posted November 29, 2020 10:06 PM            

a year ago i made a post on here about needing help cause i was stuck on someone. i posted the composite and synastry and an explanation was given to me

well, im dating a different person now. yet this particular person is still on my mind

we have sun trine pluto and mars-pluto. thats it. but its not obssesive synastry like moon and venus-pluto

in fact i have moon and venus AND sun-pluto with the person im currently with and i dont even feel deeply for them. even with my mars exactly conjunct their venus. still, nothing. and i should be right? all those intense contacts

so what could be causing this? i have a scoprio venus if that counts, in the 8th house. so maybe im just being a scorpio venus. stuck on someone. but uranus squares my venus so indifference starts to hit me after a while, and keeps me from being obsessive

keep in mind i dont check their instagram, or twitter, or etc. i dont stalk them, or anyone. it makes me feel inferior

they're just in my head day in and day out. you can imagine how this affects my current relationship

so back to my original question. what could be causing this?

are there any asteroids in astrology that could indicate something like this taking place for me? any planetary placements? transits? synastry, composite, natal, it doesn't matter

i was told last time it was our 12th house composite love stellium making trines to saturn. and that since we had a moon-venus conjunction, their venus on my ascendant, their moon on my ascendant, their moon conjunct mine, that i was just yearning.

true!

but this has lasted too long. this is not my usual pattern of liking someone, which is short and intense

and usually if you're not seeing or interacting with someone you should eventually forget them but i just cant. any help would be appreciated,

thank you

posted November 29, 2020 11:17 PM            

composite:
http://imgur.com/a/9h3bayC

posted November 30, 2020 12:01 AM            

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Originally posted by LaceyLeigh:
Do you have the synastry/composite between you and the new person?

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me and new persons composite: http://imgur.com/a/3EqLXRW

posted November 30, 2020 12:34 AM            

With the first person you have a Mars/Mercury double whammy which I hate to see in synastry because it usually leads to constant fighting over a period of time.

posted November 30, 2020 01:10 AM            

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Originally posted by LaceyLeigh:
I like the synastry and the composite between you and the new person. I think that your inconjunct moons might have you feeling a bit out of sun with them during certain times. Especially as a Pisces moon. It could also be their Saturn opposite your sun putting up a wall between the two of you.

With the first person you have a Mars/Mercury double whammy which I hate to see in synastry because it usually leads to constant fighting over a period of time.

I would say that the IC/DC conjunction with the first person might also be a reason for why you can’t let go easy.

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what significance does an IC/DC conjunction have if you dont mind?

thank you for looking at me and the new persons synastry and composite

yeah the inconjunct moons are a thing im still getting used to. i went from having conjunct moons with the other person to inconjuncts and i dont really like it. i think i prefer water and earth moons to fire moons lol

the saturn opposition does stifle my personality a little. my new person even said that they noticed how much more freer i am with others outside the relationship. idk i come around them and since they're also 3 years older than me, i feel like i cant be as youthful and playful or truly express myself (or else they take offense)

eventho the other person and i had a mars-mercury double whammy, cause of our conjunct moons and my mercury and mars trining their mercury and mars we could come to a resolution

it was like: "hey, i understand what you're saying and how you think, and we have the similar motives but hear me out"

in fact we rarely fought in person, and if we did fight it was due to misunderstanding of tone via text

thank you once again for your insight <3

posted December 01, 2020 01:20 AM            

Thanks for looking at the charts

I guess there’s nothing else I can do but continue to live with these feelings until they reside, considering the connections