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thatonegirllol
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posted November 29, 2020 10:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for thatonegirllol     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
hello

a year ago i made a post on here about needing help cause i was stuck on someone. i posted the composite and synastry and an explanation was given to me


well, im dating a different person now. yet this particular person is still on my mind


we have sun trine pluto and mars-pluto. thats it. but its not obssesive synastry like moon and venus-pluto


in fact i have moon and venus AND sun-pluto with the person im currently with and i dont even feel deeply for them. even with my mars exactly conjunct their venus. still, nothing. and i should be right? all those intense contacts


so what could be causing this? i have a scoprio venus if that counts, in the 8th house. so maybe im just being a scorpio venus. stuck on someone. but uranus squares my venus so indifference starts to hit me after a while, and keeps me from being obsessive

keep in mind i dont check their instagram, or twitter, or etc. i dont stalk them, or anyone. it makes me feel inferior

they're just in my head day in and day out. you can imagine how this affects my current relationship


so back to my original question. what could be causing this?

are there any asteroids in astrology that could indicate something like this taking place for me? any planetary placements? transits? synastry, composite, natal, it doesn't matter


i was told last time it was our 12th house composite love stellium making trines to saturn. and that since we had a moon-venus conjunction, their venus on my ascendant, their moon on my ascendant, their moon conjunct mine, that i was just yearning.

true!

but this has lasted too long. this is not my usual pattern of liking someone, which is short and intense

and usually if you're not seeing or interacting with someone you should eventually forget them but i just cant. any help would be appreciated,

thank you

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LaceyLeigh
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posted November 29, 2020 10:55 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LaceyLeigh     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Could you please post the original post?

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LaceyLeigh
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posted November 29, 2020 10:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LaceyLeigh     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Or the synastry/composite in this thread?

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thatonegirllol
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posted November 29, 2020 11:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for thatonegirllol     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
synastry: http://imgur.com/a/M5UhRGw

composite:
http://imgur.com/a/9h3bayC

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LaceyLeigh
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posted November 29, 2020 11:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LaceyLeigh     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Do you have the synastry/composite between you and the new person?

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LaceyLeigh
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posted November 29, 2020 11:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LaceyLeigh     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I agree that the love stellium in the composite is powerful.. your Pluto also makes a tribe and a wide conjunction to this persons ascendant which is also a very powerful aspect to have in synastry.

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thatonegirllol
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posted November 30, 2020 12:01 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for thatonegirllol     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by LaceyLeigh:
Do you have the synastry/composite between you and the new person?

me and new persons composite: http://imgur.com/a/3EqLXRW

me and new persons synastry: http://imgur.com/a/myrKU7m

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LaceyLeigh
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posted November 30, 2020 12:34 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LaceyLeigh     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I like the synastry and the composite between you and the new person. I think that your inconjunct moons might have you feeling a bit out of sun with them during certain times. Especially as a Pisces moon. It could also be their Saturn opposite your sun putting up a wall between the two of you.

With the first person you have a Mars/Mercury double whammy which I hate to see in synastry because it usually leads to constant fighting over a period of time.

I would say that the IC/DC conjunction with the first person might also be a reason for why you canít let go easy.

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thatonegirllol
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posted November 30, 2020 01:10 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for thatonegirllol     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by LaceyLeigh:
I like the synastry and the composite between you and the new person. I think that your inconjunct moons might have you feeling a bit out of sun with them during certain times. Especially as a Pisces moon. It could also be their Saturn opposite your sun putting up a wall between the two of you.

With the first person you have a Mars/Mercury double whammy which I hate to see in synastry because it usually leads to constant fighting over a period of time.

I would say that the IC/DC conjunction with the first person might also be a reason for why you canít let go easy.



what significance does an IC/DC conjunction have if you dont mind?


thank you for looking at me and the new persons synastry and composite


yeah the inconjunct moons are a thing im still getting used to. i went from having conjunct moons with the other person to inconjuncts and i dont really like it. i think i prefer water and earth moons to fire moons lol


the saturn opposition does stifle my personality a little. my new person even said that they noticed how much more freer i am with others outside the relationship. idk i come around them and since they're also 3 years older than me, i feel like i cant be as youthful and playful or truly express myself (or else they take offense)


eventho the other person and i had a mars-mercury double whammy, cause of our conjunct moons and my mercury and mars trining their mercury and mars we could come to a resolution

it was like: "hey, i understand what you're saying and how you think, and we have the similar motives but hear me out"


in fact we rarely fought in person, and if we did fight it was due to misunderstanding of tone via text


thank you once again for your insight <3

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posted November 30, 2020 06:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Stoika7     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think you're stuck to this mainly cause of a few composite aspects: Sun/Mercury/Lilith and Eros/Venus/South Node in 12th house, the Chiron/Pluto conjunction, South Node conjunct Venus and the Moon/Jupiter midpoint square to the Nodes.
The twleve house planets might show on its own a karmic unsolved bond, with Lilith involved opposite Mars there is a strong subconscious sexual draw, with Eros/Venus/South Node square to the Moon/Jupiter midpoint you had a fated feeling that he was your true love/soulmate for life.
Chiron/Pluto gives an overwhelming attachment at intimate and sexual level, this touches you deeply in your subconscious sexual sphere cause natally you have Chiron/Pluto square Mars, so there's a glue to your inner sexual sphere carrying a wound and you subconsciously perceived him as the healer/liberator or the only one who could share your most intimate world with.
The Moon/Jupiter midpoint square Venus/South Node in 12th house suggests a karmic link or subconscious unsolved issue which you're stuck to in your relationship sphere, and this is what may prevent you to fully experience an intimate bond/committment which is what you potentially felt with this guy and you seem not to find in such intensity anymore with anyone else.

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thatonegirllol
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posted December 01, 2020 01:20 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for thatonegirllol     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Haha youíre right once again

Thanks for looking at the charts

I guess thereís nothing else I can do but continue to live with these feelings until they reside, considering the connections

It just gets overwhelming sometimes

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