dated a mars opposite Saturn guy and he had HUGE problems with authority because he had anger problems which led to addiction (Saturn in Pisces in the 8th). Don't know if yours is the same way with the conjunction in scorpio? I know the aspect is not the same but I wonder if mars conjunct Saturn Scorpio men also dealt with issues on learning how to control one's anger and aggression. Hot-tempered, manipulative, or passive-aggressiveness but if the person is mentally healthy I would say they are GREAT protectors of their loved ones with MARS/SATURN aspect.

Your Moon squares his Sun in Aquarius that's an attractive aspect as well. Your moon is also conjunct his Juno as well as his Juno conjunct your fifth house cusp.

Mercury opposing your sun tells me that you two communicated a lot and at first it felt very electric however I wanna say that overtime the tension could've displayed itself over time.

His moon is also conjunct your SUN/MOON MP not sure if it's exact but I can see why this connection was super strong especially since his. moon overlayed your seventh house. How do you feel his Moon in Cancer in your seventh? I wanna say that this aspect made you connect with your cancer seventh house personality especially since the moon which is the natural ruler of cancer is prominently sitting in your seventh and sun/moon MP. I can see why you felt strong with this overlay and aspect. Usually, when someone puts their planet in my seventh, the personality of the seventh house sign comes out more out of me.

I can see why it was LDR though because the composite MARS/URANUS in SAG right on the MC is square your MC. I have been in LDR's before and URANUS is always square the ASC in my experience. VENUS CONJUNCT SATURN in Scorpio is a true bond right there. It feels stuck to be with the person but that square to Juno kind of sucks just being honest... I hate to see composite Juno in the 12th house square venus/saturn. I personally did not have a good experience with this myself.

I love the Sun conjunct north node you have and the VENUS conjunct the South node is magnificent here. It feels familiar and electric with the person.

Mercury opposite plutos I can totally see how your family attempted to blackmail because the 4th ruler which is home/family is ruled by Mercury/Gemini.

Moon conjunct Chiron I had a friend who had this with her boyfriend but it was in Leo. She said she felt really insecure in the relationship and her bf never made her feel confident about herself.

Composite vertex on the DESC that's a great one too!! I see so many aspects I can go on and on and on.

Tell me your thoughts!!