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Topic: Huge age gap don't know if to wait?
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Timesailor
Newflake Posts: 4
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Registered: Nov 2020
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posted November 20, 2020 02:43 PM
  
Hi I'm new to this so if anyone can help shed some light on the situation would be appreciated.
Basically, have the most insane chemistry and magnetism with a teenager 20 years younger than me. No need to judge me, I'm not desperate or going to act on anything. I'm happy in life, I've been with a lot of women and met a lot of people. I've never experienced anything on this level before...I didn't want this to happen but she's clearly in love with me.
I've had a look at some of the issues and it seems to me that because I've evolved and older they wouldn't be such a problem in this hypothetical relationship.
I can wait 5 years for her to gain more life experience, or are the charts saying it's not as good as I think and let it go? Thanks
http://i.ibb.co/2FkyFBj/20201118-192251.jpg
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efaki94
Knowflake Posts: 158
From: thessaloniki,greece
Registered: Jun 2020
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posted November 20, 2020 02:48 PM
Timesailor welcome to forum
Try to post the synastry chart so to see the houses and all the aspects
And the composite too.
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Timesailor
Newflake Posts: 4
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Registered: Nov 2020
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posted November 20, 2020 02:59 PM
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Originally posted by efaki94:
Timesailor welcome to forum
Try to post the synastry chart so to see the houses and all the aspects
And the composite too.
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Thanks. Think this is the right one along with the two above?
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athenaia
Knowflake Posts: 1591
From: USA
Registered: May 2015
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posted November 20, 2020 03:19 PM
From what I can surmise, this girl is either 15 or 16 years old. I think that there is something really unethical in speculating about a romantic relationship with this person being that you're over the age of 30. I'm not trying to play the astrological police or anything. I've been involved in many age gap relationships myself (mind you, when I was 21 years old and older). The biggest age gap relationship I was in was a 3 year relationship in which the other party was 31 years older than me. It was a great experience and I'm not anti-age gap at all. But this is an unethical question. You know this. There's no way we can get a read on her energy until she's older anyway. So much about her psychology is in flux right now. When she's 18 maybe you can post this again if you still feel compelled to. IP: Logged |
efaki94
Knowflake Posts: 158
From: thessaloniki,greece
Registered: Jun 2020
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posted November 20, 2020 03:20 PM
sorry i just show that the second link works
already
just try to post the composite chartIP: Logged |
teasel
Knowflake Posts: 16440
From: http://forum.astro.com/cgi/forum.cgi?action=viewprofile;username=u36170365
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 20, 2020 03:33 PM
Definitely wait. It’s your responsibility to not take things further. IP: Logged |
Timesailor
Newflake Posts: 4
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Registered: Nov 2020
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posted November 20, 2020 03:33 PM
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Originally posted by athenaia:
From what I can surmise, this girl is either 15 or 16 years old. I think that there is something really unethical in speculating about a romantic relationship with this person being that you're over the age of 30. I'm not trying to play the astrological police or anything. I've been involved in many age gap relationships myself (mind you, when I was 21 years old and older). The biggest age gap relationship I was in was a 3 year relationship in which the other party was 31 years older than me. It was a great experience and I'm not anti-age gap at all. But this is an unethical question. You know this. There's no way we can get a read on her energy until she's older anyway. So much about her psychology is in flux right now. When she's 18 maybe you can post this again if you still feel compelled to.
yeah absolutely and okay that's fine. I don't see it as unethical speculating though. I'm not attracted to younger girls like that, and I know of many 16 years olds who have healthily dated people much older. But thanks anyway it's obviously not the right time IP: Logged |
Travelman
Knowflake Posts: 215
From: world
Registered: Mar 2011
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posted November 20, 2020 03:38 PM
15?https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC_z833aw6yvHJ9QxGpphY3w IP: Logged |
Timesailor
Newflake Posts: 4
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Registered: Nov 2020
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posted November 20, 2020 03:49 PM
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Originally posted by Travelman:
15?https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC_z833aw6yvHJ9QxGpphY3w
not 15 and not relevant . Thanks though haha IP: Logged |
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