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posted December 06, 2020 12:16 PM            

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Hello!

Some composite hard aspects, especially between Saturn, Pluto, Mars and Uranus are indeed challengeable and are considered dealbrakers or signs that relationship is "doomed". I'm very curious of hearing the possible negotiable role of easy Jupiter and Neptune aspects to otherways afflicted planets. Thank you.

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posted December 07, 2020 07:22 AM            

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No one aspect dooms a relationship. I’ve seen the aspects you mentioned in long-term relationships. What may prove to be too challenging is if you have too many difficult aspects and too few harmonious aspects. See the whole picture.

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posted December 07, 2020 01:38 PM            

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Well...

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posted December 07, 2020 03:48 PM            

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You can also look into the natal chart to see if the people involved are familiar to the aspects that are found in the composite.
We are going after what it feels familiar to us, from our past relationships or how we were raised. For example, for a plutonian individual, some hard aspects from Pluto could be wanted and would make the person to stay in the relationship, and for a person with just easy aspects, will not stay because it will be frightening to be involved. Some aspects that you shared in the composite with your parents will be found in the composites with your long term partner because it is familiar and we tend to go after the things we know about. For a neptunian person, it will be a must to have a dreamy kind of relationship, or a savior-victim type of relationship, depending mostly on how evolved is the person. Or for a saturnian person, some high levels of responsibility is needed. For an uranian person, some Aquarius placements or aspects could be needed.

The aspects remain as they are and their meaning doesn't change, just the people involved are more or less capable to handle them.

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posted December 07, 2020 04:00 PM            

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I see and agree.

T-square from Saturn to Ascendant, Pluto and Mars is something I consider just so ******* difficult because of what I've heard. There are some purging aspects (Pluto on Asc and opp Mars) which I actually consider good and welcomed, but when I saw the Asc square I thought the relationship itself is doomed to break.

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posted December 15, 2020 10:18 AM            

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Bump!

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