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softissues
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posted December 13, 2020 05:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for softissues     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hello everyone, so I am interested in looking deeper into this aspect but there's not a lot of info out there on the world wide web . I would love to know your opinions, experience etc. I have this with someone I know and it is a tight tight conjunction to my descendant. Kinda worried since some mention physical violence and Mars in Leo generally **** me off anyway (my dad has it lol) but there's no conjunction and it's never been in my 7th house before.

I've heard that it can be really irritating and conflict here (obvious) but I'm not sure on how favourable it is. Sigh.

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H20AC
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posted December 13, 2020 05:41 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for H20AC     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I am also an Aquarius rising! And I also have Mars in Leo in my 7th,

I’ve had this aspect with other people who happened to have their Mars conjunct my DC. They usually get frustrated with how I do things.. especially in The work place! Even if I’m doing the right thing, they always have something to say, they can get very petty and vent their anger on you. Especially if they suffer from mental problems or in general, anger issues. They are usually the ones who get **** from the managers for “trying to boss me around”. I don’t even have to say anything, (I am not the favorite employee) people will notice them acting this way and they naturally get ****** off at them.
It seems like, in my experience, that the Mars person, will come off as a bully in the eyes of everybody.

It doesn’t have to be a violent interaction, but it seems like usually the Mars person will think that he/she knows better.

Sooner of later the Mars person, will realize what they did (they always do!) and eventually try to apologize. To me it’s more like a KARMIC aspect. They show their worst and then get in trouble for that, luckily...

** I see that you use Orcus. What does it symbolize?

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softissues
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posted December 13, 2020 05:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for softissues     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
@H20AC

Hello, you seem to be the perfect person to shed light on this for me! Gosh, do I know a thing or two about people being petty. It's so annoying and just horrible. It just sucks that I have this aspect with a potential love interest because of look at those planets in my 7th house sigh. And because you have it natally too, you know the energy of Mars in Leo. They'd probably be really prideful when they come for me :-(( which is aggravating!

And no! I don't use Orcus! Idek what it means, I just added a bunch of asteroids so someone could look into it lol. I should probably look into this though. You've been a catalyst to think about two things in my life today, I should probably check our synastry lol.

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H20AC
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posted December 13, 2020 06:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for H20AC     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
With Mars in Leo, IF you sense bossiness from them, don’t be afraid to shut them off right away.
I have it and I usually try to be nice to people, even when I don’t like how they do things... I’ve noticed though that those who have a birth chart that has many planets in Leo (stellium), they can forget how to ask things in a polite way.

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posted December 13, 2020 07:41 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for softissues     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you for the advice, that's usually not a problem because I'm pretty bossy in general and sassy as hell (mars in sag) but the energy is so combative.

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GalacticCoreExplosion
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posted December 13, 2020 07:48 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
In Synastry, it can also mean a very a very strong mutual sexual attraction, though usually the Mars person feels it a bit more. Like rip each others clothes off kind of lust.

ASC=body, it's temperament and reactions, and Mars=raw animal sexual, very red, energy.

Oppositions=powerful, magnetic attraction but sometimes also repulsion, relationships, the seeking of balance, and push pull dynamics.

When you put it all together, you can get very strong sexual attraction.

For me, it's rough because I have Aqua Venus in my 7th, so when a Lass has Mars same or opposite Sign of my Rising (Leo), it's usually opposite or same Sign as my Venus (which also rules my Moon), and so the attraction is usually crazy intense.

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posted December 13, 2020 07:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for H20AC     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

With Venus in your 7th the energy will definitely be much more positive than just having some negative friction.

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posted December 13, 2020 08:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for H20AC     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
@softissues

I just checked our Composite chart. We have a tight conjunction between Vertex and NN in the 7th.
Also the Moon is on the MC.

