posted December 24, 2020 09:17 PM            

I have the square and the conjunction with two different people in synastry. But they also have these aspects in their natal chart.

posted December 24, 2020 09:38 PM            

I never had Neptune conjunct Moon in synastry before.
Natally, I have Neptune conjunct Juno/North Node/DC. I like when someones Sun, Venus or Moon has a conjunction to Neptune in the Natal Chart. It's like that form of looking at the other and feel like there's no one in this world like them. Yes, idealization, but that's what someone does when they love another person. Loving them for who they are, with the good and the bad, kinda helps you to accept his/her flaws. If Pluto is involved, you will try to dominate them and change them, if Saturn is involved, you will criticize them to the point that they will lose self-esteem.

posted December 24, 2020 09:58 PM            

She's using the Pluto words to describe Neptune conjunct Moon.

posted December 24, 2020 11:06 PM            

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Originally posted by mee_chryssa:
I feel like there is some of her opinions in this, rather than reality.

I never had Neptune conjunct Moon in synastry before.
Natally, I have Neptune conjunct Juno/North Node/DC. I like when someones Sun, Venus or Moon has a conjunction to Neptune in the Natal Chart. It's like that form of looking at the other and feel like there's no one in this world like them. Yes, idealization, but that's what someone does when they love another person. Loving them for who they are, with the good and the bad, kinda helps you to accept his/her flaws. If Pluto is involved, you will try to dominate them and change them, if Saturn is involved, you will criticize them to the point that they will lose self-esteem.

What she says in the video that Neptune is actually the Pluto seems a bit too much. And the things that she says is more about the square and opposition with Neptune in synastry than the conjunction.
I had Neptune in square and opposition in synastry.
I have right now with a co-worker an opposition to my Mars and it always feels like she's hiding something, like not everything is transparent between us.
I had a square to my Venus from a guy's Neptune that I dated this year and I kept thinking why is like I feel like I am misleaded everytime I talk with him and I realized right now why.
But with the conjunction didn't feel like that. Felt like true love, my first Venus-Neptune guy told me that I was his first love and it was difficult to break us, he "made me" (if that's the correct verb to use) declarations of love, dedicated romantic songs to me, which I liked very much, the other guy looked at me like I was perfect and there was nothing else in the world, and I feel the same about them.
People who have a connection to Neptune in the natal chart, they believe in true love and only love. I'm talking now about easy aspects and conjunction. The square and opposition would point to lack of boundaries, deception, illusions, etc.
Neptune is the higher octav of Venus and is pretty needed in a synastry for romance and love. Venus is not enough.

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posted December 24, 2020 11:44 PM            

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Originally posted by mee_chryssa:
We often accept what we are used to, just like I like Pisces energy and Neptune, but not with the square and opposition. Conjunction is a hard aspect too, but maybe I'm into this energy and I don't see it as hard aspect.

The square is still a difficult aspect. With this guy I dated, I couldn't express myself clearly - but that I think it was because in the composite our mars was in Cancer - I always did what he wanted, like we met when he wanted, if I was asking him out, he wouldn't come. I was the Venus in this. I can't really explain it, but I felt many times that he was lying to me and I guess he was kinda confused about me. He also has his DC in Pisces.

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