posted December 21, 2020 06:42 PM            

General comments, we have a similar natal chart! Aqua rising, moon and uranus in 1st, neptune in 12th, saturn in 3rd, jupiter in 4th and pluto and chiron in MC. I feel like talking to you just based on our similarities and getting to know you more lol.

I see your 8th house and her 8th house are activated. Generally, the planet person feels more when they're situated in the 8th house. I have a friend who is super close to me, we've discussed deep things and they have their Scorpio moon in my 8th and our relationship shocks them. They've told me things that people that have known them longer than me don't know. They also have jupiter in my 11th house which you have in their 11th house. This is a good friendship placement but idk why it wouldn't be good for a relationship either. It probably shows that you may want them to be in your life for a long time. That friend also has their Saturn in my first house and generally with someone's Saturn in your first house, you probably feel like making a good impression on them.

And interestingly the same friend does have similar placements as your partner. And my friend also doesn't have many people around her. That's so intriguing.

The 7th house is generally looked for in partnerships and with their sun in your 7th house, they probably embody as the perfect partner. Your Uranus is in their 7th house which indicates instability in your relationship (need to check aspects for that). Could be the relationship was sudden. You may have provoked them in a way and you may have progressive ideas of a relationship. Not too sure about that relationship tho, I only know about Uranus in 7th house natally.

posted December 22, 2020 12:13 PM            

DISCLAIMER: I am not really really knowledgable, a lot of things are from my own experience so take everything I say with a grain of salt.

Okay let's see your charts now.

Synastry:

Okay me having Venus in the 1st natally, I always look at this first and then the moon. Your venus is square her ascendant, she probably isn't your usual type for a partner even if there's a major attraction at first. And with her venus trine your ascendant, she probably does find you attractive.

Your moons square each other, I have this with the friend in question and honestly, you can defo work around it. You just have different emotional responses to things and/or you both have differing moods. For example, when one is happy the other may not be and vice versa.

Your natal mars in cancer in the 12th house is so cute (( like I usually find it jarring with guys but idk why I find it cute here. It's in her 6th house, now I personally don't like mars there. However, the aspects aren't bad with it trining her sun and moon but generally, you activate 6th house issues like health, routine etc. My dad has this with me and ngl it's annoying as hell but that's because we have harsh aspects loool.

Your juno is conjunct her mercury which is nice.

Do you have different belief systems?

Your moon is conjunct her venus, such a cute aspect. I had this with my ex. The only negatives with this one is the tendency to brush past issues for the sake of keeping peace. She probably really cares about your emotional well being.

Okay aspects I don't like,

your juno squaring her neptune, maybe false illusions of commitment? or something that isn't clear? Thankfully this isn't translated in your composite otherwise I would have written this relationship off straight away.

Your true node squares her uranus, her unpredictability could affect your goals and what you want to do?

Moon semisquare mercury, now semisquare isn't too bad but they may hurt your feelings with their words sometimes.

Other things:

Her vertex conjunct your Chiron, maybe she wants to help heal your wounds or triggers those wounds you may need to heal?

Composite:

venus in 7th is cute, idk much about pluto here but probably a transformative union for you both. Mars in 4th, idk how I feel about that, probably action to do more with 4th house issues. Jupiter in 4th seems nice and probably why you may feel at home with each other (usually the sun kind of has that effect but as Jupiter blesses any house it's in, it could be why).

I really don't like the moon square saturn, I just hate that aspect alone. Thankfully there's no harsh moon-pluto aspects.

Neptune conjunct moon, probably sensitive to each other's emotion.

In general pluto is really activated in the composite so this union would be transformative on both of you, something difficult for you to forget and with your moon conjunct her pluto in synastry, this may affect her quite a bit.

Venus conjunct pluto is hotttttttttt, and obvs I'd say that because I'm intense but it's amazing. You may be possessive of each other, scratch that, you probably are which I love.

And omg I just checked, you have taurus rising in composite which is a nice rising to have tbh in a relationship. Somewhat stable, homely and nice.

And with the 9th house activated, I may sense some difference in belief systems or a change there, maybe you have different backgrounds?

Venus square mars indicates strong attraction but generally with squares the rose coloured glasses come off while with trines, sextiles and even conjunctions that may not be the case.

I would love to know more about your charts in particular and compare them to mine and my friend. If you would like we could discuss them over email (mine is softissues9@gmail.com) or if you have other questions. Your charts are super interesting. And of course, all feedback is welcome!