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posted December 13, 2020 09:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for softissues     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by GalacticCoreExplosion:
In Synastry, it can also mean a very a very strong mutual sexual attraction, though usually the Mars person feels it a bit more. Like rip each others clothes off kind of lust.

ASC=body, it's temperament and reactions, and Mars=raw animal sexual, very red, energy.

Oppositions=powerful, magnetic attraction but sometimes also repulsion, relationships, the seeking of balance, and push pull dynamics.

When you put it all together, you can get very strong sexual attraction.

For me, it's rough because I have Aqua Venus in my 7th, so when a Lass has Mars same or opposite Sign of my Rising (Leo), it's usually opposite or same Sign as my Venus (which also rules my Moon), and so the attraction is usually crazy intense.


Thank you for your response but I love intensity. Especially with the person in question, he has Venus square or sesquisquare my Asc (or not at all because I don’t have his birth time ffs) so I don’t know what this meansss. I hate abrupt attraction like the attraction is there at first but then it fizzles out. But he has Jupiter trine my Asc so I’m like if anything, this should be great loool.

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posted December 13, 2020 09:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for softissues     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
@H20AC

His Venus squares my Mars and possibly my ASC too so I’m like yikes.

And ooo what do those aspects mean? They seem great lol. The conjunction between those aspects are karmic but I haven’t had moon in 10th with anyone I know before (not that I know of at least).

Also how did you manage a composite chart without the details of my birth?

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H20AC
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posted December 13, 2020 10:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for H20AC     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I saw London so I kept that. Then I looked at the outer planets (Pluto, Saturn, Neptune & Uranus) and I played with Astro.com and found all the placements.

Edit:
I removed the bday and tob that I wrote here, just in case you don’t want them online.
I wish I could message you about it but I can’t send anything private here.

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softissues
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posted December 14, 2020 05:25 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for softissues     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
@H20AC

That's interesting, the trial and error moves here are amazing. And you are correct about sharing my actual birth details so I appreciate it. I've created a gmail specifically for this so you can email with any info if you want.

softissues9@gmail.com

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GalacticCoreExplosion
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posted December 14, 2020 08:15 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by H20AC:

With Venus in your 7th the energy will definitely be much more positive than just having some negative friction.


It can increase both the "pull" and also the "push" sides of an already strongly push-pull type aspect.

That's because Venus and Mars are already opposites. Then also in opposition. That is a lot of powerful magnetic energy interaction, which can lead to discomfort and sometimes fighting against that.

Or think of it as to large, powerful magnets that attract together so hard and fast that its violent and hurts. This is like some chemical, catalytic type reaction which btw, involves--you guess it, opposite charges (in this case positive and negative charges. And, the more positively charged the positive charge, and the more negatively charged the negative charge, the more strongly they tend to react. Particularly strong reactions are said to be violently exothermic and/or explosive reactions. Well Venus is the negative charge and Mars the positive).

Ideally, it leads to balance between the extremes. Venus gets a little bit of Mars, and Mars gets a little bit of Venus, so they become more integrated and balanced. Psychologically, Venus becomes more assertive and individualistic, and Mars becomes more giving and allowing.

I've noticed it's a bit easier when the person has Aquarius Mars, vs Leo Mars where they are opposite (for me).

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H20AC
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posted December 14, 2020 10:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for H20AC     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
@GalacticCoreExplosion

“ I've noticed it's a bit easier when the person has Aquarius Mars, vs Leo Mars where they are opposite (for me).”

I think that might be because it’s generally easier to deal with Air than Fire.
Fire Mars is usually assertive while Air Mars tends to be more passive aggressive... in my experience!

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posted December 22, 2020 05:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted December 13, 2022 04:17 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for sassaqua     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Bump!

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girlwiththerainysoul
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posted December 13, 2022 12:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for girlwiththerainysoul     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Currently I am mad-attracted to this guy.

His Mars is in my 7th house, but not conjunct DC like the OP is asking.

I am really curious what will happen between us.

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