posted December 18, 2020 10:46 AM            

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posted December 21, 2020 11:09 AM            

With me and my person, when taking in signs and house placements of the NN, Saturn and Mercury, it shows I need to break my patterns of codependency and stop my overcommunicating so he will come to me, and he needs to learn to overcome his hang-ups, his rigid, stoic and stubborn personality and openly express himself which is very difficult for him. He will feel incredibly selfish for doing it, but he must do it. For me, communication and love relationships are comfortable and like second nature. I think that's why the Universe is teaching me to shut up and make him do it! So hard for both of us but in different ways! I have learned SOOOO MUCH about myself and completely transformed for the better while dealing with this relationship, with basically no contact! I feel like a whole new amazing person - I've found my independence and learned what I will and will not accept and tolerate in romantic relationships. He truly activated my North Node and it was NOT fun when I was in the thick of it.

I also notice that your person's Chiron is conjunct your South Node. There must be some kind of karma between you that caused a lot of pain in a past life and now in this one you will need to learn the lesson. Saturn will make you buckle down and do it. It will help you/them with your life purpose, like you are learning a tough life lesson by feeling the way you do but not being able to be with or speak to this person. I know that's the way I felt.

posted December 21, 2020 04:49 PM            

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Originally posted by STACEYBAE:
I just did a brief rudimentary look at your synastry and I couldn't help but notice you have the same exact aspects as me and my person who I can't let go of either and want desperately to speak to after 10 months of pretty much no contact. Mercury and Saturn conjunct North Node, is that right? Yah, talk about supergluing you to someone. But it seems the Saturn glues you to the person but also painfully delays things as well, in this case with Mercury - delaying communication. Also, your moons are squaring each other, which may be the cause of the petty argument and when moon is involved - it's PERSONAL.

With me and my person, when taking in signs and house placements of the NN, Saturn and Mercury, it shows I need to break my patterns of codependency and stop my overcommunicating so he will come to me, and he needs to learn to overcome his hang-ups, his rigid, stoic and stubborn personality and openly express himself which is very difficult for him. He will feel incredibly selfish for doing it, but he must do it. For me, communication and love relationships are comfortable and like second nature. I think that's why the Universe is teaching me to shut up and make him do it! So hard for both of us but in different ways! I have learned SOOOO MUCH about myself and completely transformed for the better while dealing with this relationship, with basically no contact! I feel like a whole new amazing person - I've found my independence and learned what I will and will not accept and tolerate in romantic relationships. He truly activated my North Node and it was NOT fun when I was in the thick of it.

I also notice that your person's Chiron is conjunct your South Node. There must be some kind of karma between you that caused a lot of pain in a past life and now in this one you will need to learn the lesson. Saturn will make you buckle down and do it. It will help you/them with your life purpose, like you are learning a tough life lesson by feeling the way you do but not being able to be with or speak to this person. I know that's the way I felt.

Please take a moment to look at the bigger picture. What do you feel intuitively, after looking at signs and house placements of these conjunctions, that both of you are meant to learn? You need to learn those lessons and then the tension inside you will ease significantly I think. I know they have in my case. When you realize your struggles are happening for your own good and there is a powerful lesson to learn, it helps with the no contact. Work on yourself through all of this, it's an amazing feeling.

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Wow thank you SO much! You've really helped me to better understand things, especially the significance of my NN conjunct his Mercury & Saturn. That's crazy that you have the same aspects, and are going through something very similar! Well done for taking this time to work on yourself I have really tried to since going no contact, and I've discovered a lot of new hobbies (astrology being one of them!), but I still find myself thinking about him constantly, even though I know it's not the right time for us. I believe I have a very similar lesson to learn as you, and he was the trigger. I know deep down we were supposed to meet in this lifetime, what I don't know is if there will be a future for us. As much as I do want that, I'm trying not to have any expectations and just let it happen if it's meant to.

Even though our Moons are square, I did feel that we were very emotionally compatible, like our conversations went really emotionally deep and we were comfortable opening up to each other. I always thought it was because my natal Moon is in my 12th house, and his is in Pisces. But at the same time I do feel that maybe subconsciously we were emotionally triggering each other, hence the petty argument.

posted December 21, 2020 07:16 PM            

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Originally posted by Helena.37:
Wow thank you SO much! You've really helped me to better understand things, especially the significance of my NN conjunct his Mercury & Saturn. That's crazy that you have the same aspects, and are going through something very similar! Well done for taking this time to work on yourself I have really tried to since going no contact, and I've discovered a lot of new hobbies (astrology being one of them!), but I still find myself thinking about him constantly, even though I know it's not the right time for us. I believe I have a very similar lesson to learn as you, and he was the trigger. I know deep down we were supposed to meet in this lifetime, what I don't know is if there will be a future for us. As much as I do want that, I'm trying not to have any expectations and just let it happen if it's meant to.

Even though our Moons are square, I did feel that we were very emotionally compatible, like our conversations went really emotionally deep and we were comfortable opening up to each other. I always thought it was because my natal Moon is in my 12th house, and his is in Pisces. But at the same time I do feel that maybe subconsciously we were emotionally triggering each other, hence the petty argument.

You are definitely right about my SN conjunct his Chiron...when we first met I felt like I'd met him before, but the energy felt off, like I felt he didn't like me at first! He couldn't even look at me and he doesn't know why he acted like that as we became really close friends afterwards. It must have been that initial soul recognition. I wonder what I did to him in a past life!

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You are very welcome, and thank you! It's nice to hear how someone on the other end feels, since I'm the Saturn and Mercury conjuncting his North Node. I feel like I'm the teacher in all of this, but I had to figure out the curriculum first. Only took me 10 months, LOL! I think you're right, you may have done something to cause him pain in a past life and now he is the karmic teacher to you in this life. You are having to make up for something, sorry to say

As an example, my person's Venus is conjunct my Descendant and South Node and my Ascendant, Ceres and Devota are conjunct his South Node, so we have past life indicators as well. He was very attracted to me upon initial meeting but felt uneasy and thrown off by something (my Neptune is conjunct his moon exact - I can LITERALLY sense/feel his emotions which helps as he does not express them). Based on our synastry, I think we were married in a past life but he had A LOT of trouble showing and expressing love to me which caused me pain and I was very codependent on him for my self worth, very devoted and unconditionally loving which maybe he felt he didn't deserve. Now in this life he is being forced to fall in love with me again, even more intensely, but now under extremely difficult circumstances (he is married to someone else). Maybe karma for taking my unconditional love for granted in a previous life?

We started out as friends as well and my feelings for him are intensifying over time too, and I do think about him constantly, but have accepted the fact that we may never be together as it's up to him to get the ball rolling and he is a very stubborn man. I know he is a good man, faithful to his wife (even though she hasn't been to him) and trying to do the right thing in his mind, but he will wrestle with himself and be in pain until he follows his North Node which I activated. But it's okay, I'm a better person having gone through this - and you will be too!

Just a thought, but maybe YOU are the one who needs to reestablish contact? I don't know what your argument was about, but maybe you need to apologize - just throwing that out there, don't hate me! Since you're the Gemini moon, maybe you said something to him that seemed harmless to you but to his sensitive Pisces moon it felt cold, detached and insensitive? You may not realize this or it seems like a mystery because of your 12th house moon placement. You may have felt it was "petty" because of your air Gemini moon but to him it was anything but? Keep in mind though that his birth time is an estimate so he could very well have a late degree Aquarius moon.