posted November 29, 2020 10:06 PM
a year ago i made a post on here about needing help cause i was stuck on someone. i posted the composite and synastry and an explanation was given to me
well, im dating a different person now. yet this particular person is still on my mind
we have sun trine pluto and mars-pluto. thats it. but its not obssesive synastry like moon and venus-pluto
in fact i have moon and venus AND sun-pluto with the person im currently with and i dont even feel deeply for them. even with my mars exactly conjunct their venus. still, nothing. and i should be right? all those intense contacts
so what could be causing this? i have a scoprio venus if that counts, in the 8th house. so maybe im just being a scorpio venus. stuck on someone. but uranus squares my venus so indifference starts to hit me after a while, and keeps me from being obsessive
keep in mind i dont check their instagram, or twitter, or etc. i dont stalk them, or anyone. it makes me feel inferior
they're just in my head day in and day out. you can imagine how this affects my current relationship
so back to my original question. what could be causing this?
are there any asteroids in astrology that could indicate something like this taking place for me? any planetary placements? transits? synastry, composite, natal, it doesn't matter
i was told last time it was our 12th house composite love stellium making trines to saturn. and that since we had a moon-venus conjunction, their venus on my ascendant, their moon on my ascendant, their moon conjunct mine, that i was just yearning.
but this has lasted too long. this is not my usual pattern of liking someone, which is short and intense
and usually if you're not seeing or interacting with someone you should eventually forget them but i just cant. any help would be appreciated,