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Topic: What type of Relationship is this Love or Friend?
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Reggie
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From: New York
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posted December 06, 2020 10:08 AM
  
Can someone give me some insight into these 2 charts 1. is synastry and the other is the composite. is this love or just friendship type of relationship?Synastry Chart: https://imgbox.com/UKwowbaT Composite Chart: https://imgbox.com/AiPj8LFn
Thank you.
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Reggie
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posted December 06, 2020 10:09 AM
the links never work for me  Synastry Chart: http://imgbox.com/UKwowbaT Composite Chart: http://imgbox.com/AiPj8LFn IP: Logged |
StoneMoon
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posted December 06, 2020 07:08 PM
Well I hope others will chime in. I am going to go with romantic, but I don't think it's lasting. I suspect deception potential and hurt feelings/struggling communication in the synastry. And struggles with jealousy or games in the composite. It looks a little intense to be honest. It might help if you give more details? IP: Logged |
Reggie
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posted December 07, 2020 02:24 PM
Hi StoneMoon! thank you for responding. This is for a female friend of mine who is dating this new guy and I want to make sure she does not get hurt. I do not have his exact Birth Time. I almost feel she is in a rebound relationship or a karmic one since she just broke it off with her long-term guy about 8 months ago. I want her to get back with her Ex because he is devastated. IP: Logged |
Reggie
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posted December 08, 2020 06:54 AM
Anyone else has any thoughts on this? I would love some input on this please trying to help a friend. @stoika I would love to hear your take on this since you have been so helpful with my own relationship. IP: Logged |
comdoc
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posted December 10, 2020 06:07 PM
Reggie, imgur.com has a BBcode(Forums) copy link. Copy and Paste it into your post, and remove the "s" from https.IP: Logged |
Reggie
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posted December 11, 2020 07:31 AM
Hi @comdoc thanks for the help!  Please let me know your thoughts. @stoika or anyone else would like your input on this. IP: Logged |
Reggie
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posted December 11, 2020 07:32 AM
It worked! Composite Chart:
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Reggie
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posted December 12, 2020 05:19 AM
@stonemoon any further thoughts on this can someone else please chime in trying to help a friend. Help!IP: Logged |
StoneMoon
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posted December 12, 2020 05:36 PM
there are just so many challenging squares happening in that composite- moon to mars, moon to BML, pluto to venusI think this is not a healthy relationship. There is a lot of manipulation potential here, but it will feel really intense. Did she leave her now ex for this man? IP: Logged |
softissues
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posted December 12, 2020 06:36 PM
Hi Reggie, hopefully, I can bring some help in here. I'll make comments that stick out to me. I'm not that advanced so bare with me.Synastry: His Lilith conjunct her ascendant can bring wild sexual energy. Intense interaction. And she's a scorp ascendant so the intensity should not be unfamiliar to her. Especially with her Lilith natally in the first house anyway. Could show themes of sexual objectification. Personally, mars in 6th is an annoying placement. Could bring frustration in daily activities. The constant push to do certain things, extra effort in work, etc. Sun in 6th could bring subordination of one partner and with your friend's Virgo sun and moon, she may be more inclined to be that. His venus is here so maybe they met at work and/or he may be interested in her daily activities or health. Composite:
StoneMoon is correct. The venus square pluto is not cute. Moon square neptune, illusions of emotional security. Moon square mars isn't a great aspect but they're in mutable signs so it isn't as harsh. Mars sesquisquare Pluto is a minor aspect but adds onto the intensity. This adds to the potential manipulation and with Mars in Gemini a lot of mental stimulation. And the cancer placements (don't come for me) but there could be a lot of victim mentality. And I love cancers but that is a constant theme with the negatives of cancer placements.
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Reggie
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posted December 13, 2020 10:30 AM
Hi StoneMoon & softissues,yes, she left her ex and is now only spending time with this man. When confronted she said he is just a friend. But on social media, she is putting him on a pedestal and showering him with gratitude. she has been hanging around him since around May / June of this year. Though this is not a healthy relationship i guess since she feels it is intense guessing she is not experiencing any of the issues like a "Honeymoon" period? Do you see them separating anytime soon in the composite? Is this guy going to hurt her and teach her some kind of emotional lesson? I see His Chiron is in her 7th house in Synastry. What else can that indicate? IP: Logged |
Reggie
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posted December 14, 2020 11:19 AM
Thanks again @softissues Can a couple have a happy relationship regardless if they have Bad Synastry and or Bad Composite? On Social media, these 2 seem very happy and in love. IP: Logged |
Reggie
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posted December 17, 2020 07:33 AM
Bump! Does anyone see a separation between the two in the Composite in the near future?IP: Logged |
Reggie
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posted December 22, 2020 10:54 AM
Bump! can anyone see a separation soon?IP: Logged |
Reggie
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posted January 01, 2021 01:06 PM
Hello All, Update: Soo He proposed to her a few days back and she said yes. So, guess it is possible for people to come together even though they have a bad synastry / composite. Any thoughts around couples that got engaged or married with bad charts? IP: Logged |
Reggie
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posted January 02, 2021 05:18 PM
Hello @stonemoon can you please explain why you think it's not long-lasting? they have been together for over 9 months and are now engaged. IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted January 10, 2021 08:28 PM
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julyjuly
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posted January 11, 2021 01:49 AM
quote:
Originally posted by Reggie:
she has been hanging around him since around May / June of this year. Though this is not a healthy relationship i guess since she feels it is intense guessing she is not experiencing any of the issues like a "Honeymoon" period? Do you see them separating anytime soon in the composite? Is this guy going to hurt her and teach her some kind of emotional lesson? I see His Chiron is in her 7th house in Synastry. What else can that indicate?
Their synasty and composite is average and if their relationship started during Venus retrograde last year and when transit Uranus was conjunct her descendant there is a big chance they wont make it and probably will separate. IP: Logged |
Voix_de_la_Mer
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posted January 11, 2021 08:35 AM
2 cents. In their synastry, it is likely that the Venus square Mars is what has attracted them to each other, but I don't see much in the way of aspects to mitigate the downside of this configuration. I don't like that Mercury opposite Saturn. I think over time that could play out with Saturn attempting to dismiss and overrule Mercury, which would be unwise with a Mercury in Aries.------------------
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Reggie
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posted January 12, 2021 06:25 AM
Thank you @julyjuly Yes, I believe it did start during Venus Retrograde which was in May - June 2020. She moved in with him in June I know that for a fact. Not sure when Uranus was conjunct her DESC.@Voix_de_la_Mer thank you for your comment. So, you don't see this lasting either? It's so odd to see people with so many squares get together...sometimes I feel like synastry means nothing if 2 people are willing to make it work no matter what in the name of love? IP: Logged |
Voix_de_la_Mer
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posted January 13, 2021 05:03 AM
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Originally posted by Reggie:
Thank you @julyjuly Yes, I believe it did start during Venus Retrograde which was in May - June 2020. She moved in with him in June I know that for a fact. Not sure when Uranus was conjunct her DESC.@Voix_de_la_Mer thank you for your comment. So, you don't see this lasting either? It's so odd to see people with so many squares get together...sometimes I feel like synastry means nothing if 2 people are willing to make it work no matter what in the name of love?
Well, if people see a relationship as an opportunity to grow and develop on a personal level (as I often do) then they will be drawn in by squares as opposed to being put off by them. For this reason, squares could lead to longevity for as long as both have that mindset. ------------------
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